[Collidexeyes]

I had a friend who was pretty close to me or at least I thought she was. I'd tell her who I'd like, go to the mall, hang out with her till night, and always had fun. The thing is though she's the type of person who lies, steals, and makes you feel like you're lucky that she's even your friend. I had a low-self esteem back then and well I never came to think she was just using me. It all started when she stole an important item from my household. It was valuable because it belonged to my mom and my dad bought it for her as a present. I found it a week later at her house and her things, such as make-up, money, and school ID was in it. I was a bit shocked I even told her sister, whom I also was good friends with, and confronted her.

She denied everything and made this lie that it was her friends and she was borrowing it from her. And even her acting skills were superb because she was crying and screaming her head off just for me to believe her. I was shocked and pretty hurt that she would lie and steal from me right in front of my face. Of course I didn't get the purse back because there was no proof and I cried almost every single night.

I'm not a vindictive person so I wouldn't get revenge but it made me pretty very bitter towards her. Even though all the years have past she finally admitted it just last year because she was confronted by her boyfriend of her doings but her words were "well it doesn't matter anymore because it was in the past."

I've grown up and I haven't forgave. I try to but its just something that will stick to me for a very long time.

So has anyone have/had a friend who had crossed the line?
were you able to forgive and forget?
Still friends?

[cicisaurr___]

Wow... o.o mines wasnt as serious as yours but i would never forget wat my ex-bff did to me. And no we're not friends.

It's kinda weird seeing her pass by the halls cause whenever i see her, the flashback of memories come back to me. i guess i'll always have a grudge inside me, even though i know its wrong, but its just something i can't ignore.

[ASiANBABYGiRL]

It`s been some.. I don`t know, 4 years since some incident between me and my now-ex best friend. I`m still unable to find the heart to forgive her.

[eximius]

I've only had a friend who'd show up to functions she was not welcomed to.
Like ones at my house. Stay around, pretend that she was totally a part of everything that was planned. She was just a huge inconvenience, a liar, and she just had a crappy personality.

[SuperKyle]

yes, a close friend of mine tried to take advantage of me while i was drunk
and well i will never forgive this person, i cant even look at this person
without feeling disgusted of how he betrayed my trust and destroyed our friendship....

totally totally crossed the line...

[Collidexeyes]

Wow... o.o mines wasnt as serious as yours but i would never forget wat my ex-bff did to me. And no we're not friends.

It's kinda weird seeing her pass by the halls cause whenever i see her, the flashback of memories come back to me. i guess i'll always have a grudge inside me, even though i know its wrong, but its just something i can't ignore.

Oh I feel that way too I'd try to avoid her and stuff in the hallways and in lunch. A lot of people dislike her but befriend her anyways and I have no idea why.

It`s been some.. I don`t know, 4 years since some incident between me and my now-ex best friend. I`m still unable to find the heart to forgive her.

Oh, what happened btwn you guys? if you don't mind me asking?

[`Koko]

she never really stole from me or anything,
it's just that she had the courage to lie to my face.
there really was no point in her lying because since she's a friend to me,
she wouldn't have to lie about simple things, yet she always did.
she also always made excuses about a lot of things and really,
after awhile, I didn't really know who she was anymore.
I wouldn't mind giving her another chance, since I don't exactly hate her or anything,
but she hasn't even talked to me or anything and avoids me at school. : )

[heejintruong]

my best friend, went out with my ex boyfriend
and didn't even bother telling me until
a week later?
And me and him were pretty serious too =/

but i forgave her




it's nothing like your story though T__T"

[Babiebim]

yes.
my ex-bff lied to me. about everything.
i believed her for 3 years.
thats a very long time.
and i dont trust people easily.
3 years. and the whole time she was lying.
i know for a fact i wont ever forgive her.
and theres no point "getting back" at her,
being her kind of people, she'll get wat she deserves.
karma's a b i tch.

hahaha and till now, she still tries to talk to me. and act like i didnt tell her i know she lied to me about all of this mini cooper and hurt so many people around me.

[<3 Kim]

Wow, that's really bad O_O

I have quite a few ex-friends, ever since I finished highschool I've been really catious of friends I made, and i ended up leaving a lot of friends because I thought I just shouldn't waste my time with them anymore.

But yeah, one of them is really two faced and fake. Would act nice to you in person but would pinkberry about you on the internet. Got really super annoying. The only thing she talks about is her bf and herself, everything has to revolve around her. Rants about friends when we don't call her to meet up (but she never puts in effort to call us?). I had enough one time when she just started posting on soompi (yes, on soompi) basically calling me ugly because I bought a cosplay costume that she got jealous of :/ I can't believe I was actually nice to her I was also planning on helping her make her costume for our next convention but not going to happen anymore. It annoys me also because she acts innocent when people ask about it (fake much?). She knows what she did is wrong, but just doesn't want to admit to it. Never even apologized to anyone she posted crap about on soompi either.

I'm so glad I cut ties with her, waste of my time. I really can't put up with crazy jealous people who have to put others down to make themselves feel better.

[daulism]

Well no, I've never had a friend like that.
Okay, well maybe I have. But we weren't that close, and I broke it off after she b-----d at me one time during practice.

This "friend" of mine sounds like your ex-friend, lying, cheating, crying for attention, to the point where there are times when she was dating like 948345 boys her lower grade, making it seem like shes the boss of everything, and overall just totally fake.

So there has been plently of times when she betrayed people! Taking their money, taking their stuff.. but the most scandalous thing I can remember is her being a golddigger to her korean wannabe of a boyfriend, always taking his money, getting fat from the amount of food he buys her, and then later she got tired of all that so she broke it off with him; but the idiot wouldn't let her go so they argured about it, eventually leading to her spreading rumors about him getting her pregnant, abusing her, etc. And the idiot became deeply confused over this situation..

Anyway, she's moved away to another country. :D We don't need her.

[midi]

Wow that girl sounds like she has a lying problem or somthing >q<.

I had two close friends which I lost, over the internet as well wasn't even in person..
I basically had argument w/ one of them, and the other refused to even speak to me, she followed the other friend w/o question, told people that she didn't want contact with me etc

From that people started to ignore me, Ididn't know why until one of my friends who wasn't a moron rang me up and asked " So what you been saying about my family etc " turns out they where saying bunch of slander about me, luckly since she contacted me she found out the truth from me unlike the rest of my so called "friends".
They have erased me from their lives, its funny really. I look now all their interests is alheavily influenced from knowing me yet they act as i was never born,they even went as far as deleting comments that I had made throughout the years on their gallery pages etec.

It's been like 3 years, maybe more now & and I'm still terribly bitter about it. I think because it happened over msn and a single phonecall I've never moved on from it because it doesn't seem real? I regret things that happened though it is probably karma for me & I don't think I will ever have a close friendship again.

[heyyohey]

heyy, so my name is april
i had this really close friend, he was actually my best friend. we were friends only for a year or even less.
idk. but we were officially best friends only in august of 2008. we had nick names of all sorts. but then, to my dismay, i started developing feelings for the damn fool. aha...pretty much sucked from there. i was so confused and i just kept falling for him. he actually held my hand in the movie theaters when we wer watching eagle eye. it was really shocking yet it warmth my heart and gave me butterflies. then he did it again when we watched this other movie. cheesy yet tragic. it just made me feel all bubbly inside koz i did like him. and then one day i actually told him i liked him. he rejected me of course and said that he only liked me as a friend. nd i accepted that. stupid me tho, that i fell for such a guy. the only reason why i thought he wud have certaint feelings for me was k0z he did things that seemed like it you know.
we also even told each other 'i love you', which now makes me think that i shouldve never let those words come near my tongue. LOVE? PUHHHLEEEESEEE!!!!! watevs.

so after that whole thing he made me cry and stuff nd he just confused me with his actions so we had space. the space was blehhh....i was so hurt and i felt like a mess. i saw him and he looked soooo depressed and sad. but we started talking again. so blah blah, we wer friends again. but there was a time where he wanted to end our friendship k0z he said he wasnt worth my time anymore. nd i fought so hard to keep the friendship and we cried so much. it was sooo sad. it was very late and i had skoo and i tried to stay on the fone for as long as i can. then wen i saw him we were closer than ever. strange as it seems. then the next day i saw him we went to this place.. then on our way home he was holding my hand in the car in the dark. i felt so happy and like we wer never gonna let go. then we went to eat and he held my hand under the table. it was crazy, k0z we wer just friends, right?

so then the next day wen i saw him, we wer by ourselves jus holding hands AGAIN!!!! but therer was a time when he jus held me while we sat down k0z i was cold, i know, AWWWWW! but no...then he came from behind me and wrapped his arms around me and put his head on my shoulder. it was soooo awkward and out of nowhere. nd we wer watching another movie and he held my hand again. then the nex day he asked for space. i was sooo pissed off. but i just gave it to him. he talked to me after 3 days. so yea. it was strange tho. not the same. something felt empty. a void in.....my heart. then one day he was doing this practice thing and as days passed he wouldnt talk to me k0z he was busy. nd then i went to tahoe for 3 days and we havent really talked in a while. when i came back, he brought this girl to our church. he didnt even say hi to me whatsoever. &&& i frikken cried. my heart felt so pained and broken. he did all dat crap to me and then can just treat me like nothing. he stayed with that girl and didnt even want to talk to me. i guess he met her at the practice thing and they didnt even know each other for a week. but anyways, i gave him a talk and told him that i couldnt be friends with him k0z i was soo tired of getting hurt and crying. i was prbly overdoing this but it was my first heartbreak, and yet we wer never even together like that. so now, wer not koo as usual. its like wer so foreign to one another. hes a bigger jerk to me than before. i hate him, but still care for the damn person. call me a fool and an idiot but that's wat just happend and i cant change it. haha. but im good now, i dont need him anymore. im better off without him. i just realized how blind i was and how much i just wasted and missed out in my life. && him, i dnt really care bout him, but i think my life is going along smoother than his. hehe, thanks for readingg!!!!!

[cheeseman77]

From that people started to ignore me, Ididn't know why until one of my friends who wasn't a moron rang me up and asked " So what you been saying about my family etc " turns out they where saying bunch of slander about me, luckly since she contacted me she found out the truth from me unlike the rest of my so called "friends".
They have erased me from their lives, its funny really. I look now all their interests is alheavily influenced from knowing me yet they act as i was never born,they even went as far as deleting comments that I had made throughout the years on their gallery pages etec.

It's been like 3 years, maybe more now & and I'm still terribly bitter about it. I think because it happened over msn and a single phonecall I've never moved on from it because it doesn't seem real? I regret things that happened though it is probably karma for me & I don't think I will ever have a close friendship again.

Wow sounds eerily similar to what happened to me, except it happened over myspace as opposed to MSN/phone. This also happened about 3 years ago. Basically my 'best friend' had secretly hated me (stupid reasons, I care too much?) and had been spreading lies about me behind my back to our group of friends for a few months and didn't have the balls to basically talk to me about his issues with me. Anyway this guy had all my passwords (being that I was far too trusting of people) and he logged on to my myspace account and basically wrote ridiculous hateful comments on all my close friends pages. Now I rarely went on myspace so I didn't find out until one of these 'friends' messages me on AIM and asks why I'm writing all these mean things to people. Basically all my closest friends just ignored me after this day and I didn't speak to most of them for almost 2 years. What really irks me the most is that the stuff this idiot wrote was completely out of the ordinary and it should have been obvious it wasn't me that wrote these messages, it amazes me how stupid and gullible these so called friends were. I honestly think they knew it wasn't me but they wanted to believe the comments so they could have a reason to hate me. How can people throw away 5 years of friendship over a few lies and a MYSPACE COMMENT? High school drama eh? One of these I absolutely hate myspace.

Now, my former best friend is a loser who does nothing with his life (no school, no job). It's funny because he has no friends now other than his girlfriend (who is almost a man, no joke). His life has gotten so pathetic in these last few years that he's basically trying to wiggle his way back into my life. Now I should just tell him to john tesh off but I find it entertaining listening to how pathetic his life has become so I pretend I'm his friend now. Yea I know that makes me sound like a pinkberry, but in all honesty I was open to the idea of forgiving him for the past but that changed when we first started talking again after 2 years and he tells me he forgives me for what happened. Lol what? Now there is zero chance that he will ever redeem my friendship.

All the people he turned against me know how much of a loser he is now and we've had many a fun conversation ridiculing his life. Karma's a pinkberry.

Oh yea it's also because of him that I have trust issues with people now. After that incident I basically secluded myself from people for the next 2 years. And the other friends who turned against me, I eventually started talking most of them again but we won't ever be as close as we used to be.

[.:daRkwinGs:.]

these are stories tat are heart breaker....probably not to anyone...but for me it was.



i have two one ex-friend and one that im not close to anymore.


the first story took place last year n September three days before i left to start off my first year in college.

i have a friend tat i call buddy. We were very close like...hang out...sleep overs, and share many things together.
The day before the gathering...she call me and asked me if i wanna hangout with her tomorrow.
I of course reply right away n say yes.
she said she'll be inviting the friends ova for the gathering.
i was so excited cause it was a go away party for me.
-next day-
i called her n asked

" are u picking me up or do u want me to drive?"
her:
"ill pick u up and take u home dont worry."

hours pass:

i called her and said, "hey imma my dad gonna drop me off..at the mall just pick me up ova there."

she comes to pick me up and when i sat in the car...there were other ppl too.
i dont even know them.
n i waved n said hi.
it was two other girls tat i see at school but dont talk to them.
when we arrive at the resturant....
we waited....for everyone...
n so everyone came n i only know three ppl.
my two guy friend n only her my buddy.
so the other nine ppl i didnt even know.
then when we ate...i ate by myself at the corner...
and she was talking happily with everyone...n i just sat there stupidly...
n thinking to myself...why bother coming...
i move and sat next to david and his cousin.
i talk to them the whole time...n didnt chat with the girls at all.
afterwards...my childhood guy friend came...
i stuck with him and david the whole time.
then two hours...pass..it was like around 9pm..n
everyone took off outside cause we were parting..
my buddie was talking to my childhood friend...

buddie: hey we are going to starbucks wanna come?
Childhood friend: no im good.
buddie: ok then i guess me n the girls will go...
childhood friend: hey S u wanna go starbucks?

btw...S=me

me: sure y not...since buddie is my ride home.
childhood friend talking to buddie: dont u girls wanna hang with S before she leaves?
Buddie whispering to childhood friend: she said she doesnt wanna go and it is a waste a gas to drive her back home then to starbucks.


apparently i heard tat...n got mad...so i grab my childhood guy friends arm...and said, "hey imma hang with yah before i leave it ok if i dont hang with them." i gave my buddie a smile n went into the car with my childhood friend.

i started crying really hard...n asked myself...
am i really not worth the gas price?

===============================


the other one...i broke the friendship
it was a close guyfriend...

this one is a long story really long im just gonna give u a brief short thing tat made me sad the most.
if u want details just pm me....im willing to share...just tat after typing the top one my hand hurted...lol


this one went on for like four months..i was getting hurt really bad by him and his best friend...

but here is the last thing he did before i broke the friendship...

he called me on WED. n said.

S imma come visit u ok?

me: why

him: cause i miss talking to you

me: will dont come

him: no imma come no matter wat u say

me: save ur money...im too far... (if u wonder im like 2.5 hrs away from him)

him: NOO imma come

me: ok i guess...if u come i'll get lunch n dinner ready...

him: yes lunch n dinner...really? tat is good....im coming then

me: ok i got tat...

THURS:

he called me: S im really gonna come so wait for me.

me: i dont wanna wait cause every time u say u gonna come u never do...n when we make a bet u always come...so this time is not a bet ok?

him: yah...imma make u eat ur words that it is not gonna be base on a bet

me: ok...remember i'll have dinner n lunch ready.

him: yes...ok! wait for me!

hang up the phone

FIRDAY COMES!!!

i woke up at 8am n cleaned the dorm and clean my room.
i did laundry all my homework n went to my friend's house to cook.
came back around like 2pmish...
n waited...


waited....

one hour later


two hour later......


6pm...


he didnt come...


-next day-

i waited for him to call n say sorry

he didnt bother calling...i threw away the food.

2pm

n I call him..
he didnt pick up
he came on msn...n i msn him

me: hey call me

Him: wat for

me: just call me

him: is it tat important?

me: it is not improtant to you but for me

him: ok i guess if it is important...

he called...
i picked up

Him: im sorry

me: lets break up the friendship...

blah blah blah!!!!-------------------->

ok im not gonna type all the rest...if u curious..just pm me...like wat i said earlier...dont worry im willing to share if u curious....

iono to you ppl if it was cruel for me to say it but i broke into tears while breaking the friendship...why? because there is alot of reasons behind it.....n if u curious just pm me.


his answer to why he didnt come:

i came but i was lost so i went back home.

my knowledge of why he didnt come:

i went on myspace....n was commenting hime for the last time
i looked on his comment
n two friend comment him on the day he was suppose to come
n the two friend put:
1:hey when u came back to fresno was ur apartment dirty?
2:when did u came back to fresno?

he of course reply back n said....:no my apartment was clean....the other answer to the 2nd one was: i came back this morning...

i was so shock...so it is either he lied to me...or he did not..but i didnt ask cause i broke the friendship already.

call me cruel if u want..i can careless...now...cause wat they did, hurt me alot...n i was telling myself tat imma hurt them ten times more than they hurt me....

[c i e l`]

Yours is really serious...Nothing like that happened to me,
but friends are people who are supposed to accept your flaws and try to understand you right? (at least to me)
my previous friends had bad temper and were really rude...something I hate, I had fun with them because they were used to my dorky side,
but at times I felt that they were just having fun with me, they didn't really care for me. It ended because my ex-friend told me in a cold tone
"it's your fault if your sick" and when she told me that, I had an awful headache and I had a fever (I still came to school and I was exhausted)
...I didn't like it at all and stopped talking because my throat was aching and I didn't want to force myself to talk if they were to take it like that
(I tried to talk to do as if I wasn't sick, and I swear it was hard, but I tried to do it for them at first) and well she got angry saying I was being cold,
and upset, mad or whatever. (which wasn't the case because I didn't listen to my iPod ^^") and well we quarreled and she left without my other friend
and me, I wanted to end the fight quickly but she left and it lasted...now we're not friend anymore.

but I don't care that much because they weren't my best friends, it's still disappointing but now I realized that it wasn't my fault.

[Collidexeyes]

Well no, I've never had a friend like that.
Okay, well maybe I have. But we weren't that close, and I broke it off after she b-----d at me one time during practice.

This "friend" of mine sounds like your ex-friend, lying, cheating, crying for attention, to the point where there are times when she was dating like 948345 boys her lower grade, making it seem like shes the boss of everything, and overall just totally fake.

So there has been plently of times when she betrayed people! Taking their money, taking their stuff.. but the most scandalous thing I can remember is her being a golddigger to her korean wannabe of a boyfriend, always taking his money, getting fat from the amount of food he buys her, and then later she got tired of all that so she broke it off with him; but the idiot wouldn't let her go so they argured about it, eventually leading to her spreading rumors about him getting her pregnant, abusing her, etc. And the idiot became deeply confused over this situation..

Anyway, she's moved away to another country. We don't need her.

OMG she sounds exactly like my ex friend minus the boyfriend using part.
Damn that girl will get karma shoved up her butthole.
No one needs ppl like that in their life. seriously.

have sex with her, that'll make it better

I don't even give her a single glance.
I don't want touch a foul person.

heyy, so my name is april
i had this really close friend, he was actually my best friend. we were friends only for a year or even less.
idk. but we were officially best friends only in august of 2008. we had nick names of all sorts. but then, to my dismay, i started developing feelings for the damn fool. aha...pretty much sucked from there. i was so confused and i just kept falling for him. he actually held my hand in the movie theaters when we wer watching eagle eye. it was really shocking yet it warmth my heart and gave me butterflies. then he did it again when we watched this other movie. cheesy yet tragic. it just made me feel all bubbly inside koz i did like him. and then one day i actually told him i liked him. he rejected me of course and said that he only liked me as a friend. nd i accepted that. stupid me tho, that i fell for such a guy. the only reason why i thought he wud have certaint feelings for me was k0z he did things that seemed like it you know.
we also even told each other 'i love you', which now makes me think that i shouldve never let those words come near my tongue. LOVE? PUHHHLEEEESEEE!!!!! watevs.

so after that whole thing he made me cry and stuff nd he just confused me with his actions so we had space. the space was blehhh....i was so hurt and i felt like a mess. i saw him and he looked soooo depressed and sad. but we started talking again. so blah blah, we wer friends again. but there was a time where he wanted to end our friendship k0z he said he wasnt worth my time anymore. nd i fought so hard to keep the friendship and we cried so much. it was sooo sad. it was very late and i had skoo and i tried to stay on the fone for as long as i can. then wen i saw him we were closer than ever. strange as it seems. then the next day i saw him we went to this place.. then on our way home he was holding my hand in the car in the dark. i felt so happy and like we wer never gonna let go. then we went to eat and he held my hand under the table. it was crazy, k0z we wer just friends, right?

so then the next day wen i saw him, we wer by ourselves jus holding hands AGAIN!!!! but therer was a time when he jus held me while we sat down k0z i was cold, i know, AWWWWW! but no...then he came from behind me and wrapped his arms around me and put his head on my shoulder. it was soooo awkward and out of nowhere. nd we wer watching another movie and he held my hand again. then the nex day he asked for space. i was sooo pissed off. but i just gave it to him. he talked to me after 3 days. so yea. it was strange tho. not the same. something felt empty. a void in.....my heart. then one day he was doing this practice thing and as days passed he wouldnt talk to me k0z he was busy. nd then i went to tahoe for 3 days and we havent really talked in a while. when i came back, he brought this girl to our church. he didnt even say hi to me whatsoever. &&& i frikken cried. my heart felt so pained and broken. he did all dat crap to me and then can just treat me like nothing. he stayed with that girl and didnt even want to talk to me. i guess he met her at the practice thing and they didnt even know each other for a week. but anyways, i gave him a talk and told him that i couldnt be friends with him k0z i was soo tired of getting hurt and crying. i was prbly overdoing this but it was my first heartbreak, and yet we wer never even together like that. so now, wer not koo as usual. its like wer so foreign to one another. hes a bigger jerk to me than before. i hate him, but still care for the damn person. call me a fool and an idiot but that's wat just happend and i cant change it. haha. but im good now, i dont need him anymore. im better off without him. i just realized how blind i was and how much i just wasted and missed out in my life. && him, i dnt really care bout him, but i think my life is going along smoother than his. hehe, thanks for readingg!!!!!

That's just messed up. .__.

[_dax_]

Try living with a sister who steals - Trust only comes once - never again

[Melitus]

have sex with her, that'll make it better

What if she's also a girl?

I would live life to the fullest, prove to that person you can live without them.
enjoy every second that past by without that person...
That's my revenge...

[_dax_]

^ may work for those in clingy friendships - others not so much