[chocc]

that was what my friend was doing. She felt that our mutual friend likes her crush, so she told her negative things about her crush so that our friend won't like him

PS my friend dislikes our mutual friend because she kept taking other people's bfs and crushes in the past so i guess thats why my friend is being paranoid

[myluckyself]

wait... so why is she ur best friend if you dont like her? :s

and for some reason, this reminds me of the manga, peach girl (sorta)

[princesspoppy]

You need a new best friend.....

[myluckyself]

^ lol i forgot to add that as well, but as long as someone says it...

[kuroimisa]

If he's so nice in reality, he wouldn't take only her words and use them to judge you.
If he falls for her then he really is "too nice" (not!)

You'd be surprised how many "willing" and nice friends "help" other friends to know a guy they like and end up dating them themself. Then those girls found out that not only the guy they liked were stolen by their best friend, but also that it was only possible with the help of OTHER friends. It's not a pleasant feeling - I can tell you from second hand experience. I've witnessed it happen :\ In any case your situation isn't as extreme, but at this rate it's bound to happen any time. Your friend sounds just like the type to go in and splash some water for the fun of it. I wouldn't appreciate it.

I think it's time you just drift off without her, or either you confront her. No use playing cat and mouse when it comes to relationships.

You have two choices: stop telling her or introducing her to your friends/ letting her know about that aspect of your life. The other is to tell her directly to lay off your guys. Tell her upfront he's yours, and if she tries to do anything funky, say you won't forgive her.

[MsChen]

Oh my gosh. I have a friend that's just like that.

It is so annoying, ugh. Maybe you two should go your separate ways. Then she won't know what's new in your life and she won't be competing with you anymore.

[c i e l`]

stop here, don't tell her anything anymore.

if you want to stay away from her, do it slowly, just like as if you don't have much to say to her anymore.

basically, after a while you won't be as close as before especially if you don't keep up with her life and what happened,

same if she don't keep up with yours. but then since you have mutual friends it's hard to have nothing in common anymore =s

she can't be your best friend,,, she's just a close friend, my best friend would never do that to me, she won't even think about it.

don't worry things get better, but be careful not to fight ^^ it gets ugly after if you do.

[EHNerJI]

You'd be surprised how many "willing" and nice friends "help" other friends to know a guy they like and end up dating them themself. Then those girls found out that not only the guy they liked were stolen by their best friend, but also that it was only possible with the help of OTHER friends. It's not a pleasant feeling - I can tell you from second hand experience. I've witnessed it happen :\ In any case your situation isn't as extreme, but at this rate it's bound to happen any time. Your friend sounds just like the type to go in and splash some water for the fun of it. I wouldn't appreciate it.

yesss, that actually happened to me T_T; LOL
it sucks so muchh HAHA.
what pissed me off the most was that my friend
[who was trying to 'help' me get with the guy]
told me that the only reason she said YES to him was because..
my OTHER 'friends' said that i said i would say yes to him, too.
like wtf? i never even said that =.=;
i felt soooo freaking backstabbed after that.

anyways, i had a friend like yours as well.
she would ALWAYS 'like' the guy you like..
for me, she started 'liking' the guy that i liked for.. like 4 years?
then she asked him out, got rejected.. found out i liked him so much,
and created this 'rumor' that made him totally hate me and we lost contact..
she did this to all of my friends and caused so much crap.
trying to steal my friend's bf.. making everyone hate her.
she would always be like "i hope they break up, because then, i would get with him"
"screw *my friend's name*" then, karma bit her in the ass lawl.

and when my other friend got dumped by her bf,
she called her up and asked if she could ask him to our school dance ?!?
honestly, such a bad 'friend'
i just stopped telling her who i like,
and then, we all confronted her and told her how we felt.

she would be all T_T; and try to make us feel bad for her, for weeks.
then, my friends kinda gave in? and they're friends with her now.
i barely talk to her now, though.

if you don't let her know, she'll prolly assume that you don't mind or w.e
but you have to let her know rofl.

now, if she goes to tell the guy that,
then that would be soooo desperate on her part =.=;
but, i guess you'd just have to tell him straight up, then lol.
that she's a bad friend and you said that to keep her away from him ? =/
or, you could let it pass but he might be like 'wtf' at you .. x:

seriously, regardless of how much i loved my old friends who did that to me,
being without them feels so much better.
people like that need to get a life, seriously.
too much insecurity.

but, in the end.. i believe that situations like that,
only make you stronger.
and it lets you know what types of people to avoid if you want to be happy.
people who try to ruin your life and lead you on like that..
i believe that they won't be happy in the end.

[yabasta]

I think everyone so far summed it up. Don't tell her anything! Just don't start a fight with her... people like her feed off the disturbances of relationships between friends like fiends. They'll use fights as excuses to start an offensive operation to take your mutual friends and potential boyfriends. Seriously, they're dirty little people, selfish to the core.

yabasta

[supa'Wanki]

The only thing that pops into my head is that you're insecure.

[PhuongNguyen]

Why would you consider her as your best friend when you obviously don't even like her? Hell... it sounds like you HATE her.

Well, I honestly don't see why you got to make up lies about the guy just so your "best friend" would back off... I mean, just let her do whatever she wants... and if he likes you, nothing she do can stop him. If you're scare that she's going to tell him about the things you said, then you shouldn't have said it in the first place. That's what happens when you lie... it comes and bite you in the ass.

You guys are horrible friends toward each other. You treat each other like enemies, yet calls each other best friends. Girls...