[Longshot]

Just these past couple days ive been a bit stressed about our relationship.. but i think it might just be me cause she says shes more than happy... but i dunno im really happy to be with her and want to be with her all the time but when she says things like " she belives in karma and thinks our relationship is doomed " then i dunno what to think.. plus last night she told me she was texting her ex boyfriend last night cause they still have to exchange some stuff caused they lived together and he has her 2 dogs that they got together but will always have them so its kinda like he will always be there while we try and have a relationship... you know ? why am i stressed out about that or worried about that ?

[Longshot]

Maybe My Confidence cause i know so many people wanna be with her and i dunno if im up to par ?

[watcher]

you scared of losing her. sounds pretty simple to me why you're stressed

[princesspoppy]

She thinks your relationship is doomed? Wow. How nice and considerate of her.

Yeah. What watcher said.

[Longshot]

now how would i go about fixing that ?

[princesspoppy]

Tell her to STFU and start having faith in the relationship......well in a nicer and loving way.

[claire.rawr]

^ co-sign. hahaha

dude, stop being so scared. if you're just gonna be scared all the time that she's still talkin with him and stuff, you're most likely gonna end up losing her. its not like she's cheating on you or nothing.. they just have dogs together. WOOPEE.

man up and realize.. yknow what? she sleeps with me at night so HAH.

-___-

[eximius]

^ Regarding the dogs... I know of a lot of people who would refuse to own a dog, or dogs, with their significant other. Their reason for that is because it's like having children... I know it sounds kind of dumb, but I think it makes sense. If the couple were to have dogs and then break up, they both obviously want the dogs so... It's either joint-custody or you have to decide who gets it. @_@;

But in your case, OP, you do sound pretty overly concerned.
If she's so concerned about karma, then maybe she should start doing good things to receive good karma.

[colloquy]

LOL... sorry, but your girlfriend obviously doesn't know much about karma.

And karma is a bunch of bogus, so there.

[claire.rawr]

eximuis well, i know about the dogs and how they are like. . . children. but there's nothing the guy can do to stop them from talking because of the dogs. i guess i didn't make myself clear but... what i meant was... they have dogs together.. he cant stop them from talking so he's just gonna have to deal. (at least it's dogs and NOT children. x])

and eximuis you're right... good things leads to good karma. tell her to shut up and at least don't do anything to make bad karma comes.

both you and your gf are just waiting for whats bad to come. thats not a healthy way to go on with a relationship. -___-

[eximius]

and eximuis you're right... good things leads to good karma. tell her to shut up and at least don't do anything to make bad karma comes.

both you and your gf are just waiting for whats bad to come. thats not a healthy way to go on with a relationship. -___-

Nuff said. :3


Now get both of your acts together and grab some good karma if she believes in it so much.

[Shikabane Hime]

She's still got hots for her ex, and is hinting that through ominous prophecies.

[Lie]

Just these past couple days ive been a bit stressed about our relationship.. but i think it might just be me cause she says shes more than happy... but i dunno im really happy to be with her and want to be with her all the time but when she says things like " she belives in karma and thinks our relationship is doomed " then i dunno what to think.. plus last night she told me she was texting her ex boyfriend last night cause they still have to exchange some stuff caused they lived together and he has her 2 dogs that they got together but will always have them so its kinda like he will always be there while we try and have a relationship... you know ? why am i stressed out about that or worried about that ?

Trust your intuition. To me it sounds like she's either prepared to check out of your relationship, or already has.

[mr. unfortunate]

okay seriously, i just lost my gf like a few days ago. and no lie i really miss her. I loved her. something kind of similar happened to me. it ends up that she had a crush on my roommate and we broke up b/c we got into too many fights about me not trying enough in the relationship. anyways, long story short, make sure u make her feel special if your afraid of losing her. dont make my mistake when its too late. Go online more or call her or something and make sure she knows ur there for her every day all day.