[lalagladys]

So you see theres this one guy that likes me at school;
he's liked me for quite a long time now. but i never knew,
untill he confessed to me about 2 weeks ago.
he likes me alot.
but theres this other guy that im interested in.
i dont know how to tell the the guy that is interested in me that i dont want to be with him.
should i wait for him to see me with another guy? or should i tell him straight up?
i don't know what to do.
HOW WOULD YOU TACKLE THIS SITUATION? D:



EDIT!
Okay so today i told him.
i was like
"uhm _______, we need to talk. i know that you like me... and i think its VERY sweet. but, i dont want to ruin the friendship we have. i'd be much happier knowing that i'll have a friend like you always by my side. i am really fortunate to have a friend like you, most people would be annoyed silly by me already xD"
and he was like "Yeah... i kinda got the idea already when greg dropped some hints. its okay gladys (:"

Ahhh thankyou soo much everyone! <3
your advice helped me so much!
i wish the best with your lives!

[euph0ria]

"should i wait for him to see me with another guy?"

Don't wait for him to see!! Why would you do that lol. Tell him as kindly as you can. I hope he's not one of those crazy stalker guys who get all weird and mean when they get rejected, lol. Don't tell him you don't want to be in a relationship (because what if he sees you with that other you like), just tell him you can't see him in that way and you just rather be friends more than anything else. Don't be too scared of hurting his feelings... pain is inevitable especially in a situation like this.

Two weeks ago? Did you not talk to him ever since? o_O

Good luck.

[unforgettable_misses]

I don't like you in that way, sorry.

[swtxmilktea]

don't wait for him to see you with another guy, it's better if you tell him straight up =( atleast, he won't keep having wavering feelings for you when he sees you with another guy, but he'll actually probably give up if you tell him straight up! i suggest you say...
" I have someone I like already... I'm sorry"

[MinSi]

I think you should tell him straight up that you're not interested. Just be kind and it'll be okay xD

[Garadaz]

A rejection is always a rejection , but the best way , would be for you to tell him straight , and dunno , maybe give him an opportunity in the future .

[goodnessgracious]

Do it firmly, don't beat around the bush. No need to be rude though. Tell him that you already have someone you like. Don't be too nice. Last time I was trying to turn someone down nicely I ended up having a stalker ;

[Shikabane Hime]

I don't like you, too bad so sad. Man up and move on.

Destroy him tyvm. Boys need to be rejected in their life once-in-a-while so they'll toughen up and stop acting like girls.

[RE.]

u shoulda reacted as if i asked you out...

An awkward expression
with "uuuhhhhh" and walk away.

hahahah

[claire.rawr]

don't be a punk and crush him by showing up with another guy. he'd hate you forever.

tell him yourself.. i'm sorry, i dont like you. . . i like someone else..

he'll get over it and find someone else to drool over.

[eximius]

Just tell him straight out that you're interested in someone else.
You'd be doing both him and yourself a big favor. You won't leave him hanging and you can stop stressing about what to do with this guy.

Definitely don't get another guy and wait for him to see you with him... that's just uncool.

[`123]

just tell him straight up that you dont like him.

[sunnyworld]

Be honest! Honesty is a lot better than lying and telling them to wait. You're going to give him usless hope that will hurt even more in the end.
Just tell him straight up that you don't see him in that way and that you're sorry.

[iPandaBear]

Tell him.
"I'm sorry but, I'm interested in someone already."

[AresJK]

just tell him
otherwise ur very very evil

[aiyan]

I've always seen you as a friend, and I hope we can still remain friends. (:

[_dax_]

Don't wait until he sees you with the other guy

Unless you want to be harsh be my guest

Tell him politely straight up

[hiswendy]

"Sorry, I already like someone else." Hint it to him at least or tell him straight up.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

He didn't ask the question, you don't need to say anything.
You not replying already indicates you don't like him that way.

[colloquy]

Um... when he confessed to you, did you tell him that you didn't like him? Or is he still waiting for his answer? o.0;

Just tell him right out girl... save him the time.