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#1 User is offline   killerbeex 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 02:56 PM

My girlfriend and I just got into a small fight. I'm just wondering about what things i can do to SURELY make it up to her. Any ideas?
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#2 User is offline   Lie 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 03:02 PM

Tell her that you love her and you're sorry for being an insensitive idiot (even if you weren't). If that doesn't work, buy her stuff.
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#3 User is offline   xxSecRet 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 03:39 PM

Hrmm, maybe you should tell her your sorry and that even you guys have fights here and there you`d still love her :]
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Posted 31 January 2009 - 03:51 PM

Make up sex.

OR

Take her out.
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Posted 31 January 2009 - 03:58 PM

QUOTE (Lie @ Jan 31 2009, 01:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Tell her that you love her and you're sorry for being an insensitive idiot (even if you weren't). If that doesn't work, buy her stuff.

QUOTE (Shikabane Hime @ Jan 31 2009, 01:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Make up sex.

OR

Take her out.


Pretty much.

Even then, you said it's a small fight... you don't necessarily need to pull out all the stops or anything.
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#6 User is offline   ShadowMax76 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 05:27 PM

learn from this experience. grow from it.
try to have it put behind BOTH of you
THEN you can perhaps go back to being some random guy you probably are.
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#7 User is offline   MaryMagdalin 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 07:16 PM

whose fault was it?

if its your fault, apologize and mEAN it.
if its hers, be patient, dont raise your voice and explain why.

important thing is to solve it completely
and then put it behind you.

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#8 User is offline   KimKTN 

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Posted 02 February 2009 - 07:27 PM

dry.gif actions speak louder than words

write her a little note - in ur best handwritting - some effort
than just "saying" it.

V_V" make it up to her by cooking her lunch?

doesn't have to cost you anything - just effort is good enough
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Posted 02 February 2009 - 10:15 PM

QUOTE (killerbeex @ Jan 31 2009, 04:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My girlfriend and I just got into a small fight. I'm just wondering about what things i can do to SURELY make it up to her. Any ideas?


Go with that person.

Seriously, if its not that big of a deal, let her have it. It will work out better for you that way. Trust.
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Posted 02 February 2009 - 11:54 PM

a small fight and you're worried? she'll get over it.. like you will too.

just be nice like always (if you have been). . . but maybe put in a sweet gesture or two during the day.. (massage or doing something stupidly cute)

/shrugs
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#11 User is offline   Nerdy 

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Posted 03 February 2009 - 12:10 AM

A lot of the things already mentioned work, but I've found that a simple genuine apology is all that's necessary.
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Posted 03 February 2009 - 01:41 AM

You're never right. If you even think for a second that you can win in a fight. You're wrong haha...I learned the hard way smile.gif
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#13 User is offline   ajlee613 

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Posted 03 February 2009 - 01:48 AM

y0 dude face it, u werent fighting about w/e u think u were fighting about, sure that started a spark but the oil was there waiting.

you need to hit it where it starts. just making it up to her this one time wont stop a spark from lighting the flame again later.

usualy these things come from deep within urself and has not much to do with the other person. jealousy, insecurity, some kinda deep rooted feeling that comes out because of this person. u are a trigger and she is to u, and u spark eachother in a bad way.

its not so simple like ppl wanna believe it is. date 100 more girls and u'll understand. think hard. dont be afraid to work for wat u want.

love aint real. its a feeling lazy ppl made up so they can have an excuse for not working at a relationship "oh we are in love things will work out we will always be togehter" BULLLLLLLL! u kno wat im sayin?

try to keep it as real and emotion free as possible when it comes to dealing with making choices. emotions direct choices that feel good to u at the time. ur mind is capable of directing choices that are morally and logically correct ones.
Think about all the things in this life that hurts you... do not do those things.

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