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Hard To Approach... Its hard for me to approach this guy...

#1 User is offline   xkumagoro_beamx 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 07:07 PM

Ok... i went to a dance with couple of friends... then i saw this really hot guy.
So one day i was surfing through facebook, i saw a picture of him.. so i found him.
And i realize that couple of people that i know, they know his friends...
but none of them are good buddy with me.. and also the people that i know that knows him, i dun really wanna talk to them...
so i dunno what to do now..



how should i approach him... i dun wanna just aim him and make it all awkward...
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#2 User is offline   5.mystline 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 07:10 PM

Stalk him 24/7 then when you get your chance "accidentally" bump Into him & Introduce yourself then slide your number Into his pockets smile.gif
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#3 User is offline   xxSecRet 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 07:15 PM

You should just IM him(: i did that to the guy i thought was hott, but i wouldnt do that if it hadnt been my so called bff telling him i stalked him, surprisingly it wasnt awkward at ALL ! biggrin.gif Hope you`ll talk to him so0n ^^
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#4 User is offline   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 07:19 PM

Don't you girls normally add random peeps?
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Posted 31 January 2009 - 07:30 PM

So you only like him cause he's hot...?
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Posted 31 January 2009 - 07:37 PM

^

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I wouldn't suggest aiming him out of the blue...
1. you'll boost his ego
2. that's like a middle school move >.< & lame


You just gotta appoarch him & be casual.


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And i realize that couple of people that i know, they know his friends...
but none of them are good buddy with me.. and also the people that i know that knows him, i dun really wanna talk to them...


Could it be that those "friends" are jerks? Jerk chill with jerks. Many he's a jerk? XD I don't know if I'm making sense.
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#7 User is offline   xkumagoro_beamx 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 07:48 PM

lol... thx butt there is no way of me stalkin him since we don't go to the same school.

@ jentage - i dunno yet.. i want to get to know him first u kno...
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Posted 31 January 2009 - 08:00 PM

You should pretend he's not hot, and approach him like any other guy. Forget his appearance. You must see through that. But yeah I know that's difficult.

It's also difficult for guys too when we see holy hell mother of Jesus super beautiful gorgeous girls.. We assume they have high standards for guys who dare to approach them :/ , well at least from my point of view. Not to say that all pretty girls are stuck-up but-------- there really are those pretty girls who are stuck up....so yeah hard for us guys to approach girls unless you know you're a player and have the A-game with verbally flirting.. smile.gif
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Posted 31 January 2009 - 08:04 PM

maybe you shouldn't AIM him cause that can kinda freak him out a little. I personally get all weirded out when someone I've never met before AIMs me and tries to get to know me. he goes to the same school as you right? do you have any classes with him at all? or you can at least just add him on facebook first and try to start it out that way. talk about if he went to the dance, or say you saw him at the dance. make it casual but not too stalkerish haha. good luck!

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#10 User is offline   Shikabane Hime 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 08:18 PM

Just AIM him and make it all awkward. Best solution.
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#11 User is offline   xkumagoro_beamx 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 08:33 PM

@ euph0ria - no we dun go to the same school. I'm scared that he will think i'm stalking him or somethin... thats y i didnt add him on facebook
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Posted 31 January 2009 - 08:42 PM

If you see him occasionally, then you should introduce yourself, talk to him, get to know him, etc. before you start IMing him.

If not, just IM him. Haha! smile.gif There's no doubt it'll be awkward at first but, it'll pass after a few minutes of IMing.
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#13 User is offline   xkumagoro_beamx 

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Posted 31 January 2009 - 08:48 PM

haha still it would be totally awkward aim-ing him not knowning whatt to say
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 01:39 AM

aye boy i seen you that one time at this dance and thought i should holler

JK. maybe.

just say you saw him one time and just thought you would say hi.

if he says hi or doesnt respond.. what do you have to lose? nothing. you can only gain or remain the same.
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 02:35 AM

QUOTE (Jentage @ Feb 1 2009, 02:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So you only like him cause he's hot...?


^ LOL laugh.gif i know ehh??

u can alwayz just try adding him on facebook and see what happenz...
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 02:37 AM

Just add him on facebook... and say that you saw him at a club.

Easy as pie.

I did that once, but I found out that the girl that I was communicating with was a totally boring ding bat of a human being. So I just blocked her biggrin.gif

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#17 User is offline   xkumagoro_beamx 

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Posted 02 February 2009 - 03:32 PM

hahaha.. good one..
you know i just dun want him to think imma a total stalker by adding him on facebook, and thinking like how did she get my facebook?
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Posted 02 February 2009 - 06:06 PM

lol dont just add him randomly
idk in my opinion i think its weird when you add ppl you dont really knoe
nahh mean???
but if you see him anywhere be coincidence or by purpose ;]
start some small talk and see how it goess
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Posted 04 February 2009 - 05:17 PM

but the thing is i don't see him unless a group of friends go out. Maybe we see him..
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Posted 04 February 2009 - 06:59 PM

Just add him on facebook
It's not that weird to add random people you've barely met on facebook...

Well random people add me all the time and I don't see anything really weird about it...

That way you can leave a comment on his wall or something saying something like "hey I saw you at blah blah blah" and you can get to know him better

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