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Mixed Feelings? signals from a guy and how I've been translating

#1 User is offline   chocolate-girl-chocobo 

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Posted 02 February 2009 - 06:22 PM

ok soooo I like this guy he's 2 yrs older than me
(Im freshmen, him junior) and like we know each other from our first sem. class
And like we used to talk a little now we rarely talk.

But whenever he passes by me (when he's not with friends) he says hi to me
Yet, when he's with his friends he says nothing to me, but smiles at me.
I am confuzzled by this.

And whenever I recommend something to him, he actually goes to check it out :/
Maybe I'm over analyzing that but to me, most guys wouldn't bother to check it out.
Also confused by this!!

And whenever we pass each other our eyes meet, and we are just staring at each other,
until we walk into each other's blind spots. :/
blah totally confused.

And like whenever I send him a message on myspace tot all him about club or just random hello,
he doesn't respond :/
I don't get why ><

I also thought before he used to like my other friend but he doesn't show interest in her.
and well idk. I really want to think he likes me >//////<

High school bites!

ALSO
any advice on how to talk to him more??
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#2 User is offline   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 02 February 2009 - 06:29 PM

I basically shouted LOL.

I won't even bother checking out those clues because you are over thinking.
how to talk to him more, well saying hello then starting a convo would be great.
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Posted 02 February 2009 - 06:59 PM

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Posted 02 February 2009 - 07:02 PM

^ LOL

yeah u should talk to the guy more
but im sure he has interest in you
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Posted 02 February 2009 - 10:19 PM

Yeah, from what you said, you seriously can't tell if he likes you or not. And every guy is different, he might be doing all the things that seems like he like you, but then again he might not. Best thing to do is talk to him more, and flirt around. Don't be shy, let him know you're interested by obvious actions. And if you're obvious, and hes interested, then trust me, he'll respond.

Shy or not. If a guy know a girl like him, he will respond.
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Posted 02 February 2009 - 11:51 PM

hey frosh, stop thinking too hard.. most likely, the only thing on his mind is to probably get in your pants.

quit trying to hope he wants you cuz it's most likely to get you that way.

worry about your school. the boys don't get any better from here.
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Posted 03 February 2009 - 12:06 AM

Seems like you're kind of grasping at straws a bit. :\
There's really not much 'hints' being thrown around and you're looking much too deeply into small things.
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Posted 03 February 2009 - 06:47 AM


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Posted 03 February 2009 - 07:26 AM

He sounds like a nice guy, but you're gonna have to calm down.

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Posted 03 February 2009 - 09:22 AM

Bleh why does every guy acts like the tough guy whenever they're with their friends? D:
Especially when they're not dating you yet..T ^ T

Anyway, if you want to talk to him, then I'd suggest to talk with him in a place that's not that crowded. It seems that he'd open up to you when he's not with his friends. ;O

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Posted 03 February 2009 - 11:37 AM

does he flick his hair when he walks by you? this means he likes you!
does he step with his right foot first when he walks? this means he likes you!
does he wear white colored socks? this means he likes you!
does he breathe the same air you do? this means he likes you!
is he human? this means he likes you!

you're getting excited over nothing. he doesn't like you. if he liked you, trust me you would know. you're just a girl he talked to in class and he's not rude so he'll say hi to you every so often. don't turn into one of those creepy freshie girls who trail after an imagined love plz.
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Posted 03 February 2009 - 10:52 PM

you definetly was over-thinking it to the point where it seems like he really likes you. But from my point of view, he's just acting normal. You guys talked A LITTLE BIT during class. And yeah guys usually check out things that are recommended, like songs or funny youtube videos. He's not the only one.

I think YOU'RE the one with mixed feelings.
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Posted 03 February 2009 - 11:59 PM

QUOTE (dafleur @ Feb 3 2009, 06:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>


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Posted 04 February 2009 - 06:42 AM

QUOTE (machiavelli_paganini @ Feb 3 2009, 02:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
does he flick his hair when he walks by you? this means he likes you!
does he step with his right foot first when he walks? this means he likes you!
does he wear white colored socks? this means he likes you!
does he breathe the same air you do? this means he likes you!
is he human? this means he likes you!

you're getting excited over nothing. he doesn't like you. if he liked you, trust me you would know. you're just a girl he talked to in class and he's not rude so he'll say hi to you every so often. don't turn into one of those creepy freshie girls who trail after an imagined love plz.



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Posted 04 February 2009 - 07:34 AM

yeah i agree with most people in here.
make sure he likes you before you hurt yourself!!! =[
guys tend to give out signals and we as girls like to overanalyze.
be strong and just think of him purely as a friend
(or imagine hes gay or he is female!) it will help you get over him knowing hes not interested.

i hope things work out for you =] good luck
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Posted 04 February 2009 - 09:07 AM

may i ask... this particular class, are you just really smart to be in a class full of juniors or is he stupid enough to be in a class full of freshman?

anyway in my opinion i think you are analyzing the situation. just talk to him by asking about the homework or something or stalk his interests and get into them...
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Posted 04 February 2009 - 12:19 PM

i agree with the people on top^.
You're over analyzing it but then thats what people do in hs.
Clearly there's no real sign if he does like you or not.
If he takes in your consideration of a recommendation, it doesn't mean he's interested in you. It's just what friends do, give input on stuff.

Well if you like him, go for it. Start talking to him, maybe hang out together, just with the two of you(if you're comfortable with that) or with a group of friends. But be careful to expose your feelings to him!
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Posted 04 February 2009 - 01:32 PM

I agree with the others. You're over analyzing :\...
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