so, there's this guy, really charming and all the girl's like him etc.
he's really friendly with everyone, and to people that don't know him
well, his friendly-ness may seem like flirting.
soooo i've known him for a while, just as distant friends i guess
a few days ago, my friend and i were at our school's concert and
he sat right behind us, and so we talked etc.
and then we just started joking around a little, my friend was watching
the concert and i was just talking to him, and we ended up somehow
doing this thing with our hands, and he's like "oh, wow, your hands
are so cold..." (my hands are always freezing hold) and then
suddenly he holds my hands with his two hands and warms up my hands...
it's just really weird, cuase i know he's really friendly to all girls, but
i'm not sure if he's done that to another girl
we stayed like that for about 5 minutes, and it was just really weird, i
didnt' know what to think at first so i just sat there. and thenn, a few days
ago, he did it again!
i'm just really confused...what do you guys think? do guys do that often, even
just as a friendly gesture? or does it have some meaning in it?
UPDATE**
so, thanks for those who have replied.
so here are some other details that i kinda left out before:
-he's really comfortable with other girls, but he seems a little less comfortable with me, coudl that mean anything?
or is it just that i'm not a very open person?
-there hasn't been a single time when i approached him first, he's always been the one to approach me, give me a hug
or anything --> is he just super friendly?
-anddd, do guys just say "i love you" randomly?? i'm not sure about you guys and girls, but i never really say anything
with that much meaning carelessly, even if im' saying it nicely or as a joke
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Confusing Guy...
#2
Posted 22 January 2009 - 07:14 PM
He's flirty and wanna get to know u more or just get in ur pants.
Dont get ur hopes up. u knew him for a short period of time.
Dont get ur hopes up. u knew him for a short period of time.
#4
Posted 22 January 2009 - 07:23 PM
If he's a flirtatious guy, then it's probably typical actions... I'm a generally flirtatious person, but I'm NOT a touchy-feely kinda guy, just to make sure that people don't get confused... much like what happened to you. It's hard to say, but chances are he's just being his regular self. Don't get too interested, or try to keep yourself at a little distance.
#5
Posted 22 January 2009 - 07:29 PM
i think u have to be espcially careful with guys that are good with girls....
the easiest way to check, is ask his friends, ask how he treats other girls.
and also check his facebook, myspace.
make sure he is 'safe' before you let him touch you, yes that include your hands.
the easiest way to check, is ask his friends, ask how he treats other girls.
and also check his facebook, myspace.
make sure he is 'safe' before you let him touch you, yes that include your hands.
#6
Posted 22 January 2009 - 07:32 PM
well i'm pretty sure he's safe haha
he's never had a girlfriend and he's not a complete stranger to me,
it's just that we're not like super close
he's never had a girlfriend and he's not a complete stranger to me,
it's just that we're not like super close
#7
Posted 22 January 2009 - 07:36 PM
Well, if he's friendly with all the girls, he's definitely a bit of a flirt. Don't give hope yet, until you really know his history. If he trully likes you, he won't be so easily touchy feely. If you know what I mean.
#8
Posted 22 January 2009 - 07:54 PM
i know i shouldn't be getting hopeful or anything, but it's
just that i'm trying hard to get it out of my head, but i cant..
just that i'm trying hard to get it out of my head, but i cant..
#9
Posted 22 January 2009 - 07:55 PM
I think he's just being flirty.
I know guys like that. (friends of mine, lol)
Try not to be led on... ^^
If he does like you, then they'll be other signs on how you could tell.
I know guys like that. (friends of mine, lol)
Try not to be led on... ^^
If he does like you, then they'll be other signs on how you could tell.
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