[PunkReign]

LMAO ok so yea i duno i feel kinda bored and a lil depressed cus i dont think my BF is caring about our relationship. we've been dating for almost 3 weeks now and i havent had him for evn one full day ad we havent evn gona on a date...i mean seriously isnt that wat dating supposed to be about.... lmao i kno he's a busy guy with volunteering and tennis practice ans shlt like that but seriously! that doesnt mea he can push me to the side =o= sigh and his parents dont evn kno about us, strict as hell i bet so yeah respond

[mintywinter]

Hey, it's only been 3 weeks! Give him a bit of time... I only go out on a long date like that once a month, unless it's during the holidays. Same with my friends who are dating.

[PunkReign]

lmao but if he would jus tell me, ya kno. its like he says "oh my parents dont let me go out at all. we'll wait for an opportunity" and stuff like that. sigh and like i jus asked him on aim, "hey wana ask if youcould go watch moves net weekend?" and he responds like "ohhh nah my parents only let me go if its about school and stuff" and then i ask him "well wuld chu like to go?" and then LOOOOOONG pause and then he says "sigh i have no life" jus then i sarted questioning if we should jus go back to friendly terms =o= sigh its so annoying!

[mintywinter]

One possibility is that he feels uncomfortable about this relationship, because he doesn't want to disobey his parents. If his guilt over it is more than his feelings for you, then it's best to break up, since it will always be on his mind and neither of you will be able to enjoy yourselves. Ask him if it's that...

But that pause... ah, it's not good to keep a girl waiting! Ask him to be more prompt about it, and tell you when he has to be afk.

Edit: You can also try asking the fellas.

[aky93rkfka]

dang, that's a biggy. i wouldn't like that AT ALL either. i feel you.

i suppose i say you should talk to him.
honestly i had the same experienced and i talked to my boyfriend about it
and we always see each other.
it's really best to talk about your problems with your boyfriend then just
keeping everything to yourself. being honest and opened with him is the
best way [:
if he's not the type to care then he definitely shouldn't be a part of your life.
if he does care then he should take action.
remind him and tell him how much you want attention. [:
hope it works and wish for the bestt of you two <3

dang, that's a biggy. i wouldn't like that AT ALL either. i feel you.

i suppose i say you should talk to him.
honestly i had the same experienced and i talked to my boyfriend about it
and we always see each other.
it's really best to talk about your problems with your boyfriend then just
keeping everything to yourself. being honest and opened with him is the
best way [:
if he's not the type to care then he definitely shouldn't be a part of your life.
if he does care then he should take action.
remind him and tell him how much you want attention. [:
hope it works and wish for the bestt of you two <3

[xsakurahanax]

That story reminds me of me and my boyfriend. XD Yeah, like what the others say, give him time. I mean, it can be a shock for a guy to suddenly date a girl. Trust me. Not only that I talked to my boyfriend, telling him that sometimes I feel as if I'm ignored in the relationship. He now tries to spend more time with me, like after the both of us finish work. :3 So in the end, I think the key here is communication in any relationship. If he doesn't try and talk or fix up this problem. Then he isn't worth it. :\

[Antz]

babe, 3 weeks, come on. lmfao.
it varies. 3 first weeks we saw each other every day straight, lmfao. now we only see each other once or twice a week.
and having his parents not know about you two makes it worse.

[PunkReign]

lmao i asked him yesterday night before i went to sleep heres the conversation:

Me: (11:33:57 PM): argh ok we hav to talk
Him: (11:34:04 PM): talk to me :]
M: (11:34:33 PM): umm ok do u feel uncomfortable about this relationship?
H:(11:34:49 PM): no
M:(11:35:01 PM): Really?
H: (11:35:09 PM): that means you are..
M:(11:35:22 PM): lmao im not uncomfortable
M:(11:35:28 PM): i jus
M:(11:35:33 PM): wana kno if its going somewher
H: (11:35:41 PM): do you think it is??
M: (11:36:02 PM): i want it to
M:(11:36:44 PM): lmao ima girl andrew i want attention but i dont realli kno..
H: (11:36:57 PM): i get ya
M: (11:36:58 PM): ehehe since ur life is so busy that chu can make time for me
H: (11:37:20 PM): haven't gotten to expectations for you
H: (11:37:21 PM): that's chill
M: (11:37:38 PM): ...thats great
H: (11:38:20 PM): nah, dun feel guilty. it's chill i understandd. for reall
H:(11:38:21 PM): i am who i am.. and i gotta do what i gotta do :T. so it's like you said.. a take it or leave it situation
M: (11:38:57 PM): lmao i dun feel guilty for saying this
H: (11:39:08 PM): that's good :]
M: (11:40:10 PM): anyways think about it
H: (11:41:09 PM): i'm chill with being with you. but if i can get to that bar for you. then that's finee. nothing wrong with expectations.. you can end it here if you feel like it's best anyways... i can't do anything about it cuz well.. i just can't..
M: (11:43:12 PM): lmao i dont wana giv up on u just yet :] i told chu i liked chu alot, i meant it
M: (11:43:20 PM): and anyways im rushing things
M:(11:43:24 PM): ^^
M: (11:43:56 PM): lmao i guess still need some getting used to
M:(11:44:04 PM): ....
H: (11:44:09 PM): it's all aboutt compromisess :]
M: (11:44:16 PM): yep...
M:(11:44:25 PM): compromises
M: (11:44:31 PM): sigh
M:(11:44:33 PM): wel im tired
M:(11:44:42 PM): officialli going to bed
H:(11:44:45 PM): alright
H: (11:44:54 PM): good night alice
H: (11:45:00 PM): sweet dreams
M: (11:45:13 PM): night andrew
M:(11:45:23 PM): sweet dreams to u too
M:(11:45:39 PM): mm lmao
M:(11:45:46 PM): nvm :]
signed off at 8:42:32 AM.


lmao wat about that!? AND HE EVEN SAYS "BREAK UP IS BEST ANYWAYS?" OMGWD LMAO YESTERDAY NIGHT I WAS LIKE WTF*** WAS THAT! T . T sigh so sad i duno wat to do anymore guys...sigh should i giv him more time? i realli do like this guy.... sigh

[KimKTN]

both of you are 14 right? and some parents arne't OKAI with dating at this age either
and its hard on him to please both sides.

and its only been 3 weeks - i woudln't even introduce my bf if its only been 3 weeks

did you ask him out? or he asked you out. IF he asked you out then tell the guy to be up to par.. and stop slacking.
if you want someone to spend time with you then find someone who would.
You can't force him or make him uncomfortable can you?

is it his first relationship?
( V_V i didn't get to go out on a date with my first bf until being with im for 2+ months )

you can always try to
join him in his volunteer.

[joannieos]

Me & my boyfriend are great. We see each other almost every week so it's fine. He's a great boyfriend, every time I'm angry or sad he'll always try to make everything better. Which he does, subconsciously. But there were times where he did a few things which hurt me a total lot, but he realized and came to my house to apologize ^^. It's nice when he shows that he does care, sometimes I feel I'm invisible when he has other commitments but it's all good. We talk about our problems that's why we don't have big fights. =)

[supa'Wanki]

I don't think you're too serious about your relationship other than feeling a little left out. I don't think he is either.

[Apple.Mint]

oh wow
that situation
is just..sad :9
i'm sorry, if that's how he respond to you after you straightforwardly tell him what you want rather those girls who beat around the bushes [no offense]
i think it is time to let go :9
i can tell you relaly like him [as you've stated] but do you think waiting around is worth it? you think he's going to change and suddenly becomes a prince charming?
imagine, reflect, and result shall come =]

Hmmmh not sure if you still want to know what's my boyfriend is like O.O
but sure since im bored and i feel like typing =P kekeke
he's Um..impatience, kind, cute, stupid, tried-to-be-strong-but-isn't LOL! sensitive, overly thinking, caring, independent, strong [physically], dorky, get sad too much -", eats often, sleep wayy too much, ahem needs to stop flirting haha wow sounds so negative O.O

[eternal.happiness]

I don't you guys are ready for a relationship.
3 weeks isn't a big deal but you guys should've at least went out on a date.

If he really likes you, he'd make an effort no matter how busy he is.
And from that conversation, it appears he doesn't even care if he's with you.
Like honestly, is he really worth it? When he doesn't show his feelings.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

if him getting pwned in tennis will make a difference, then feel free to PM me.

but otherwise, honestly can't blame him, he's got a busy life.
like he said, take it or leave it.
either you stay, or you leave if you don't like it so much.

[snooky7o2]

Leave this loser. I think he likes boys.

[euph0ria]

three weeks might feel long but it's not that bad. maybe the guy is new at this? I don't want to talk about my boyfriend if you feel like yours is bringing you down :[ he'll come around hopefully. a lot of boys are shy, and you can ask him when you guys will be able to actually spend some time alone together, and etc. don't come to soompi for advice, go to the guy himself and ask him whats up.

good luck.

I don't you guys are ready for a relationship.
3 weeks isn't a big deal but you guys should've at least went out on a date.

If he really likes you, he'd make an effort no matter how busy he is.
And from that conversation, it appears he doesn't even care if he's with you.
Like honestly, is he really worth it? When he doesn't show his feelings.

ouu then again, she has a point lol.

[PunkReign]

both of you are 14 right? and some parents arne't OKAI with dating at this age either
and its hard on him to please both sides.

and its only been 3 weeks - i woudln't even introduce my bf if its only been 3 weeks

did you ask him out? or he asked you out. IF he asked you out then tell the guy to be up to par.. and stop slacking.
if you want someone to spend time with you then find someone who would.
You can't force him or make him uncomfortable can you?

is it his first relationship?
( V_V i didn't get to go out on a date with my first bf until being with im for 2+ months )

you can always try to
join him in his volunteer.

lmao hes 16...and a junior. i guess hes jus not ok with lyng to his parents lmao. he asked me out and thats like aftr he knew that i liked him frst. no he has had past relationships lmao i duno hes a realli nice guy

anyways im good decided that im willing to wait for him. :] hes kewt in his own way and i feel happi wen we're just sitting comfortable with each other and talking about random stuff. he makes me feel calm when im usualli on stress so i feel the need to wait and see wat happens :] hopefulli we'll hav our opportunity soon ^ . ^ and he wont make me wait long for him :]. cus i <3 my baby *COpies and Paste on his AIm* WOOT and he made me reali happi aftr the day he rejected me so im good ^ > ^