[SHINEE_jonghyun<3]

Ok. So one of my closest friends from church got a girlfriend around a month ago. I didn't approve of the relationship because the girl was very arrogant and conceited and I just do not like those kind of girls..but he was happy so there was nothing I could do about it..
The girl goes to my school so I see her often. Since I was going to be seeing the girl alot, I decided to play it cool and after a while, I didn't really have a problem with her.

But yesterday I found out that my friend wasn't the guy that she liked, but she liked this junior in my school, and she was just using my friend to..I guess make the junior jealous or something. She tries to flirt with any guy who she can and I just don't think she deserves a boyfriend like my friend. MY friend and the girl has the same birthday too. And my friend got her this present worth over $100 and she didn't get him even a card. :/

I don't know whether or not I should tell my friend..especially since just a few days ago, he told me that this girl is the first girl that he really likes. I want to tell him, but I feel like that's just going to break his heart, but if I don't tell him, he's just going to end up being a fool for a girl like her..

So..should I tell him?

[geekchiiq]

i think you should tell him, even if it'll break his heart...
he has the right to know don't you think?
he's going to find out about her anyway, you might as well tell him now before he falls for her even more

just make sure you can prove it, or he might think you're lying

[Joisushi]

^ I agree...I would tell him...


That girl is horrible...T_T;

[chibichi07]

Yea, I would tell him- PRONTO.

[axe_pheonix]

Tell him... but make sure you tell in cautiously. This could easily turn bad if you tell him incorrectly.

If you just go up to him and your like "Dude your girl, shes no good! Flirting with other guys, using you to make other guys jealous, heck - she didnt even buy you a birthday card! Tsk, you better think twice about her."

That might make YOU sound like a jerk and make him not like you. So be careful! But yes, tell.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Since I love ruining flirty/player/people I don't like lifes , then if I were you, I'd tell your friend lol.
She'll get nothing in the end (Hopefully), plus, I also hate those kind of girls, so I'd even make her be hated xD

problem is, I doubt he'll trust you, he might even be angry to you.

thing is, she might be the first girl he really likes, but if she doesn't like him, then Shall we change the name? "The first time I've been used by a girl". That suits it better in my opinion.

[kRaZiExLaDiE]

you should tell him
tell him you want the best for him and you don`t want to see him get used by a girl like her.
he might be hurt/angry so tell him you are his friend and you`re only looking out for him.
im mean really ...
it would suck even more if he found out later when she breaks his heart
and tells you about it & you`re like 'yeah.. i already knew'
you`ll look like a bad friend & he`ll feel like the world`s against him
first the user girl dumps him.. then finds out that his friend just lets him fall into the trap

[EHNerJI]

i would tell him, lol.
some may say that it's not really your business..
but, i know that if i was being played,
i'd want to be told before i found out (the hard way).
BUT, definitely make sure that it's true and not just a rumor ?
because, if it ends up not even being true, your friend may lose trust in you ? ._.;
but, in the end, if it ends up being true -- that she doesn't like him,
since he'd find out anyways, it'd hurt more, the longer it goes on.

[Angxizzle]

as a close friend, i'd say give him a heads up about what you see and if he takes it or doesnt that's his call at least you told him.

[[RingoStarx3]]

He has the right to know, the more you keep it to your self the more he will get hurt.
If he doesn't listen, all you can do is warn him and hope he takes your words to heart.
Either that or he will learn on his own the hard way.

[daulism]

i agree! better tell him before he gets even more hurt later...

[Shikabane Hime]

No, don't meddle with others' affairs. It'll only make you the bad egg.

[linny]

This sounds like meddling. How do you know what you heard is true?

Besides, your guy friend is a big boy. He can handle himself. If this girl is only using him, it'll become apparent soon enough.

I'd stay out of it.

[heyitzthatfc]

No, don't meddle with others' affairs. It'll only make you the bad egg.

Tell him. Be the bad egg.



EDIT: Actually, before you tell him, make sure you KNOW that what you say is true and not just what you think.

[laydeexklutz]

Well first of all i think you should tell him because it will be better that way . If you don't tell him sooner or later he'll be even more hurt because the longer the love lasts the more pain you'll feel .. Just like me .. So if you are his friend then i think it's best to tell him wsup . then that's a true friend

[Pandarah]

You should tell him ,
but try to get all of your friends together and do it ?
Or go somewhere he will be more...comfortable ?

If you do tell him, and he starts to cry or something right in front of you just be there for him.
But if he like runs away or leaves I think you should just leave him alone?

Just make sure that she really flirts with other guys and really likes another guy.
It would make more sense if you have seen these kind of things happen right in front of your own eyes.

[CitrusFlower]

I would definitely tell him. I can not stand by and watch my friend get used

[blissful*sin]

i say no
cos its none of your business to butt in others peeps affairs
why create drama?
since u dont like his gf
r u sure your aint a bit jealous of her?
tell da truth!

[_ATELIER]

i guess the right advice would be to let them handle the situation between themselves.
but speaking in my perspective, the first action i would pull is to rat that pinkberry out BAHAHAHHAHA.

[TVXQ_superjunior]

Tell him... and if he doesn't believe you then suit him...
When they dont work out, give them the "i told you so" look... XD
I did that with my ex-godbrother before...
he likes my friend and I know this friend of mine flirts with many guys (seriously, no lies... She have i think almost 20ex-bf before)
So I told him about her and said "if you still want to be with her, then it's fine by me. Just dont say i didn't warn you"
My friend hurt him really badly but he still loves her... haizzz...
Me and my godbro broke this whole godbro-godsis relationship cause my friend doesnt like me talking to him...


So, i hope this helps...