[JeSuisMoi]

Questions moved! Thanks for all the advice given thus far!! <3

[ShadowMax76]

1. the tables turn when i ignore a guy i liked, he starts making the effort to talk to me. i'm confused.

well. you can always ask him for his opinion.

2. i like a guy. i send a guy friend in to help, but i fear he'll sabotage it. what do you think about girls who have balls to ask a guy out herself?

well.. i know what i think about girls who makes someone else do their personal jobs. _flirting never works (unless it's seducing LOl), so just confess or ask him out.

edit: -cough- sorry for the choppy humor. o_O' jus' sappy these days. -sigh-

[JeSuisMoi]

well.. i know what i think about girls who makes someone else do their personal jobs.

edit: -cough- sorry for the choppy humor. o_O' jus' sappy these days. -sigh-

LOL It's alright. As for asking my friend to do my job. No no; maybe I worded it wrong, but my intention was just for my friend to plant the seed. Kind of let Bob take the idea and see what he does with it or how he reacts to it you know?

[ShadowMax76]

LOL It's alright. As for asking my friend to do my job. No no; maybe I worded it wrong, but my intention was just for my friend to plant the seed. Kind of let Bob take the idea and see what he does with it or how he reacts to it you know?

T _ T' i'm all for mind games but... for some reason, as a guy, i'm somewhat "WHYYYYYYYY?!!!" when it comes to girls testing a guy's reaction ... it feels evil... D:

_ but i 'spose there's no evil intention ..

[JeSuisMoi]

T _ T' i'm all for mind games but... for some reason, as a guy, i'm somewhat "WHYYYYYYYY?!!!" when it comes to girls testing a guy's reaction ... it feels evil... D:

_ but i 'spose there's no evil intention ..

LOL no no, no evil intentions in mind. I'm not much for mind games. I don't think I'd want to play mind games and waste so much time. But I don't want to seem headstrong and just straight up be creepy you know?
BTW: Thanks for condensing my questions; I couldn't word it properly, without being...too wordy :x

I just realized, I totally should ask the "ask the fellas" thread lol But I'm totally up for advice given here too. Guys and girls input are definitely appreciated <3

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Problem 1) I doubt many of you remembered my last post about a guy issue, but to make that story clear and concise: I liked a friend of mine. A lot. I stopped now. I realized I didn't want to waste my time or risk my friendship with him so I didn't act on anything. Fortunately though, I don't feel any regret or remorse over it. However, because I've stopped liking him, the attention that I give to him has taken a dramatic dip as well. I don't know if he's noticed or not (I highly doubt he has) but yeah, it took a dip. I stop msging him, texting him, and trying to talk to him as much as I did before. Again, I don't know if he's noticed, but lately, since I've had my epiphany lol, he's been texting me alot. With random msgs, with little texts that tells me what he's doing, at odds times of the day and night. In turn, before when I liked him, I would never get msgs like that; sometimes I didn't even get msgs at all, I'd have to beat it out of him to reply to me. So whats up!? Am I like his go-to girl now or something? Cause not only will he text me with random msgs throughout the day, he'll text me dates he has (trying to rub it in? I dunno? lol); even when I don't ask him about it. When I say random, I really mean RANDOM lol So I think I need a guy's point of view on this. What is this?! Why is he doing this? Rmbr, I've been msging him a lot less than I did before, and when he texts me, its a bunch of random stuff about his day (so basically his schedule, what he's doing, eating, planning on doing, etc)...I kid you not, before, when I use to like him, he never texted me stuff like that. I always had a feeling like he felt obligated to reply to me, so his replies were kind of...forced.

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why should it matter? you don't like him anymore.
Doesn't really matter whatever he's doing. He Might like you, but I guess you said you don't know, so nothing matters.

But guys, would you do that to a girl friend that you're uber close with? Sabotage her chances with YOUR friend?

broad question. If you ask me I don't know.
If you didn't do anything wrong to me, I wouldn't. If you did, then I'm the type of person who hold grudges.

And guys, do you think it's creepy if I were to be the first one to initiate something?

no offense, but by asking this question, its more creepy than actually intiating something first.
So no it won't be creepy.

You know, you're better off making the first move. Telling Fred to plant seeds or whatever you said doesn't even make sense and is unncessary. Once again, make the first move.

[JeSuisMoi]

You know, you're better off making the first move. Telling Fred to plant seeds or whatever you said doesn't even make sense and is unncessary. Once again, make the first move.

Making the first move is an option. But I figure since I've got an inside man, why not utilize him to some degree? When I said planting the seed/idea, its so he can know (which I would kind of take as a mini-first move already), and most likely, he'll have a reaction to this bit of news. Whatever his reaction would be, will determine if I should take action or not. Now thats where my pickle is. Because I wouldn't physically be present to see his reaction, which leads me to ask would he sabotage me. It made sense to me, maybe I just didn't phrase it clearly.

As for your answer to the other questions; you make a great point about the first one. I don't like him, so why do I care? You've just shed a new light on this topic for me. lol maybe I've still got some residual feelings for him. Nothing too detrimental though so I'm not gonna stress over it.