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#1 User is offline   ScottieDOUGH 

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Posted 08 February 2009 - 07:57 PM

hey, I don't know what to do :S
I honestly hate my "group" of friends their Trash talking, label whoring, social climbing freaks!! I lie to avoid them everyday, and they got mad at me cuz my grades are high o-o like WTF. Someday i will tell them but if i do now i will have no friends at all -.- (at school)
The only reason i starting hanging out with them because i was just like them in middle school, and i've changed since then.
Should i just play along and act like their my best friends?
Or abandon them and become a loner?
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#2 User is offline   eximius 

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Posted 08 February 2009 - 07:58 PM

I think I'd prefer to be a loner than to be around a group of people I can't stand. o_o
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Posted 08 February 2009 - 08:03 PM

just blow them off. they arent really your friends if you dont like them...haha
you wont be a loner, there are other people you can attach yourself to.


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#4 User is offline   Shikabane Hime 

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Posted 08 February 2009 - 08:25 PM

People change.
You're experiencing it first hand, how can you not know what to do?
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Posted 08 February 2009 - 08:30 PM

I had the same problem. I didn't really click with them. So I got some other friends. Just like 3 or 4 people.

It's better to know a few people really well than/then(I don't know) to know a whole mess of people you hardly know.
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Posted 08 February 2009 - 08:30 PM

If you hate them they aren't really your friends right?
I'd prefer to be a loner than to pretend being friends :/
You can always go find new friends
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Posted 08 February 2009 - 08:42 PM

Ditch them and make new friends.
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Posted 08 February 2009 - 08:47 PM

you can always make new friends you know.
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#9 User is offline   SaraKang 

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Posted 08 February 2009 - 08:50 PM

i have tha same problem here, rofls
i mean i had like a month ago.
it was hard but i ditched them; like slowly
like i slowly started avoiding them and stuff.
then i made new friends lol


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Posted 08 February 2009 - 08:52 PM

Make new friends, don't stick with people you don't like. You might be a loner for a while, but you'll get new friends eventually & it'll be better than what you have now.
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#11 User is offline   **mashmellow** 

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Posted 08 February 2009 - 09:12 PM

Ditch all of them and make new friends biggrin.gif You don't need to force urself into liking them. If they're real friends they wouldn't be mad at you for having high grades, they properly just jealous.
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#12 User is offline   natsurei 

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Posted 08 February 2009 - 09:31 PM

This is kind of my situation, but I'm in college =X.
I'd say..if you're still in HS. Just stick with it, until you find a new friend.
Or find one person in that group(who's less insane) hahaa.
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Posted 08 February 2009 - 10:07 PM

Haha, I'm like you, I hate some parts of my "group", so I avoid those people when I can.
If it means I lose some friends oh well, I'm not going to sacrifice my standard of a good friend, for a bunch of shallow friendships.

Once you start uni/college you'll see them less...and only those who really care about you will make an effort to see you, instead of you always running to them XD
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Posted 08 February 2009 - 10:07 PM

gaw, that sucks for you.

be a loner til you find awesome people you can call friends.


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Posted 08 February 2009 - 10:29 PM

Delete.
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Posted 08 February 2009 - 10:37 PM

I'd say abandon them I mean I was kinda the same as a freshman since all my friends went to different high schools. So I did what you did but then left them cause they were a pain in the butt then later on I met a group I could hang with.
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#17 User is offline   .hidden melody. 

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Posted 09 February 2009 - 02:05 AM

Meet some new people, slowly get to know them a little more, and then make that transition from your old group of friends to the new ones. :]
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 02:15 AM

duddeee I'm going through the same thing.
Pm me if you want to talk.
I think i have a solution. well not really.
more like a story, that has a good ending:)
HIT UP THE 411 or the BLOG! Thanks in advance;)
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 03:24 AM

You know what? i hate my group too. well only a couple of them
I hate sitting with them.whenever i sat with them i feel left out cause they speak and act like 10year olds .So i just avoid them as much as possible. And if i don't sit with them they'll start calling me a 'dog'.And today i just found out im only a 'extra'.I don't get why i have to put myself up to this kind of abuse.I have other friends i could sit with but i still go back for the people i actually like in the group.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 03:57 AM

Well If you keep hanging around them you'll also get bad rep of talking mini cooper, label whoring ETC which will obviously ruin your chances of making friends even more.
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