[chocc]

say the gf is really busy and only sees her bf once every 2 weeks. So then the bf goes and meets another girl once every 2 weeks too to have dinners with her and movies. and he never goes and sees movies with his gf. the gf asked him about it, but he just said it's because he and the gf never really get to see each other, and that is why they never go see movies together. But, he meets the girl just as often as the gf, so why would he have time to see a movie with the girl and not the gf? sounds like an excuse. Does it sound like he likes the girl?

[watcher]

I'm really busy with work and other things so i don't get to spend much time with him. He sees her 2-3 times a month, around the same amount of time he sees me (yes i know i should spend more time with him but i just don't have the time). He and her goes to the movies and dinners or lunch. He hardly ever goes to the movies with me. He goes more often with her. He dislikes socializing with anyone, and so she's really the only friend (boy or girl) whom he actually misses and hangs out with. So that's why i think he might like her. She's not 100% his type, but not far off. My bf loves this certain personality of girls, and that girl fits that personality perfectly. Her physical appearance isn't exactly what he wanted. He's really into girls with big boobs and she doesn't because shes skinny, and pretty much rejects girls who do not have big boobs. BUT she DOES have the perfect personality that he normally LOVES in a girl, and her face isn't bad, like above average. So now i'm worried that he likes her.

What do you guys think? do you think he might like her? I asked him before, and hes like "oh, me and her are just friends. I would go to the movies with you too but we hardly have much time to spend with each other". That sounds like an excuse though because i see him just as often as he sees that girl (which is 2-3 times a month. i would see him more often but i don't have time)

if he really liked her, wouldn't he see her more often?

plus, what does he feel about movies? personally, i see my girlfriend 4 times a month, and we rarely watch movies. it feels like a waste of time to sit next to her and watch something and feel tired and go home than to have a long dinner and talk or do something more interactive.

if your boyfriend hasn't given you any good reason to doubt him, i dont think you should. if you feel that you can't be a good enough girlfriend to him because of work, and it leaves you insecure, you might want to reconsider your relationship before it causes unnecessary stress for both sides

[myxo]

There's no way we can tell from what you've said whether or not he likes her. Just because she might be perfect for him in terms of personality doesn't mean he wants to throw away what he has with you to pursue her.

[Shikabane Hime]

There's nothing going on. You're thinking too much.

[MaryMagdalin]

well if you dont have the time why are you committing to the relationship?
and if course if he`s lonely he wants to hang out with someone
it doesnt mean he likes her.

[ly*chee]

In my opinion, if I were in your boyfriends shoes, I'd want to hang around with other people too.
You said it yourself, you just don't have that much time, so of course he's going to make up for the rest of his free time by hanging out with a friend.
Whether there is something going on or not, only he knows that.
He must get lonely too, since from your post it sounds like you have almost no time available to see him.

[jadeooo]

seems like you better step it up a notch & spend some quality time together!
gotta sacrifice something for love!

theres a possiblity he might like her but we don't know him as well as you do, so we can't say anything.
If he's not getting the attention he wants from you, he might go looking for it somewhere else.

[yellowfishieee]

2-3 times a month really isn't that much, even for friends. It might sound bad that he's spending as much time with the other girl as he is with you, but it's not that much time for either of you. Plus, it seems like you're the one strapped for time, not him, so it's not like he's dividing what little time he has between the two of you. Without more details, it doesn't seem suspicious to me.

[.oOLimOo.]

maybe its because he doesn't see you as much so she's a ...... temporary replacement for a good time (not in a cheating way sickos)

[LC21]

YOu shoul dmake an effort to see him more often or he's a goner, you'll eventually loose interest as time goes on without being persistent..

[Cin De]

you said shes not his type yet her personality is his type?
well he says he likes boobs, but i'm pretty sure deep inside, its personality that matters.
u should spand more time with him, instead of making this thread (wasting your time)

[tokidokimiki]

i don't think he actually LIKES her, but he just probably feels emotionally attached in some way.
you mentioned that you guys don't see each other often right?
he probably feels like you're not making enough time for him, so he likes to settle his emotions in with other people.
he's probably just lonely

or maybe they're just "best friends" in a wayy,
but if it is concerning you, you should sit down and talk seriously about it to him.
personally, i don't think he should be doing that with another girl more often than he sees you,
but yeah .. i'd say talk to him !

good luck :]