[noobseeker]

There once was a guy who always made me happy and everything and I always had a little feeling for him but wasn't big enough for him to be my boyfriend. I rejected him once and i feel really bad but i just didnt have feelings for him at that time (this guy isnt a loser btw, he is good looking and head strong but i just didnt know why it didnt attracted me). Time went by and I got a new boyfriend and i was very happy but after 7 months or so he dumped me for another girl. When i was with guy #2 i heard guy #1 was depressed but I heard he went on with his life. AFter i got dumped ..... guy #1 went back into my life and confessed again and telling me his feelings didnt change and telling me that waiting for me was well worth it.

this is confusing right here...at that moment my heart snapped and i started crying and thinking of all the things this guy did for me and i felt hurt for hurting him all this time. I realized this guy was the one for me.

Your feelings can really be spontaneous don't you guys think?

had this ever happen to you before? have you ever fall for someone you rejected?

BTW, we are together and he treats me 100x better then previous guy \

[Shikabane Hime]

People that I reject, were rejected for a good reason.
They're not coming back.

I mean, why would you feel bad for rejecting someone?

[iNfAtuAteD`]

congrats for finding a better guy!
I kind of had the same thing.. heres the story SIMPLIFIED AND SHORTENED BY ALOT...I didn't like this girl when I first met her.. but her friends "hooked" us up without me even knowing (yes it happened I don't know how).. So I just ignored her for a week and it was over. After 2 years we went out lol.. But then I did like her o.O... the end.

[xjuiiccy]

You two are together & happy now .
End of story .

[yujiniffer]

This has happened to me. Except I didnt have a happy ending. He stopped liking me, and I kept holding on for some reason. Things ended terribly and we don't talk anymore. It hurt alot and it took me YEARS to get over him (i just got over him the beginning of this year actually). Still I've learned so much from it and changed because of him, so even if I don't feel the same way for him anymore and he hates me, he still has a place in my heart no matter how cheesy that sounds.

Don't let go of this guy, or i'm telling you, you will regret it.

[Lie]

Sounds like your bf is a bit of a pushover (which isn't necessarily a bad thing). If someone rejected me, there'd be no chance of letting them get with me later. Too much pride to be walked on like that, only to accept them into my life when they've had a change of heart.

[iNfAtuAteD`]

Yeah forgot to add.. mine ended as well..
I stopped liking her basically, and slowly went back to a friend to friend relationship (attempted to) but it didn't work because she only wanted to be bf gf.. so..
she keeps wanting to get back with me.. and I don't talk to her anymore..

[noobseeker]

This has happened to me. Except I didnt have a happy ending. He stopped liking me, and I kept holding on for some reason. Things ended terribly and we don't talk anymore. It hurt alot and it took me YEARS to get over him (i just got over him the beginning of this year actually). Still I've learned so much from it and changed because of him, so even if I don't feel the same way for him anymore and he hates me, he still has a place in my heart no matter how cheesy that sounds.

Don't let go of this guy, or i'm telling you, you will regret it.

I wont let go of him hehe

I have a question tho, why and how did you start liking him?


to everyone else - Never give up even if you get rejected.....things always change

[yujiniffer]

I wont let go of him hehe

I have a question tho, why and how did you start liking him?


to everyone else - Never give up even if you get rejected.....things always change

Well prior to meeting him, I was this super shallow immature kid. and it wasn't until I moved to a different school that I started thinking about him because I was having such a hard time adjusting to the new school. I guess I had an epiphany. He was the only guy who ever really liked me for ME and to this day i'm not even sure why he did. I was an ugly duckling and all the other guys pretty much didn't even know I existed, yet he thought I was "pretty", I couldn't get it through my head.

He treated me with kindness and respect even if I was horrible to him (that was my immature method of getting him to back off then). He even listened to my problems with other guys/family even though I completely blew his off. He was different from any other guy I had met because he had this genuine personality to him, that he'd always give everyone a chance regardless of what they look like or how they acted. And it was then that I realized that I had this perfect guy in front of me all along. It was the first time, I had ever liked someone beyond their looks and the first time I had ever felt so strongly for anyone before.

[Aimiko]

Yea, I had it before, and I'm still having it now.
There's only one special guy in my life and I rejected him when I was younger because he was:

1) My best friend's ex boyfriend.
2) I wasn't confident enough to be his girlfriend.
3) My feelings towards him wasn't that strong.

But after I rejected him, we still hung out for a long time as friends. And after a year, I realized that I liked him a lot.

However, I never did anything with my feelings and every single day I regretted it when he walked away from my life. We haven't spoke with each other for like 3-4 years now. He's the only guy that had ever made me feel special and I have loved him a lot, even up until today. I was going to search him up at Valentine's Day and confess my feelings to him after 3-4 years..but I don't think that I should do it anymore. Perhaps I should just let him go.

PS: I have loved him for 3 years, but then I got over him. However, then I saw him again, and my feelings started to regenerate, and thus, I fell in love with him again, and I still am in love with him even though we don't speak nor do we see each other anymore. >_<

[noobseeker]

I'm so lucky that he didnt move on....im will cherish every moment i have with this person


Amiko...dont let go..ask confess to him now!

[OrangeJennyFish]

yeah i liked my ex the first time i saw him in grade 9 (lol love at first sight) and i confessed but he rejected me. and in grade 10 he asked me out so we dated then we broke up and now we're in grade 11. i dunno, i guess it could work...for awhile. =) good luck though. =D

[Jun4351]

omg.. that's me right there.. i rejected the guy cause i thought i wasn't good enough for him and then after i liked him back 2 yrs straight but b/c of some reasons i can't b with him T__T and he's graduating from high school this yr and moving to toronto WAHHHHHHHH -ahem- m so yeaa but we are still frds? but idk it feels alittle strained at times b/c there's complications but yea we r still tight??? i guess haha

[dsyxelic]

I have a story similar to yours, just that I'm the guy who got rejected? Haha.

I really liked this girl, and we became really close. She called me her best friend, I wanted to be something more.
We shared secrets, shared laughs, hung out, shared dreams for our future, helped each other with homework, etc. Apparently, she only looked at me as a best friend. She would ask me for help with this guy she was interested in, and every time it would hurt me so much. Yet I still helped her think of ideas to talk to him, tell her my opinions as a guy, etc. After a few months, I couldn't hold it in anymore and just confessed to her. I knew she didn't like me and I said I hoped we could still be friends and that I just needed to get the burden off my shoulders. She said she valued our friendship and said she wanted to still be best friends if i wanted to and if it wouldn't hurt me so much. Of course, I said yes. A few more months later, she told me the guy was a total douche and confessed to me that she fell for me a while ago. She said she didn't know how I felt about her anymore, that she probably hurt me too much and that she understands if I didn't like her back. She said she's willing to take a risk, just cause I'm me, and that she was too stupid to realize she had a great guy infront of her.
I was trying to forget my feelings for her, but after that I asked her out and we've been pretty happy.
4 months so far.

[cherri82crystal]

awww that's cute =)! I'm glad you realized your true feelings ^-^
You're really lucky to have such a guy!~

[heyitzthatfc]

People that I reject, were rejected for a good reason.
They're not coming back.

I mean, why would you feel bad for rejecting someone?

Because sometimes you find out that they're exactly what you were looking for. That's a biggy in some cases.

[noobseeker]

yeah things happen because of current situations and situations changes constantly.

For example look back 3 years ago ..i am sure all of your thoughts were a lot different and less mature then your current thought process.

[vectorzz]

Maybe girls are just sometimes picky?

A lot of guys just say yes if some girl confessed

I mean, girls get caught off guard and they don't know the person well enough or wasn't really "target that guy" during the first confession
As they get to know the person, they start to notice the person and develop FEELINGS!!

[noobseeker]

I forgot to mention i was really mean to guy #1 after i got guy #2 because he made me promised not to commounicate with guy #1. guy #1 doenst bother me much but tries calls me like once every 3 months but i avoid his calls. I am so lucky he doesn't hate me

[deportedkorean]

in 6th grade this guy liked me. When I found out, I gave the normal immature "EWWW!" response. Then from 7-10th grade he went to a different school. In 11th grade he came back to our school and he looked pretty darned good...I was attracted but did nothing about it really. Glad I didn't though cause he's sort of a messed up guy to his girlfriends.