[xMrConvenient]

Okay so last night I texted my boyfriend around like 10:20 and i was like give me a quick call when you get home cause he gets off work at 10. He texted me back later and said "why quick call?" And i told him cause i needed to go to sleep. Then he said well im home but you have to wait i have to go shower. Then i was like.... uhhh okay i'll wait for you (at this point i was really sleepy and frustrated and wondering why he cant just call me and get this over with) Then around 10 minute later he texted me and said "Nvm go to bed ill call you in the morning" and i was like.... okay whatever then... and he texted me back saying "what your problem" and i didnt text back anything. This morning while were in school he totally ignored me and seems to be mad at me. Shouldnt i be the one mad? Do you guys think i should still pursue my future with this dude?

[prisonerzero]

Why do you need your boyfriend to call you when you need to go to sleep? Just go to sleep. He was working. I'm sure he was very tired as well. This just seems so small to me.

[greenana]

Go to sleep. why need you bf to call...im sorry but this sounds so childish. Well...he work late, of course he will be tired and when you are tired, you get mad.

[MaryMagdalin]

i think you`re in the wrong
you`re giving him demands to call you for YOUR convenience.
he`s the one tired from working, not you
you dont sound like you even care.

[xMrConvenient]

I used to work from 4-10 and i still stay up late to call him and we talk to like 12 not even counting i have to shower and eat after before i go to bed. We been talking on the phone everyday ever since we been together. Hes like a habit and its just a phone call. I didnt get mad about i only said okay whatever im going to bed then. Was it really that wrong? We dont even get to talk much at school cause hes scared peoples gonna find out about us being "gay" and i work 5 days a week we hardly get to hang out. Our phone life is our communication life. Is it that demanding just to talk to him for a bit before the day ends?

[claire.rawr]

wtf. NEITHER of you should be mad. WOOOPTIDOO he didn't call you last night. grow up. you'll see him again in the morning..

[Meenuh]

Then he said well im home but you have to wait i have to go shower.

Lol. Wtf? You don't have to wait just cause he has to shower. You should have just gone to bed.

Personally, I think it's inconsiderate of him to say that. He could have just taken like 2 secs out of his time to call and then shower.

[dsyxelic]

Lol. Wtf? You don't have to wait just cause he has to shower. You should have just gone to bed.

Personally, I think it's inconsiderate of him to say that. He could have just taken like 2 secs out of his time to call and then shower.

Most of the time calls don't last 2 seconds. They usually last more than just a few minutes.
Unless OP said "call to say goodnight" or something like that.

Even so, showers don't take long, and no one wants to stay dirty.
OP could have just waited a few min if he wanted to talk to him so bad.

[Aimiko]

None of you should be mad at each other. O_O...
And I think that he was just tired, just like you, so he probably wanted to shower and then sleep? Or maybe he had a rough day at his work that he reacted like that. @.@

[Shikabane Hime]

It's called sacrifice. On your part.

Did you have anything urgent to say? Or you just wanted to hear his voice before you sleep?
If so, just tell him to leave a voice msg so you can listen to it whenever you want. You can convert it into an mp3 file and loop it.

[heyitzthatfc]

It's called sacrifice. On your part.

Did you have anything urgent to say? Or you just wanted to hear his voice before you sleep?
If so, just tell him to leave a voice msg so you can listen to it whenever you want. You can convert it into an mp3 file and loop it.

him: sup babe, what'd you need me to call for?
her: nothing, good night.
him: k good night.""


I estimate about 8 seconds of phone talk. Not even worth it in my opinion.. lol

[euph0ria]

i understand where you're coming from.
sounds like a lot of these people don't even get a clue.
yeah, he's tired, we all know that...
but what's so hard about taking a few minutes of his life and calling his girlfriend?
she just wants to hear his voice before sleeping.
that's what girlfriend and boyfriends do. sheesh people.

your relationship is still worth it, and yeah maybe you should've considered his tiredness too.
no worries i think it'll blow over.

[Shikabane Hime]

but what's so hard about taking a few minutes of his life and calling his girlfriend?
she just wants to hear his voice before sleeping.
that's what girlfriend and boyfriends do. sheesh people.

My interpretation is that she is very high-maintenance cause shes getting upset over something like this.
That's not what couples do, that's what you do.

[Meenuh]

Most of the time calls don't last 2 seconds. They usually last more than just a few minutes.
Unless OP said "call to say goodnight" or something like that.

Even so, showers don't take long, and no one wants to stay dirty.
OP could have just waited a few min if he wanted to talk to him so bad.

2 seconds was an exaggeration. Get over it. Since when do showers take a few minutes? ... I hope yours don't. I think it's safe to assume this was more of a good night call since he said it was a quick call cause he had to go to bed.

He could have just said good night and went to shower or told OP to just go to bed but instead he says

well im home but you have to wait i have to go shower.

Lol. Sooo he waits and then he says nevermind go to bed i'll call you in the morning after he makes him wait.

Oh and you're entitled to feel however you wanna feel. No one can tell you to feel one way or another. If it upsets you .. it's gonna upset you. Something like this shouldn't be that big of a deal for you to not want to be with him. Being in a relationship isn't perfect. You work at it and communicate. Talk about what bothers you and how to fix it.

[eximius]

It's a petty thing to be upset over.
If anything he's upset that you sort of made a big fuss over it.
At least he didn't shower and go to sleep without telling you "nevermind, go to sleep."

[letmeinman]

get out of the closet
=]

[Ayuu~]

u needa be more understanding on his part.
perhaps he had a bad day at work. and u jsut made it worse by not caring.

[judyjudychan]

i think there is reason for both sides to be mad at each other, but its such a small problem that can be solved within a day~
if u both drop this one issue, then neither sides will be mad anymore~~
if u love him, and can oversee this one small problem yes u should pursue a future with him
i remember i get mad at my bf for not txting back to me late at night
but i was only mad for one day, and the next everything was back to normal
maybe u can just explain to him how u feel and next time maybe he will call first~

[QWERTY.]

the guy in your avatar looks mad LOL

randomesssss anyways
your text back might have sounded a bit like your mad or something which you sorta were.
but the thing with texting he cant see when your being sarcastic or your tone in your voice.

you might want to go up to him and say something and try to clear it up
if he doesnt accept it then he is a douche so yea.

[JASON;]

Why do you need your boyfriend to call you when you need to go to sleep? Just go to sleep. He was working. I'm sure he was very tired as well. This just seems so small to me.

Exactly what he said. Come on, give him a break. This isn't his fault