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#1 User is offline   krnxxbabii 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 01:06 PM

So I got to know this guy starting this year
and we've been flirting a lot and we were together 24/7..
then suddenly he stopped talking to me
like we dont talk, sit together, hang out, nothing.
i'm so devasted and i dont know why
because neither one of us did anything to cause us to not talk
so why do you think he just stopped talking to me >.<;

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#2 User is offline   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 01:09 PM

there's many reason.
I can list at least 6 if you want to.
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#3 User is offline   choot 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 01:12 PM

its just like a girl......a girl can just lose interest right away. LIKE THE POST ABOVE....there could be MILLIONS of reasons. However, I hope its not because the guy is just using you for emotional advantages....

try asking him straight out. it doesnt hurt right? =]
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#4 User is offline   krnxxbabii 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 01:17 PM

oh no
its not like i liked him or anything
its just that i'm kinda sad our friendships going away?
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#5 User is offline   chocomocha 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 01:30 PM

maybe he's bored with u and decided to go flirt with another girl instead.

this is just 1 of many possible reasons.
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#6 User is offline   小甜密 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 01:54 PM

Confront that jerk. Demand why he's being like that to you. You have the right to know, since you didn't do anything wrong and don't deserve to be treated this way.
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#7 User is offline   axe_pheonix 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 01:55 PM

you know, the exact same thing is happening to me.. except im a guy, and shes the girl that stopped talking to me.

its frustrating, i feel ya. but it could be that shes just catching up with some other friends or shes just busy at the moment, and that might be the case for your friend.

wait a little while longer, and if it continues... try confronting him about it.
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#8 User is offline   greenana 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 01:59 PM

Usually when a guy stopped talking to a girl, something is up with him. You should talk to him about it.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 02:22 PM

well, have YOU tried talking to HIM? XD lol.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 02:24 PM

You'd probably get an answer faster by just asking him. I mean, we aren't him you know ... and we can list a number of reasons why anyone would do that but that doesn't mean it'd be right. Just go ask him. sleep.gif
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#11 User is offline   Amanda Plz 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 02:36 PM

Yeah, go ask him smile.gif. No matter how hard it may be for you to do it, it is better that way.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 02:41 PM

i hate it when they ask why.
its cuz ur annoying. just leave him alone.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 02:51 PM

The same situation happen with me too. I've known this guy for a year, and than one day he just stop talking to me. So I found out later that he wasn't intersted in me and that it was a mistake.

Maybe your guy has a reason behind his, you should ask him about it. Trust me it will save you alot of time and heartache.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 03:19 PM

He changed his mind. Or he got into an accident and is in a coma.
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#15 User is offline   chopstick^^ 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 03:22 PM

if i were u, i would ask him. why are u being shy about it? .. werent u flirting? .. err is he really a friend? ..
or just "someone" to flirt with.
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 03:25 PM

QUOTE (chocomocha @ Jan 20 2009, 01:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
maybe he's bored with u and decided to go flirt with another girl instead.

this is just 1 of many possible reasons.


just 1, but the one that is most likely
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#17 User is offline   5.mystline 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 04:11 PM

Maybe he lost interest in you & has moved on to another girl..
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Posted 20 January 2009 - 04:24 PM

QUOTE (chocomocha @ Jan 20 2009, 04:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
maybe he's bored with u and decided to go flirt with another girl instead.

this is just 1 of many possible reasons.


Dang right, guys lose interest in the girl if the girl's too easy to get. I'm just speaking from what I've seen, there are girls out there who wouldn't flirt back as easily as you did so maybe he found them much more challenging than you.
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#19 User is offline   daintymilk 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 04:39 PM

There are many reasons for this, the only way to find out is

Confront him.
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#20 User is offline   speak without my voice 

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Posted 20 January 2009 - 04:54 PM


He might not be interested anymore. or he was just looking to pass time. mellow.gif
You could ask him why he stopped talking to you; at least you'll know then.
Or you can decide he's not worth your time and not even bother.
Good luck.
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