[hippiehop]

There is this guy I liked for a few months, we talked a lot and had a lot in common. However, whenever I thought of the possibility of getting into a relationship with him, I had this overwhelming sense of claustrophobia. Don't get me wrong, I've had long term relationships before (longest being roughly 14 months which was actually my last relationship and first love, ugh)... so I don't really have commitment issues. The stop-liking-them thing happens relatively frequently due to lack of connection or physical attraction, etc., but it's never been a claustrophobic feeling.

Just wondering if anyone else has felt claustrophobic while thinking about being in a relationship with someone specific in mind... but not really in general, because I honestly wouldn't mind (darn valentine's day is getting to me).

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On a side note, I told him about it (as in I wasn't interested in him anymore) but he's still kind of acting the same way as before and it's kind of creeping me out o_o...

[Lie]

Usually it happens when I realize a girl has committed to me and the chase has ended. :/

[ShadowMax76]

it means you can do better than him. LOl. :]

o_O' and just tell him to drop off the face of the earth if you're st artin' to be creeped out.

[eximius]

I've felt like that once, with my current boyfriend.
I've liked him on and off for about 2 years. I dealt with it because it didn't seem that I liked him enough to be in a relationship with him since I didn't feel the need to tell him how I felt.
About a month ago, while I was still with my ex, I started liking him again and it hit a lot harder than it used to.

As for the claustrophobia thing... maybe you just don't want to be in a relationship whatsoever right now.
You said you just sort of got out of a relationship, so maybe you're enjoying your single-ism?

[Ayuu~]

u like being single and being liked by someone.

[littlejade]

Yeah, there was this guy who i chatted to for a few months, he confessed n i rejected him. I think he is really sweet, but i don't see it happenin, so no matter how sweet he became after, i try to hold back my feelings. I almost gave in for his sweetness ^^ ... but at the end, he gave up.

Don't force yourself, if u don't believe it will work out. or have the chance. maybe ur feelings shuld grow more.

[hippiehop]

u like being single and being liked by someone.

that's pretty true. LOL.

[ShadowMax76]

u like being single and being liked by someone.

that's pretty true. LOL.

isn't that what a girl is.. T _ T -experiences.. LOl-