[cielle]

He's not even a friend.. he's more like an acquaintance.

Just wondering... do your friends of the opposite sex just randomly touch you??

The thing is, I hate being touched especially by people that I don't know that well (esp guys!)... girls I'm not that terrible with because I have touchy girl friends. (just like linking arms and stuff) Anyhoo guy friends that I'm not that close to.. ew. This guy is constantly rubbing my back, touching my arm, trying to give me a hug which makes me want to punch him in the face or get the hell away from him because its making me super uncomfortable. I like my bubble! I wouldn't be as grossed out if he did it to everybody else but he's always doing it to me! He's always looking at what I'm doing (which I find annoying) on my computer screen, sending me random text messages that I now ignore in middle of the night etc.

Like today he said hi and rubbed me on my back and I felt like goosebumps from that I really hate that feeling just like why are you touching me? I didn't give you permission!

But anyhoo it's the touching that ****es me off the most. I wouldn't say I'm that close to him and he's hard to avoid since he's in my small major so I don't want to make things awkward and be like "DONT effin touch me! grr" I wish he would just go touch his girlfriend (ys he has a gf) and leave me the hell alone!



do your friends of the opposite sex touch you for no random reason??

[Jentage]

He wants to be your boyfriend LOL ...and no since im a dude no girl would be brave enough to make the first move and start touching lololol~

[Shikabane Hime]

"DONT effin touch me! grr"

Do it! Man up!

[MsIbTRiPPiN]

dude wtfudge. i hate scenarios like this. those perves need to lay off and find somethin else to rub on. if you have to tell him, "DONT effin touch me! " then don't be afraid to do so. you can start off with a softer and serious tone, but if he continues to be disrespectful like that, let it be known that he is making you uncomfortable.. and if things get awkward then it has to be awkward, just know that it wasn't your fault to begin with.. and it'll be awkward in the beginning, but you'll be thankful you said something. don't let things escalate by not doing anything. he might think you like it or something 'coz you haven't said anything. if he finds an excuse for what he's doing, he'll surely use that.

you can start off saying, "why do you always do that? do you know that it makes me feel uncomfortable?" good luck!

[mintywinter]

Nope, they don't touch me for no reason....

Tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he touches you, so you'd like him to stop it (no need to sound angry, keep it calm and polite for now). Maybe he thinks he's closer to you than you think he really is.

If he still doesn't stop, feel free to yell. It's not your fault things turned out awkwardly.

If he still doesn't stop after that, it's sexual harassment, and that would be time to start contacting the proper authorities.

[Lie]

Kick him in the beanbag.

[KOGEPANN;)]

If you're not comfortable with it, say or do something.
I always do a light push or shove if some guy friend that doesn't know me well does that to me, or/and tell them it feels weird and I don't like being touched bla bla blaa, and freak them out ;P

[Seraphyx]

Just say it, no big deal really. Yes, some of my friends (girls) touch me (friendly touches) and my shallow self thinks "Whoa, you're ugly, why are you touching me?", but I never actually say it.

[xxSecRet]

omg i noe what you mean >-< yes, i wouldnt even call him a friend tho` cuhs i don't know him like that, i dont even noe his NAME, he would come by randomly and flick my hair o_o and i'm very overprotective of my hair LOL . But yeah when he did that i would tell him to stop because i don't know him DDD:

Yeah, just tell that guy to PLEASE stop . and if he still does it attack him ! Or just yell at him ><

[prisonerzero]

If you don't like it, tell him. Otherwise, just deal with it.

[iSeventh]

he thinks he's your boyfriend. Also he thinks he's so attractive that you think he's your boyfriend

[strawberry_yum]

Well, I'm like you and guys touch me to say hello and stuff like a hug but usually i just put one arm on their back and tap it. But if you dont wnat him touching you, you should have like a disgusted face and reluctantly hug him. Or if he randomly touches you just give him a look.

[_dax_]

"You are invading my bubble"

[Amanda Plz]

But anyhoo it's the touching that ****es me off the most. I wouldn't say I'm that close to him and he's hard to avoid since he's in my small major so I don't want to make things awkward and be like "DONT effin touch me! grr" I wish he would just go touch his girlfriend (ys he has a gf) and leave me the hell alone!

Oh, dude. Totally kick him in the nuts. Especially since he has a girlfriend. I've gone down that road with touchy feely guys and it's not a smooth one :/

[eximius]

Backhand him.
I don't allow my guy friends to touch me whatsoever... unless it's a friendly, MUTUAL hug or something.

[votre-beau]

He has a lot of confidence, and thinks you're comfortable with it because you haven't said anything.

Tell him straight up. =D

[A-Jaey]

I read the title and I thought,
Just tell him exactly what you think!
Give him a thrashing with your bag or purse xD!

[Tutu Loli]

I think you should just tell him stright out that you don't want to be touched.

[sushixlovesu]

Yep this one guy i know from my swim team kept randomly touching me when he says hi to me and stuff. I got super annoyed and kicked him and told him to stop invading my personal space =I anyways we are still close now and he doesnt randomly touch me anymore xP

[machiavelli_paganini]

dont feel like youre being mean. he's overstepping his bounds. it's not your fault, you're not doing anything to lead him on. don't be afraid, don't be embarassed. don't just "deal"

tell him to stop, embarass him in front of everyone, tell his girlfriend what he's doing. since you two are trapped together, it's best that you make it known you dont want him to touch you. make comments so that other people can hear and agree. that way, if he retaliates and tries to make it seem like you're just crazy, other people can vouch for you.

something like this, it is best that you have the support of your friends or else it's a lonely road.

he's taking advantage of your friendship and a true friend would never do that.