[therey]

lets say theres a guy u really like (or bf) and found out through someone that one day he was eating dinner with one of your friends who u think likes him. how would u guys handle this situation (if he was just someone u liked and if he was ur bf, both situations)?

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Crush: he/she didn't do anythin wrong
bf:u can't do much. You can do the classic- slap the bf- but i'd rather confront him after that.

[greenana]

A person I like then I would just ask my friend why they went to lunch.
A bf: Why didn't you take me and I think you like her.

[♥ 애진이~]

I tried to interpret your post as well as I can. I'm sorry if I'm not addressing your question, but after reading it a few times, I came to the conclusion that your question was: What would you do if your friend (who likes him/her) was out having dinner with your significant other/crush?

Personally, I would trust both of them completely. I'm not one to get jealous or jump to conclusions. Each of them are entitled to their own arrangements and only doubting them can lead to utter chaos. If one of my friends were obviously hitting on my boyfriend, she would be disrespecting me which makes it evident that she isn't a very good friend to begin with.

As for my boyfriend, before I go into any relationship, I always make sure that I have an equal standing with him along the lines of loyalty and trust. If he sees the red flag, he should kindly step away and let my friend know that he's currently seeing someone. If not, then he is definitely not worth my time and I'd dump him.

I'd probably forgive the friend simply because crazy teenage girls do anything to get their grubby hands all over a guy they're interested in. However, I wouldn't forget the incident and keep in mind that she's likely to do things of that nature and be aware that any relationship I have in the future can be hindered if my boyfriend isn't of good nature.

[Gummy Dogs]

If he was a bf, he would tell you, if not he's not a good bf or something's up
if he was a guy, dinner?! damn they like each other sorry

[Shikabane Hime]

Why wasn't I invited to this dinner party?

[toomuchsmiling]

u sound like my best friend. She brings up these hypothetical situations
but everyone knows she's talking about herself.

In my case, I'd just get a new crush and let my bf have him. Crushes aren't
any big thing. If it was love, that's different.

[5.mystline]

I would Investigate further before overreacting & thinking this situation.

[Cin De]

I would Investigate further before overreacting & thinking this situation.

same.

[ingenuelle]

If he was a crush, I'd be a tad jealous but shrug it off and move on, I'd rather my friend be happy anyways. So in that case, the next time I'd see said crush I'd tease him about it and try to nudge him further in my friend's direction.

If it was my bf, I'd confront him about it but in a light tone. First, I'd open with that question that drives people crazy 'is there something you want to tell me?' and when he says no I'd say something goofy like 'I'm sorry but cat's out of the bag - I heard you had dinner with my friend. So the question is... when are you guys planning my surprise party ^_~ <3' lol seriously though, just because the friend likes him doesn't mean he likes her, there has got to be a good reason for him dining with her so I'd just trust him.

[JASON;]

find out more.
then talk about it with the s/o.

[IPwnx3]

my friend went out with almost all my crushes -_____- so yea.... but the one shes currently going out with isnt my crush so yay!!!lmao i never did anything.i talked about it to my ex best friend before about it and i ended up crying....i noe!im a super cry baby >.<

[ShadowMax76]

if this is the first time my girl went behind my back, i'm slowly gutted till i hear somethin' from her about it
but then again, she wouldn't be my girl if i didn't trust her in these situations.

_ if i was the bf who'd see a girl that probably has an interest in me.. i'd make sure my girl knows. _ lol, i'd probably even ask her what i should do about the situation. just so doesn't feel so out of control of what might happen.

if i was the guy who were to see a girl who has a bf... pft. i'd urge the girl to tell her bf. meet up with the bf myself one day. _ but really.. i wanna jus' play out that thing in a manga ..
girl: why don't we have dinner?
guy: ..you got a bf right?
girl: ...
guy: i can't.
girl : you're just a friend!
guy: I'm a guy.

[babi3xazian]

id be really mad actually but i would talk to him about it
we talked about this before and i told him if he ever were to have a another girl over to his house or have lunch/dinner together he has to tell me. but he knows i hate him being alone with another girl.

[claire.rawr]

you : do you like her ?
him : no.
you : if she touches you, tell me. i'll rip her tits off.

GG

okay, seriously.. if you have a problem with it and you're BF/GF... tell him you're uncomfortable with it. he'll either say, baby.. it's nothin, don't worry.. and go with it.. or say, mmk, i won't go to dinner with her. and if YOU really trust him. good for you, your bf isn't going to do anything. (assuming he isn't a jerk and that he's just a real nice guy who wants to have dinner with a friend)

if it's just some guy you like... what can you do? it's not like you're attached to him. i'm sure he's a big boy and can figure it out. if he ends up falling for her, then he wasn't meant for you. you'll find someone better.