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#1 User is offline   Xxlasvxx 

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Post icon  Posted 01 February 2009 - 03:48 PM

I get the point now(:
thankya!
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#2 User is offline   Shikabane Hime 

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Posted 01 February 2009 - 03:53 PM

So basically you want a bf cause everyone else has one.
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 03:55 PM

There's a saying that goes something like, "Love comes when you least expect it."
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:01 PM

QUOTE (Shikabane Hime @ Feb 1 2009, 05:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So basically you want a bf cause everyone else has one.

No, I just havent had a serious one. And
and I dont know why, just feel like something is
wrong with me or something?


QUOTE (chifuni @ Feb 1 2009, 05:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There's a saying that goes something like, "Love comes when you least expect it."

Yeah but at this rate I'm never expecting it...
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:04 PM

lol... You don't have to be flirty 24/7..Maybe some guys don't like that?
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:05 PM

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:07 PM

QUOTE (Jentage @ Feb 1 2009, 06:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
lol... You don't have to be flirty 24/7..Maybe some guys don't like that?

I'm not flirty all the time
just i mean I'm not completely awkward with guys.

&& I'm fourteen
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:11 PM

Your still young! I think its really normal for ur age to not have a boyfriend!
But if u despertatly want a boyfriend.. then u can find one.. of cos he may not b the best! .. but he was one u could get in the hurry!! But i suggest u should wait for someone who u can say, my one n only love! .. do u really want to have plenty of different boyfriend?

if u let things happen naturally.. then ur meet a guy like a kdrama!!
Open your eyes O_O ..
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:11 PM

14? There's plenty of time to find the 'right guy'. I'm sure you'll find someone smile.gif.
No need to feel left out, you don't need a guy to be happy.
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:11 PM

14 is young, there's no need to be in a rush or try too hard

just try to be patient
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Pikachu is cuter than all girls.
I'm cuter than Pikachu.

Therefore, I'm cuter than all girls.
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:15 PM

14.. eh, do you really -need- one that badly? :\
Most guys are still crazily immature at your age anyway... x_x;
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:15 PM

QUOTE (littlejade @ Feb 1 2009, 06:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Your still young! I think its really normal for ur age to not have a boyfriend!
But if u despertatly want a boyfriend.. then u can find one.. of cos he may not b the best! .. but he was one u could get in the hurry!! But i suggest u should wait for someone who u can say, my one n only love! .. do u really want to have plenty of different boyfriend?

if u let things happen naturally.. then ur meet a guy like a kdrama!!


I dont want to have alot of boyfienda
I just want a good one atm.
oh a kdrama boy would be marvelous!
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:16 PM

Like everyone else is saying: YOU ARE ONLY 14!

There's no need to rush, babe.

btw....at this age, don't expect a long-term good relationship with any boy.
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:18 PM

lol 14, I highly doubt you'll find a serious relationship at that age.
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:19 PM

If you can get a boyfriend solely because you flirted him into it (AKA seduce)... =\
You will find someone some day, don't rush. Most people here on soompi are young
people. The most "real" relationships start in early-mid twenties. And if you're talking
about your friends, I bet you just feel lonely and want one because they all have one.
I feel that way too sometimes, but then again, I'm glad I didn't just jump into a relationship
when I had the chance =)
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:21 PM

Oh I see, so you're wondering why you can't get a serious bf.
Well, you think 14 years olds get serious? LOL jailbait.

Maybe if you looked older, you'll attract some serious men in their 20's.
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 04:33 PM

QUOTE (Shikabane Hime @ Feb 1 2009, 06:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh I see, so you're wondering why you can't get a serious bf.
Well, you think 14 years olds get serious? LOL jailbait.

Maybe if you looked older, you'll attract some serious men in their 20's.


And how a I supposed to look older?
I dont want to date someone who could get in trouble for
dating me tho.. Haha
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 05:05 PM

QUOTE (princesspoppy @ Feb 1 2009, 07:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Like everyone else is saying: YOU ARE ONLY 14!

There's no need to rush, babe.

btw....at this age, don't expect a long-term good relationship with any boy.

exactly mellow.gif rolleyes.gif
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 05:35 PM

QUOTE (.:precious:. @ Feb 1 2009, 07:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly mellow.gif rolleyes.gif


Yeah i guess you guys are probably
right...Haha oooh well..?
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 05:37 PM

14? Take your time, you have plenty of it.

Since you said you're looking for a long-term relationship (which is pretty rare at this age, but I won't discount it), don't try to attract guys by flirting... it only brings in guys who aren't serious at all.

But really, let it come naturally. Don't go out looking for one. It's rarely successful and will only frustrate you.
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