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Ever Had A Crush On Your Friend's Bf/gf? Share the pain :D

#1 User is offline   phosureee 

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Posted 19 January 2009 - 11:27 PM

I had a crush on my friend's gf before. and it was really hard.
I told her about my feeling but didn't want her to change how she felt about him.
They are crazy in love with eachother now and i am slowly not liking her anymore.



any one felt like this before?
I don't want to be the only one feeling this pain T___________T"

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Posted 19 January 2009 - 11:38 PM

I've also crushed on my girlfriends' boyfriends twice, both different guys. I didn't want to ruin their happiness so I kept the pain myself, I deserved it anyway mellow.gif
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 07:22 AM

QUOTE (phosureee @ Jan 19 2009, 11:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I had a crush on my friend's gf before. and it was really hard.
I told her about my feeling but didn't want her to change how she felt about him.
They are crazy in love with eachother now and i am slowly not liking her anymore.



any one felt like this before?
I don't want to be the only one feeling this pain T___________T"


You should have kept it to yourself. Thats your friends gf, have some class. If they broke up thats a different story. But they're still together and thats a d!ck move.

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 07:52 AM

yes. ( although not friend`s bf... its a different situation)
and i gladly walked away from it.
never told anyone.
its against all my morals.
i`m happy now =)

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 08:04 AM

You know what, I don't think I have actually. Hopefully that doesn't say anything about the sort of friends I have lol. =P
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 08:32 AM

fortunately
nope =]
lol but i did have a crush on the same guy my friend was crushing on
however i ended up with him o.o [current bf]
she could tell i likes him even though i never admitted it
and im not sure what happened
she just kept saying "i'm over him" and stuff
lol if she wasnt, i wouln't go for him
im just glad i was the one he likes xD way before i even noticed him LOL
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 09:31 AM

yeah, i kinda crushed on my friends fiance once which was bad i know. he was just so nice and playful and i hated it when he would hug me. but i found out he had a younger brother. lol he's just like him and i learned that i liked the younger brother better. my friends fiance and i are now best friends.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 10:30 AM

I don't think I have, I never really had a crush on any of my friends boyfriends, it may have been like aww he's cute or something like that but never to the point where I started liking him.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 10:31 AM

QUOTE (snooky7o2 @ Jan 20 2009, 07:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You should have kept it to yourself. Thats your friends gf, have some class. If they broke up thats a different story. But they're still together and thats a d!ck move.


I was thinking the same thing. Lol. That's a pretty messed up thing to do... to tell her you have a crush on his gf while they're still together. Seriously ... who does that? mellow.gif
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 12:20 PM

QUOTE (Meenuh @ Jan 20 2009, 01:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I was thinking the same thing. Lol. That's a pretty messed up thing to do... to tell her you have a crush on his gf while they're still together. Seriously ... who does that? mellow.gif


yeah wow that's so d!ck -.-
she probably told yer friend also

it's gonna be awkward.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 02:57 PM

Oh Dear Lord, no.
We all have very different taste.
Very different.

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 04:01 PM

Nope. We have different taste in guys in the perspective of boyfriend material.
But same taste in eye candy o_o Which hasn't become a problem so far.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 04:09 PM

haha not really..
only slightly, but that was because..
i liked him before they were even going out, so yeah ~.~
erghh last year was so frustrating,
cuz my friends kept saying that i liked my friend's bf
when i honestly, never did =___=;
he's not my type at allll LOL. it was so annoying >_>;
cuz i actually had a crush on her bf's friend =___=;

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 05:52 PM

A couple of times (different guys).
I always kept it to myself though.
I realized that i often fall for my friends' boyfriends or guys they like.
I don't know if its because they talk about him SOO MUCH that i start to like him or it's because i'm just a really terrible person who wants to prove to myself that I have the ability to steal guys away...

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 06:13 PM

well, i have crush on my girlfriend's bf once...well, it is a crush anyway and i ignore it...I didn't tell anyone about it
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 06:17 PM

i usually keeep it to myself o____________o
and i only liked the guy once.
it was for a week anyways.

i know some people who do, and are tryin to steal him away from my friend o_o
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 06:25 PM

My friend liked my current boyfriend.
& Our friendship started to fade because we didn't talk to eachother for quite some time.
She would invite him to the movies every weekend.
& I thought it was just a friend thing .. but wehn somebody told me
That she liked my boyfriend i was kind of saddened.
Even to date, the past hurts.
But my boyfriend and I have grown a lot stronger! (:
It's been over a whole 1yr that we've been togetherrrr.

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 07:11 PM

Well no... I haven't =X Mainly because I don't fall very easily... but once I do, I fall hard lol XP
I have a bf now... but my best friend's bf is also really a good catch =)
I always envy how her bf is so great to her (they've been together 4 years now) and I don't like him but I just find that he's a REALLY good guy.

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Posted 02 February 2009 - 09:53 PM

i already liked him before they went out. i prefer to keep my crushes to myself. When i found out they were dating i got really sad and depressed. It was hard hiding those feelings and always puting on a fake smile,acting happy for them when on the inside the thing you want most is for them to break up.Then one day i just had to talk to someone so i called my use-to-be-best-friend and told her about it. i ended up crying talking on the phone -__-"


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Posted 02 February 2009 - 10:08 PM

^ awww thats sad. I've done that once but it wasn't THAT bad. But right now, im in a current position thats probably going to end like that. lol. ;X

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