[iamkrn2494]

i .. really 'liked' my hunnie, and he loved me back too. i only saw him twice a week though. man, our texts and IMs were so lovey-dovey..why it brings back memories. well, i had a movie trailer shoot one weekend, and i only saw him once. i don't deliberately flirt with guys, i should say that my personality is just bubbly and guys like it? hah..well at the movie trailer shoot i thought this guy was pretty cute. i wasn't "interested" in him, though.
when i went home, i felt guilty? you know, even if i didn't "cheat" on my bf, just thinking about another guy made me regret everything. so i broke up with my bf and he asked why.. and i answered, "ofcourse i would never mess around with other guys. but if i ever do make a mistake, i don't want to be unfaithful."
to cheer him up, and this is how i felt genuinely, i said, "maybe we can start over in the future." and he replied, "i hope so..."

i really regretted my decision, and a week later, i told him how i felt, and i said that we should start over. and he said, "i can't do that..." i asked why and he said that he's still hurt, and wants to be alone.


oh then why is he feeling like this? did i do something wrong?


oh and please, i'm sick of reading comments on other ppls' topics from ppl who have "smart" comments. don't even bother (:

[prittiangel01]

you said your bf loved you back..
love is pretty serious...i can understand that he's still hurt. I mean, you can't really just jump out and then jump back into someone's life like that.

[iamkrn2494]

you said your bf loved you back..
love is pretty serious...i can understand that he's still hurt. I mean, you can't really just jump out and then jump back into someone's life like that.

...you're right. i wish someone just whacked me upside the head with a fry pan. anyway, thanks for taking your time (:

[puzzlebox]

Karma. Your fault buddy. Now all you can do is get out of his life and regret what you did.

[Azngel]

because you hurt him that badly...

[watcher]

i .. really 'liked' my hunnie, and he loved me back too. i only saw him twice a week though. man, our texts and IMs were so lovey-dovey..why it brings back memories. well, i had a movie trailer shoot one weekend, and i only saw him once. i don't deliberately flirt with guys, i should say that my personality is just bubbly and guys like it? hah..well at the movie trailer shoot i thought this guy was pretty cute. i wasn't "interested" in him, though.
when i went home, i felt guilty? you know, even if i didn't "cheat" on my bf, just thinking about another guy made me regret everything. so i broke up with my bf and he asked why.. and i answered, "ofcourse i would never mess around with other guys. but if i ever do make a mistake, i don't want to be unfaithful."
to cheer him up, and this is how i felt genuinely, i said, "maybe we can start over in the future." and he replied, "i hope so..."

i really regretted my decision, and a week later, i told him how i felt, and i said that we should start over. and he said, "i can't do that..." i asked why and he said that he's still hurt, and wants to be alone.


oh then why is he feeling like this? did i do something wrong?


oh and please, i'm sick of reading comments on her ppls' topics from ppl who have "smart" comments. don't even bother (:

1. you don't just break up with someone and expect them to take you back.
2. i could interpret your quote as 'i will never cheat on you, but if i do, i rather break up with you so i wont be unfaithful to you.' in other words, you were unfaithful because you wanted to break up.

bad move.

[iamkrn2494]

because you hurt him that badly...

i understand how it feels now...*sigh*

[blueokami]

*pats* I guess everyone makes mistakes, least now you know not to take it too lightly again.
hm the trust is probably gone... there's still hope though I guess, but it'll take a long time =s
goodluk

[CHOCmiint]

yeah sorry to break it down to you, but that's karma
i hope you two get back together though

[iamkrn2494]

*pats* I guess everyone makes mistakes, least now you know not to take it too lightly again.
hm the trust is probably gone... there's still hope though I guess, but it'll take a long time =s
goodluk

yeah sorry to break it down to you, but that's karma
i hope you two get back together though

..gomawuhyo~
(:

[EHNerJI]

lol, because he's still not over it.
you hurt him with what you said..
and he's prolly questioning your relationship right now =/
he told you himself, lol.
you can't really expect him to be 100% willing to get back into a relationship with you.
especially if it's only been like a week since that time =/
so yeah, you can't force him. all you can do is wait, really.

[heyitzthatfc]

i .. really 'liked' my hunnie, and he loved me back too. i only saw him twice a week though. man, our texts and IMs were so lovey-dovey..why it brings back memories. well, i had a movie trailer shoot one weekend, and i only saw him once. i don't deliberately flirt with guys, i should say that my personality is just bubbly and guys like it? hah..well at the movie trailer shoot i thought this guy was pretty cute. i wasn't "interested" in him, though.
when i went home, i felt guilty? you know, even if i didn't "cheat" on my bf, just thinking about another guy made me regret everything. so i broke up with my bf and he asked why.. and i answered, "ofcourse i would never mess around with other guys. but if i ever do make a mistake, i don't want to be unfaithful."
to cheer him up, and this is how i felt genuinely, i said, "maybe we can start over in the future." and he replied, "i hope so..."

i really regretted my decision, and a week later, i told him how i felt, and i said that we should start over. and he said, "i can't do that..." i asked why and he said that he's still hurt, and wants to be alone.


oh then why is he feeling like this? did i do something wrong?


oh and please, i'm sick of reading comments on her ppls' topics from ppl who have "smart" comments. don't even bother (:

You made an idiotic decision, that's the only thing I see. Why would you dump your boyfriend for a guy you only though was cute but you said you had no interest in? Maybe you took your current relationship for granted, and karma bit you in the behind. If you really like this guy, my helpful advice is, tell him you're sorry and that of course, you were the one who made the mistake. Don't force anything, just tell him you still want to make it happen, then give him his time.

The most important part is; don't do something so stupid again.

Thinking about other guys is perfectly normal in a woman's head.

And this isn't a "smart" comment, this is reality. I'm answering honestly, and if you don't want to listen, you're probably only seeking attention for yourself.

[iamkrn2494]

lol, because he's still not over it.
you hurt him with what you said..
and he's prolly questioning your relationship right now =/
he told you himself, lol.
you can't really expect him to be 100% willing to get back into a relationship with you.
especially if it's only been like a week since that time =/
so yeah, you can't force him. all you can do is wait, really.

thank you for your analysis! (:

now i do come to realize that i'm a pushy person . ru korean? haha koreans always say bballii bballii this bballii bballii that. (hurry hurry) and i don't like to wait.. so now i shall wait and see what should happen. hah scratch that. i'm not looking forward to seeing us together again. i'm tired of being in relationships now. sorry, im just blabbering away into my own little world.

You made an idiotic decision, that's the only thing I see. Why would you dump your boyfriend for a guy you only though was cute but you said you had no interest in? Maybe you took your current relationship for granted, and karma bit you in the behind. If you really like this guy, my helpful advice is, tell him you're sorry and that of course, you were the one who made the mistake. Don't force anything, just tell him you still want to make it happen, then give him his time.

The most important part is; don't do something so stupid again.

Thinking about other guys is perfectly normal in a woman's head.

And this isn't a "smart" comment, this is reality. I'm answering honestly, and if you don't want to listen, you're probably only seeking attention for yourself.

i never broke up with him because of the "cute" guy.

[Lie]

He did the only respectable thing he could have done. Man-code. If he takes you back after you dumped him, there's no way he'll ever be able to respect himself again.

[Poop-Shoop-A-Loop]

thank you for your analysis! (:

now i do come to realize that i'm a pushy person . ru korean? haha koreans always say bballii bballii this bballii bballii that. (hurry hurry) and i don't like to wait.. so now i shall wait and see what should happen. hah scratch that. i'm not looking forward to seeing us together again. i'm tired of being in relationships now. sorry, im just blabbering away into my own little world.

Now you don't want to be in a relationship?
You seem to be very wishy-washy and indecisive.
I think it's a good thing he didn't take you back. It would destroy him if you suddenly decide, once again to break up with him because you were tired of being in a relationship.

[heyitzthatfc]

i never broke up with him because of the "cute" guy.

What was the purpose of putting the cute guy in your little story then? It's a little misleading...

"well at the movie trailer shoot i thought this guy was pretty cute. i wasn't "interested" in him, though.
when i went home, i felt guilty? you know, even if i didn't "cheat" on my bf, just thinking about another guy made me regret everything. so i broke up with my bf and he asked why.. and i answered, "ofcourse i would never mess around with other guys. but if i ever do make a mistake, i don't want to be unfaithful."
to cheer him up, and this is how i felt genuinely, i said, "maybe we can start over in the future." and he replied, "i hope so...""

[aznboi1107]

you're in friggin' high school, love? Pf you're still learning no worries.

[heyitzthatfc]

you're in friggin' high school, love? Pf you're still learning no worries.

Being in highschool (IMO, preferably in Junior, Senior status), you're definitely able to hold an adult relationship, it's where you experience the most important parts.

[JunsuLove]

He probably doesn't want to get back with you because you said "but if i ever do make a mistake, i don't want to be unfaithful." He probably doesn't want to be with you because you don't even know yourself if you'd be loyal to him so he probably can't trust you..
I'm sorry he doesn't want to take you back, but you did hurt him and you can't expect him to just take you back that easily..

[iamkrn2494]

Now you don't want to be in a relationship?
You seem to be very wishy-washy and indecisive.
I think it's a good thing he didn't take you back. It would destroy him if you suddenly decide, once again to break up with him because you were tired of being in a relationship.

the idea of this post was to know why he didn't take me back at the time.

What was the purpose of putting the cute guy in your little story then? It's a little misleading...

"well at the movie trailer shoot i thought this guy was pretty cute. i wasn't "interested" in him, though.
when i went home, i felt guilty? you know, even if i didn't "cheat" on my bf, just thinking about another guy made me regret everything. so i broke up with my bf and he asked why.. and i answered, "ofcourse i would never mess around with other guys. but if i ever do make a mistake, i don't want to be unfaithful."
to cheer him up, and this is how i felt genuinely, i said, "maybe we can start over in the future." and he replied, "i hope so...""

because the "cute" guy hindered my feelings, and that's what made me realize what i might expect later along the road if the situation was bigger?