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How Badly Do You And Your S/o Fight? On a scale of 1-10!

#1 User is offline   x_Pres_Kitten_x 

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Post icon  Posted 27 January 2009 - 03:19 PM

Choose ONE of the following
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State how long you have been together.


1. We don't fight at all.
2. We talk it out.
3. We/I go quiet with eachother and/or ignore eachother.
4. We get heated and say snappy comments.
5. We get heated, say snappy comments and say spiteful things.
6. We get heated... And physically wave our arms around and swear directly at eachother.
7. All of above and cry hysterically.
8. All of above and hit/punch things and slam doors etc.
9. All of above and physically harm yourself.
10. All of above and physically hurt eachother.

Was just wondering as some couples vary... Some are more quiet and tend not to thrash their worries/anger out, whereas others are physically aggressive.
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#2 User is offline   angelixer 

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Posted 27 January 2009 - 03:24 PM

2. We talk it out./4. We get heated and say snappy comments.

2 years.
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#3 User is offline   anna_x33 

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Posted 27 January 2009 - 03:26 PM

lol like a 2 or 3; we dont fight much anymore
when we first started dating it was like 6-7 xP

together for 16months
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 03:31 PM

Hmmm. Number 5. Mostly on my part because I get really angry at him and I have a temper.
Together for over a year. [:
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 03:35 PM

2/3
mostly 3
we get quiet, and since 1 or the other is just giving 1 word responses/being unresponsive, the other follows suit.
then after a while we realize how much we miss each other and talk it out. then, problem solved!

almost 4months.
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#6 User is offline   colloquy 

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Posted 27 January 2009 - 03:42 PM

#2 and then #4.

5 months.
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 04:17 PM

4, 3, and 2, in that order.
And I cry.

We've been together for 5 months.
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#8 User is offline   vpower 

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Posted 27 January 2009 - 04:17 PM

^same with me numbers 4,3, and 2
we snap, then silents for a bit and then talk it out
going on 10 months
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 04:18 PM

2-4 + crying on my part. We do yell sometimes and swear (in general, not like f-you) but we don't get spiteful.

Almost a year.
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 04:20 PM

For small petty fights it's # 2, and 4 but when it's a big fight it's a 7.
Next month is our 1 year.

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Posted 27 January 2009 - 04:44 PM

1....

but i think that's cuz we've only been going out for a month.

Does that mean it's coming soon? >.<
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 04:51 PM

QUOTE (oorixyuri @ Jan 27 2009, 07:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1....

but i think that's cuz we've only been going out for a month.

Does that mean it's coming soon? >.<


Nope, not all couples fight. Some just never fight. Alot do though.
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 04:58 PM

We don't really fight, so 2, he's more versatile than me sweatingbullets.gif
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 05:12 PM

1 + 3..
we only pretend to ignore each other for like.. 10 minutes? haha sleep.gif
almost 5 mo..
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 05:22 PM

#1.
Then again, we've been together for a few days, so I'm not sure if that counts.

My previous relationship lasted for 1.5years.
#4, 7, 8 for that relationship, haha.
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 06:37 PM

It goes 3, 2, then 1. LOL.

We've been together for just over 6 months.
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 06:41 PM

2/3
its hard to stay mad at him though >____>
we usually just laugh it off

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Posted 27 January 2009 - 06:41 PM

2 and 3 and some crying is involve
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 07:48 PM

We're two through seven, seriously.
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Posted 27 January 2009 - 07:58 PM

My boyfriend and I didn't fight at all, but all of a sudden we're fighting a lot, but it doesn't ever escalate past 3.
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