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Should I Stay With Him Or Move On? he is a big question mark for me...i need outsider's help

#1 User is offline   alyfaitha95always 

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Posted 23 January 2009 - 07:04 PM

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Posted 23 January 2009 - 07:19 PM

Before I tell you what I think you should do, I need to know something. You don't have to say what he said but did you guys have a serious talk before you got back together about why he broke up with you in the first place?
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#3 User is offline   Shikabane Hime 

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Posted 23 January 2009 - 07:38 PM

You should move on. Plz provide a summary as well, I may have missed some points.
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Posted 23 January 2009 - 08:27 PM

I wouldn't give a guy another chance if he never provided an explanation for why he broke up with me in the first place. Everyone is entitled to that, and that's the least he could do if he wanted to get back with you =/.
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#5 User is offline   iAM_Vindicated 

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Posted 23 January 2009 - 08:30 PM

no offense... but this sounds really melodramatic. you're in middle school right?

he seems wishy washy

i can't tell you to move on and let go.. but why don't you try asking him why he broke up with you in the first place

that might help

good luck
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#6 User is offline   MNLV27 

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Posted 23 January 2009 - 08:45 PM

First off, why don't you ask him why he wanted to break up in the first place. After getting the reason then decided if you want to stay with him or not.
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Posted 23 January 2009 - 09:09 PM

you're still young. just go out with him but don't pour all your heart into him.
you also want to ask why he broke up with you to know....
if it were because he wasn't sure ect...
then try to give him chances but never do too much, he'll take you for granted.
guys are like that, they often take their girlfriends for granted.... if she gives too much and if the boys were too young.... they don't know how to appreciate people who love them.
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Posted 24 January 2009 - 02:57 AM

No one here should be able to tell you what to do. In the end it still comes down to you. If you really love him as much as you say, then you're going to have to risk it and put your heart on the line. But make sure if you decide to be with him, make sure you're not going to hold back. If he breaks your heart in the future, you take that as a learning experience and you move on with someone else, put everything on the line for that person too and wish he does the same to you.
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Posted 24 January 2009 - 01:23 PM

I think that it definitely up to you like other people have already mentioned
but this is what I think: I think that if you're in middle school you should just move on because it's not like you're going to marry him right? You have tons of time to meet new guys so get out there and meet new guys (:

But of course it's you're choice.
And why did he break up with you?
The reason for the break up is important too
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Posted 24 January 2009 - 01:30 PM

You're still young and there are gonna be many guys in the future. Why did he break up with you in the first place? Why does he want to get back with you now? I think you need the real answers to these two questions to decide to move on or not. Personally, I think I'd move on.
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Posted 24 January 2009 - 02:58 PM

you shouldn`t be in a relationship if you feel doubtful about it.
it`s unfair to him & it`s unfair to yourself.
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Posted 24 January 2009 - 03:45 PM

just one word of advice someone said to me before

if you're doubting the relationship, then you already know the answer as to what you have to do.

just my two cents.
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