[allfriedup]

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[cuntbucket]

lol this is funny

girls are impossible, dont try too hard, i feel for ya

let it go, there will be many females in your life, dont get hung up on one

[princesspoppy]

I concluded that maybe i was babying her too much and that made me have that older brother vibe around me...

There ya go!

[catsinheat]

don't force anything, that just gets creepy after a while.

[bbyxwinnie]

don't force anything, that just gets creepy after a while.

^ agree. bluntly speaking from ur post i thout you were too obsessed over her and she got creeped out. but didn't want to hurt your feelings. it happens, my ex acted like the same way u did. he was sweet to like the max and always looking out for me. which creeped me out cause i felt like i was dating my own brother or something and i had to lie about the reason for the break up.

[Panda Kisses]

You're all she wants, but doesn't necessarily need.

Move on. She's a jerkface for leading you on. And immature. Or any other negative adjective.

Find a girl who'll appreciate what you do for them and can handle a relationship.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

G.A.M.E O.V.E.R
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you can't get out of a friend-zone or a brother-zone.
cut contact and try again later. And I really mean LATER.

btw, you're not perfect unless your name is Orochimaru

[tanisagg]

nice guy? haha. just let her be.

[Awkwarder]

G.A.M.E O.V.E.R
thank you for playing! Please try again

you can't get out of a friend-zone or a brother-zone.
cut contact and try again later. And I really mean LATER.

btw, you're not perfect unless your name is Orochimaru

been being perfectly awesome since episode 27.

john tesh yea!

[maharu.]

Well...I guess when someone is TOO ideal (which is virtually impossible because, no one is perfect) in their standards,
they feel intimidated?

But what I see is maybe a problem is that, you're hovering over her a little too much?
You can show you care and everything without having to send constant emails and call everyday.
It makes the heat of the relationship go down quite quickly.

Respect each other's space and maybe there will be better girls out there for you.
Not every girl is the same so there may be a girl who will accompany your style of romance out there.

[allfriedup]

well this is what happened... I know i like scared her a little cuz i would be too from all the stuff i said... the thing is ... is that i have liked her for a long time... cuz we are old church friends... and when she told me i she liked me... yeah... i guess inside i thought to myself that i could let out some of the bottled feelings i had for so long for her... and it kinda just spilled out ...

When i started two weeks ago ignoring her and being passive... after we had our talk... she became kinda jealous acutally... i was on the phone one day at 2 in the morning with a "girl" friend and her friend who was at the sleepover with her talked to me on msn ... she asked why i was up so late... i told her i was talking to a girl friend... and she typed... (insert girl i like's name) want to know who... i did not tell her but i knew she was worried...
and i kinda tried to just blow her off and give her space ... whenever she wanted to be alone with me... I think she likes me... she is just confused.... and not mature enough...

But also i don't really want another girl... cuz after i started to like her all other girls became really non appealing to me... i had not interest in girls in which i would find really attractive before...

She is perfect and i don't want to find another girl...

and i think getting out of the friendship zone is possible... cuz i thought it wasn't before when she blew me off the first time... but she did come back and say she liked me after...

[c i e l`]

you can get out of the friend zone, but i think you started having feelings for her really fast
and well seems like you can't handle it really well. let her some time, don't expect too much,
some girls need boys like you, really caring sweet and so on, but some girls don't (like her if i can say that)
maybe you're going too fast and it's getting creepy, maybe she's shy, or maybe she doesn't care about you one bit.

most of the time, the girl need the boy, but the boy doesn't need the girl as much as the girl...it should be like this.
don't depend on her, we feel better when we do ^^

girls are picky, they dump you when you're too perfect and when you're not.

oh, and don't act like a brother, if she has one already she won't like it at all.

[allfriedup]

Yeah... i figured that out... and i think it is working... I think i was just too easy for her... cuz i was there for her all the time... You think i should just continue like ignoring her? and being really passive?

I was clingy to her cuz i had a lot of stuff bottled up... and now that it is out... i feel more in control... defiantly...

I think she likes being ignored and unwanted... because i also find myself thinking a lot more about her when she like doesn't talk to me... maybe if i give her a lot of space her feelings might just manifest...

and she does have a brother ... but like 10 years younger...

[c i e l`]

younger brothers are a pain when they grow up anyway(my younger brother stopped a guy who was talking to me thinking he was flirting )

hmm, how to say, you can ignore her as if you don't really care that much about her,
if it works she'll think about you quite a lot and start wanting you.
but it's kind of hard to figure out what to do, i think the 'whatever' kind of attitude can work.

i don't know any girl who likes to be unwanted and ignored ^^" haha, but some are hard to get

if her feelings manifest, then you did the right thing,
if she doesn't have any feeling for you then it's just that you weren't mean to be together, and move on,
don't get too affected by short relationship =)

[JASON;]

don't force it.
if you're in the friend zone... try to be not be there for her all the time.
give her some space. maybe she'll want you more

girls like jerks. :/

[Kira_Hyuu]

Just ignore her....make it seem like u've been hurt by her comments and just continue with life...maybe she'll realize ur not a brotherly figure once ur not around....but it's not full proof....so give it a go....

[junkers]

Go to her house one more time and smash her. Next morning she be saying IT WAS GOOD

[Sympathetic]

Her telling you that you were her ideal guy is just something to make you feel better.

Just move on. She led you on.
And keep up with the no-talking-to-her-unless-she-talks-to-me.

[aly*]

Hmm, maybe you have all the qualities she likes in a guy BUT perhaps she just doesn't feel any chemistry with you? Or maybe isn't attracted to you enough?
That might be a reason.

And plus, I'm not sure, but you do seem a little too clingy too soon. I don't like that in guys either.

[Swtess]

You came on way waaay too strong.
If she only has some feelings for you, you shouldn't bombard her with all your love.
That just freaks her out and makes you come off as needy and clingy