[mikez]

Well I guess it all starts off with I like this girl haha.

Anyways, long story short, I like this girl, I told her, she told me she likes me too.

I think she's this awesome person, funny and entertaining, and over winter break we've went out quite a lot and from all the hugs and the times we've spent with each other I thought that we both enjoy each others' company a lot. She's also my valentines and vice versa.

So recently its like her midterms week, so she's been ultra busy studying I guess, and we barely talked. At least that's what I think. We used to text a lot, and she use to message me online as well, but now unless I message her she doesn't message me at all.

Inside I keep thinking that she's losing interest in me, but part of me don't believe it because of the time we've spent together and stuff... unless she's always that caring and loving to everyone @.@

Maybe its cuz I am talking to her too much and she's getting bored of me?

Or is she playing hard to get on me ? Isn't it too late in this stage to do something like that?

I always feel that she is just not that interested in talking to me anymore and shes talking to someone else or was never interested (paranoid I know), but when I text her it seems everything is fine since she is just busy studying.

Am I thinking too much into it (probably am since I am so afraid)? Is she really just too busy..

I'm just bummed since I don't like anyone easily, and the last one I was with hurt me very badly and I don't want to pursue someone that is losing interest in me.

Right now I am thinking whatever yo, I'll just not talk to her anymore and f--- that. Am I being stupid or what? lol



Thanks!

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

you like her. She likes you.
You didn't ask her out? Just confessed?

[Rykerz]

dont try to read just go for it, ask her out properly face to face after her busy exam stuff

do NOT over complicate things, from what you tell us its simple, you like her she likes you, shes not talking much but who cares just go for it what have you got to lose?

edit : OH and dont just go "oh since u wont tlak to me I will do the same" what good would that do? just try and talk to her and confess asap b4 she goes "omg i even let this guy know i like him and hes not even doing anything and stopped talking to me, maybe he doesnt like me" cause if you stop talking to her she would just think the same thing as you do right now and u will lose your chance

[donporkuloin]

Don't worry about it so much. She said she likes you back. Half the battle won..ya know. Give her a few days of space, and then call her or something.

[Shikabane Hime]

I always feel that she is just not that interested in talking to me anymore and shes talking to someone else or was never interested (paranoid I know), but when I text her it seems everything is fine since she is just busy studying.

No, she's studying. There's no one else. The cake is a lie, get over it.

Anyways, long story short, I like this girl, I told her, she told me she likes me too.

Ok...great..SO?
What happened then? Any follow-through? Anything at all? Not even a simple "want to be with me until FF13 comes out"?

But assuming you have some sort of unspoken agreement that when you both like each other, you are automatically a couple or some binary pair, then you're fine I guess.

[mikez]

Thanks, that's true what you guys said.

I've been a bit slow to ask her out since I admitted to her, I want to ask her out when we see each other face to face again, but that wont happen for another 2 weeks or so since school started and its a bit of an inconvenience.

What happened then? Any follow-through? Anything at all? Not even a simple "want to be with me until FF13 comes out"?

When does FF13 come out?

[Shikabane Hime]

So that means you're going to have to wait it out.
Trial of fire! Just hope nothing gets in between.

I also have plans, but I have to wait 3 weeks until time is convenient (study break ftw), so I have to wait as well.
We can both sit in the waiting room talking about the meaning of life.

EDIT: uhh, they say the NA version will be due by 2010 while JP version late 2009...zzzzz

[Rykerz]

Thanks, that's true what you guys said.

I've been a bit slow to ask her out since I admitted to her, I want to ask her out when we see each other face to face again, but that wont happen for another 2 weeks or so since school started and its a bit of an inconvenience.

Thats good tho you have 2 weeks to prepare for your big day, and since its after exam and all see what you can do to get her out of the exam stress period lol something small and sweet and caring, but dont drag it any longer then it has to be

GO FOR IT!!! and report back to us =)

[mikez]

Something just popped into my head..

I remember her telling me that she would be done with her stuff on wed (but I will still be technically busy studying for my GMAT for another week). But do you think I should make the trip to see her on wed for a quick dinner anyways, just to ask her out? Cuz I really would not like to have something or someone else get in between.

I thought it would be kind of special since I am taking time out of my schedule to see her once she's done with her crap, that wont like freak out her out like yo wtf this dude is so attached or anything? lol :x

[Rykerz]

Yeah sure why not as long as it doesnt interfer with your study too much, you have to spend time to have dinner anyway using up a lil more time wont hurt, and it couold help you relax too and take a small break

just say like there is someting on your mind and you want to find out asap cause its important to u

[YESUNGHWAITING!]

Lol.
You silly boy, you're thinking too much.
You can still send her text messages with little things like, "Good luck, study hard!"
Or if you're brave, "Can't wait to see you again".
Don't freak if she doesn't answer back, she's probably stressing.

And I think you're idea of taking her out to dinner after she's done is a GREAT idea.
She'll be so relieved it's over and she'll feel very appreciative towards you for treating her for all her hard work.
You could get her roses, that always works too.


Fighting!
(:

[mikez]

Lol.
You silly boy, you're thinking too much.
You can still send her text messages with little things like, "Good luck, study hard!"
Or if you're brave, "Can't wait to see you again".
Don't freak if she doesn't answer back, she's probably stressing.

And I think you're idea of taking her out to dinner after she's done is a GREAT idea.
She'll be so relieved it's over and she'll feel very appreciative towards you for treating her for all her hard work.
You could get her roses, that always works too.


Fighting!
(:

Thanks for your insight from a girl

I really need someone to call me that and smack me a bit and tell me that I'm thinking too much

[YESUNGHWAITING!]

Thanks for your insight from a girl tongue.gif

I really need someone to call me that and smack me a bit and tell me that I'm thinking too much

No problem, I'm happy to help.
PM me back with the results, I want to know how it goes.

[Shikabane Hime]

I really need someone to call me that and smack me a bit and tell me that I'm thinking too much

What are you, a masochist?
You like some pain?

[mikez]

Nope, only if some cute girl can take care of the booboos later haha

[mikasaranghae]

well, give her time & go slow. don't worry too much. by the way, you're an awasome artist/rapper. best of luck with everything.

[charrex]

mikez: your signature picture = Chinese version of yamete?

[mikez]

Now that you said it, the chinese characters does make the sound yamete lol.

update:

Wednesday is a GO!