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I Feeel Un"liked" why dont i have a bf?

#1 User is offline   margaretgoesrawr 

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Post icon  Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:10 PM




* thnaks evryone, but someone please delete/closed this
im sorry if i gave off the vibe tht im self centered or a b!@#h
i just wanted to know hwy i dont have anyone but now i know,
love cant be forced and stuff liek tht blah blha
and sheeesh, i deleted everything i wrote cus ppls keep breaking up everything i said!
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#2 User is offline   ttris 

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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:14 PM

u are loved hun =)
don't let this get in your way... love will come when it is meant to come...
just live life and have fun! =D
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:20 PM

i don't have a boyfriend ever since i was born and i swear to god i look like sex godess vicx.gif crazy.gif phew.gif
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#4 User is offline   JunsuLove 

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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:24 PM

First off, I think it's a bit selfish to say that since you broke up with your bf and now you want one, you should just get one.. Don't think they should come for you..
Make the move if you're tired of waiting.. Maybe they don't like you because you're a bit self-centered, thinking that they should come to you and that you "want" a bf..


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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:26 PM

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u are loved hun =)
don't let this get in your way... love will come when it is meant to come...
just live life and have fun! =D


Totally true. Don't go look for love, but if you are really desperate then ask the person you like out.
I'll always be...
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#6 User is offline   margaretgoesrawr 

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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:29 PM

QUOTE (JunsuLove @ Feb 1 2009, 10:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
First off, I think it's a bit selfish to say that since you broke up with your bf and now you want one, you should just get one.. Don't think they should come for you..
Make the move if you're tired of waiting.. Maybe they don't like you because you're a bit self-centered, thinking that they should come to you and that you "want" a bf..



^ mmm i really didint liek the guy, i had no idea why i even went out iwht him
but yu know how its usually the guy talks to the girl, the girl talks back
and the boi asks her to be his gf
yeah i want somethn liek tht to happen
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:35 PM

i would just wait and like what other people have said. When it happens, it happens. Maybe be more proactive and seek a guy out? Dont know how most guys would take that though.

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#8 User is offline   zoo 

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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:40 PM

make guy friends, and flirt with them if you like what you see. if you can't seem to find any chemistry, move on to the next one.

but of course, it's easier said than done tongue.gif
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:40 PM

If you want one so badly, then make a move. But seriously, there's a saying that goes, "Love comes when you least expect it."


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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:41 PM

Just go with the flow - more to life than love
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:55 PM

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so my last bf was in the summmer, but i broke up with him
and now when i do want a bf, there is no one!


Guys aren't there to make you feel loved.
Why did you break up with him? Cause you didn't want a bf anymore?

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is it my personality/? like the boy im interested in has no idea i like him ):


Well ya, if you're afraid to speak up, you're not going to get a guy. Simple as that. When a guy doesn't make the move, he's not getting a girl.

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^ mmm i really didint liek the guy, i had no idea why i even went out iwht him
but yu know how its usually the guy talks to the girl, the girl talks back
and the boi asks her to be his gf
yeah i want somethn liek tht to happen


Oh, so basically you're one of the conservative traditionalists that believe guys should always make the move and girls should always be waiting.
GOOD LUCK FINDING A GUY LOLOL

Actually, it's quite easy these days, cause people are still so hardcore about these outdated sexist conventions.
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#12 User is offline   eternal.happiness 

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Posted 01 February 2009 - 09:59 PM

I think you're making a big deal of being single.
Like, if you are interested in someone; make the effort to get to know them.

I mean, it's not like love comes right away to you.
You have to be patient with love.

And honestly, there is more to life than love;
I do agree with the person above who mentioned this.
Although love is a wonderful feeling and so forth, it isn't something that should be forced.
It will happen when it is meant to happen,
that's the idea of fate <3

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Posted 01 February 2009 - 10:11 PM

You sure are beautiful!
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 10:12 PM

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im not ugly i can admit tht, im not tryin to be conceited

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but why dont i have a bf?


FYI those two contradicts each other.

I think we know what that means.
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Posted 01 February 2009 - 10:27 PM

QUOTE (Jentage @ Feb 2 2009, 01:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You sure are beautiful!


Make the move already mellow.gif
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