[michikosashimi]

ok.
here goes.
my ex talked to me today.
and its the first time he has opened up to me
after our breakup. he just decided to tell me
that he likes a new girl. he also called me selfish -_-;
he called me selfish because i didnt tell him why i broke up with him.
but i DID. he was also like the reason why i didnt hold you was because you're selfish for not telling me.
i was wondering why he was telling me these things o_o;
its making me really mad, because why would he tell me these things.
its NO USE.

EDIT:
he lied to me;
because i still sorta had a little feeling for him.
and he knew. he lied to me so my feelings would be gone for him.
because he's going back to korea and never coming back. O:
thank you guys for your advice, i just got to get over this stage now.

[Lie]

How long has it been since your break-up?

It's likely that he's still not over it, and mentioning that he likes a new girl is his way of trying to make you jealous.

[constipates]

Then ask him silly! Maybe he was the mad the whole time, because "you didn't tell him why" (maybe due to him being sad.. and ignoring your explanations?).

[aubrei]

maybe he just wants to get things off his chest

[michikosashimi]

How long has it been since your break-up?

It's likely that he's still not over it, and mentioning that he likes a new girl is his way of trying to make you jealous.

its been three months o:
and thats what my friends have been telling me.
"he's just trying to make you jealous."

maybe he just wants to get things off his chest

he can just tell me im selfish or whatever he thinks.
but does he have to tell me he likes a new girl -_-;

[iwanabiggal0lly]

He's probably just trying to get back at you for breaking up with him. Ignore him.

[Shikabane Hime]

He's playing the jealousy card, so he'll feel wanted by multiple women.

[EHNerJI]

haha, yeah seems like he's trying to make you jealous.
he doesn't need your approval to like someone else,
so there's no point in telling you, really. lol.

[cherri82crystal]

haha it sounds like he's still not over you. he's bringing some random girl onto the scene to try to make you jealous.
and hes still confused about the breakup, make you should make it more clear :s

[Aimiko]

I think that he still likes you and that he's still not over you.
& He's either in denial or he's confused about the break-up.

I also think that he's trying to make you jealous, or he's trying to "show-off" that he likes someone else now and that he's so over you.
Or maybe he's just trying to get back to you because he's childish? XD

There are lots of answers if you look at different perspective, haha. :x

[michikosashimi]

you should make it more clear :s

we tried to talk about it though o:
he brought up that subject.
and i was going to make it more clear.
because he was asking me why..etc.
i was saying it to him but then halfway through,
he was like nevermind, it was the past,
theres no use now. -_-;

[xxSecRet]

i think he's just jealous D: maybe he still have feelings for you .

[michikosashimi]

i think he's just jealous D: maybe he still have feelings for you .

the way he sounded wasnt like that o:
it sounded like an "im over you now" tone.

[mintcracker]

if he was over you
he wouldn't give a rats ass about what you thought


or need your 'approval'

Why tell you he likes some new girl? Obviously he's hoping for you to go crazy with jealousy lol.


Ignore him.



oh and of course he'll try to sound nonchalant...he won't be crying his eyes out and telling you this would he?


His actions indicate alot =)

[QWERTY.]

he wants you to be JEALOUSSSSSSSSSSSS

and wants you to think its all your fault for everything BUT ITS NOT.

ignore him. there is no need to be around people who treat you like that

[michikosashimi]

Obviously he's hoping for you to go crazy with jealousy lol.

lol xD
why would i want to be jealous?
its already over.

[mintywinter]

lol xD
why would i want to be jealous?
its already over.

Exactly. Just ignore him. He's trying to get revenge on you by attempting to make you feel bad about breaking up with him.

[SJAMES]

maybe he's telling you so that you'll be jealous.
maybe he's making all that up.
maybe he doesn't really think you're selfish
and is trying to date that other girl
to get you jealous. why else would he just
randomnly tell you
that he's going out with a new girl blahblahblha
and that you're selfish?

[michikosashimi]

Exactly. Just ignore him. He's trying to get revenge on you by attempting to make you feel bad about breaking up with him.

well, afterwards i did regret.
and i asked him if he wanted to get back together.
he said no, he just wants to be friends.
so, this is uneccesary of him to say.

[michikosashimi]

that he's going out with a new girl blahblahblha

he likes another girl. o: