[phosureee]

I am posting this for a friend.
She is gay






Me and this guy has been seeing eachother for awhile now.
I really like him but i don't think i am ready to be his girlfriend.
I don't know if i want to make it official.
he has told me that when i am ready, i can tell him. He will wait.
but once in awhile he would ask if i am ready.
The other day, we went out as a group and i kissed him.
I kinda regret kissing him because i don't want him to think that i want to be his girlfriend .. yet.


Can someone help me with this situation? D:
Am i bad for doing this?
Am i leading him on?

Give me all your opinions, please. :D

[myluckyself]

um... gonna have to say this, but im thinking ur kinda leading him on. i mean, u see him a lot but not ready to just be a girlfriend? and that kiss might have told him that ur starting to really like him.

[yabasta]

What the hell. You're leading him on. No doubt about it.

Guys will hate you for life if you continue doing this. Harsh, but it's true. Most of us are just too damn manly to admit it, but we're all crying our hearts out when girls do that to us. Seriously, be nice and don't do that.

What do you mean you don't want to be his girl right now? Do you want to wait until he has had girls before you? So that you can make that perfect 'final' relationship that will last for all eternity, ala marriage? I don't think that's a bad thing... albeit harshly strategic lol.

yabasta

[princesspoppy]

I dont get this. I'm confused.

If you friend is gay...then she isn't attracted to guys. So...therefore she is leading the guy on, because she doesn't like him in that way.

[cuntbucket]

dont even stress about it

you're the girl, you have the upperhand in this, there should be no pressure and you shouldn't cave

as long as you're always honest and make sure he knows what you are thinking/feeling, then no one can be blamed

[Shikabane Hime]

Is she going to play the "I turned gay on you" card when he rolls around?

[小甜密]

You're bad. You're leading him on. Now stop before you do something else that will make the regret even bigger.

[phosureee]

thanks for all that.
She had read it and yeah..
they had a talk and i don't know what's happening now :S
i'm going to ask them when they get online (Y)

[SJAMES]

Rawr, that's hawwtt.
I wanna kiss him.
JK!! ROFL.

Maybe you should give it a shot because
he's willing to wait ;]

[myluckyself]

wait. shes gay? ohhh i get it now... but that makes it worse, u know. id stop right now before it gets really out of hand

[blackpetals]

yes you're bad.
yes you're leading him on.

tell him you're taking the kiss back because you totally led him on.
and tell him he should move on because he's wasting time waiting for someone who doesn't know what she wants.

[jenniferpark.]

like everyone said, you're leading him on. tell him straight up you don't wanna be official. just be honest.