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#1 User is offline   junsujunsu 

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Posted 14 January 2009 - 03:28 PM

what is flirting and how do you do it? so you arent annoying and dont appear as a slut?
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 03:48 PM

If you don't know how to flirt, then I suggest you to show some skin.
Showing skin=attracting attention without having to flirt/do much work, because really, guys do majority of the work. Just look good and the guy will flirt with you.
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 03:52 PM

be natural about it

and just be playful! sometimes you can be nice to the guy and laugh at his jokes but don't be afraid to challenge him sometimes or shoot him back with a witty comeback. Verbal sparring is always fun without being too obvious because it shows that you not only have a sense of humor but also wit xD
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 03:52 PM

......but im shy? and dont look good? so bad looking people cant flirt?
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 03:58 PM

Swing your hair around like a crazy lady and make sure you catch the dudes you like in the face with those luscious locks.

QUOTE (junsujunsu @ Jan 14 2009, 11:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
......but im shy? and dont look good? so bad looking people cant flirt?

It doesn't matter, as long as you have hair its all good.
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 04:01 PM

LMAO ^^^^ i should try swinging my hair that i havent washed for 8 days, and see his reaction with dandruff all over
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 04:07 PM

QUOTE (junsujunsu @ Jan 15 2009, 12:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LMAO ^^^^ i should try swinging my hair that i havent washed for 8 days, and see his reaction with dandruff all over

You could try that yeah, erm... lemme know how that works out for you biggrin.gif
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 04:20 PM

One main thing about flirting is to act natural. Don't try too hard or it'll be obvious.
Try to challenge them like Tiffa_xx said.
And just smile at them when you make eye-contact or maybe you can wink if you want to be more daring.

I don't really know how to explain it, for some people it comes natural but for others it might take a little work. ^^
Don't worry, just act natural and be yourself.
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 06:40 PM

Bare some skin, then kick their ass.
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 07:19 PM

I guess first thing is 1) try to dress your self up a bit, wear some make up
2) try starting a convo with him
3) laugh whenever there's a chance lol
4) smile a lot
5) subtle touching
and if he has a brain he'll get the point lol
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 09:00 PM

Swing your hair to catch their attention, then bare some skin, then charge them for looking.
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 10:24 PM

Shrug.

It kinda depends on what you're going for you know? If you don't want to come off as too strong, but rather attract him in a ninja/secret-undercover-person kinda way, then just do what some of the other guys have said, the whole subtle touching, smiling, laughing, all that cute crap.

Or you could be hella straight up and just take your top off. A lot easier ya know?
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 11:23 PM

Go "Hey cutie, Wanna go to my house tonight?"

QUOTE (China-doll @ Jan 14 2009, 08:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I guess first thing is 1) try to dress your self up a bit, wear some make up
2) try starting a convo with him
3) laugh whenever there's a chance lol
4) smile a lot
5) subtle touching
and if he has a brain he'll get the point lol


What? Since when was that flirting?! Dayum I missed my chance ._.
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Posted 14 January 2009 - 11:38 PM

tease 'em.
half the time you might trample over his ego or he'll come back straight back with something, but take the bet . :]

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Posted 14 January 2009 - 11:49 PM

if you claim to be:

QUOTE (junsujunsu @ Jan 14 2009, 05:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
......but im shy? and dont look good? so bad looking people cant flirt?


then don't overtly flirt as a means of dropping hints.

it's better if you act naturally and then compliment him when the situation calls for it.

otherwise, just be yourself. flirting isn't all that necessary.
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Posted 19 January 2009 - 03:53 PM

lol...i'm loving these tips, theyre such lmao-material.
anyway, yeah like a lot of these guys have said: be yourself.
BUT you claim to be shy and is scared you're going to come off as slutty then ummm may be
- just smile [@ them] and not too much so you dont look like youve just injected yourself with a whole month's worth of botox or that youre crazy hyper.

- it also depends who your target is. i mean if you know the other person well, then the whole flirt-touch thing can be as subtle as a compliment in a conversation. e.g. me *to other people in the group*: omg, have you seen [insert name]'s hand? its so feminine. im so jealous." *turns to that person* "gimme your hand or just plainly grabs hand* : "you should be a hand model *smiles*" rolleyes.gif

- also, it doesnt matter if you're not as goodlooking as other people. it only matters if you exert that confidence and alot of that confidence is shown through the way you carry yourself. ie. your posture, stature, your eyes, etc.

- i dont know if this works for everyone but its fail proof for me is acting like a little kid. a friendly little kid that is. =]

LOL- i dont know what other people think flirting is but to me, its just about exerting that self-confidence to be able to tell someone youre interested. and like DeeIsRadicalYeah said its not necessary all the time, i guess the most basic thing to do is get their attention and if youre shy, you dont have to show them your interested in anyother way than basic friendliness or just basicly show them youre not DISINTERESTED.

ummm i hope i make sense.


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Posted 19 January 2009 - 04:02 PM

Talk dirty & compliment them Is all I can say.
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Posted 19 January 2009 - 04:09 PM

when u flirst u dont have to dress the part you just gotta tease and compliment the other person with something you like about them. e.g. "daym girl you got a nice booty"
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Posted 19 January 2009 - 05:14 PM

i'm a natural flirt.
i flirt with most guys without realizing it...
makes me sound like such a slut
but anyways!!!
you just have to be natural
don't make it seem like you're flirting, like a try hard..
roofl.
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Posted 19 January 2009 - 09:59 PM

best way to flirt is not to do it with a whole lot of guys. thats when people start to talk and you become a ho.e
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