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Relationship With An Ex? How is it afterwards? Do you still talk?

#1 User is offline   imaviet 

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Posted 09 February 2009 - 07:45 AM

Are you two still friends? Don't talk?

For me, I don't talk to two of my exes. We're nothing more but..
'facebook' friends xD. My mom liked one of them and encourages
to still talk to each other... but...

And every now and then I still talk and hang out to the other two exes
because we're still good friends.

What about you?
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 08:02 AM

My ex is one of my closest friends, I talk to him at least 4 times a week. I don't think that's too common though, and the reason it doesn't cause me any distress is because any romantic feelings I had for him turned platonic a long time ago.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 08:07 AM

My most recent ex, I don't talk to him nemore ( only because I still love him, and it's hard ). I heard this phrase on soompi, I dn't know if it applies to any of you guys buht it sure does with me.. " Two past lovers cannot remain friends unless they still hold strong feelings or never did to begin with. " or something on tha lines of that. But yeh. sweatingbullets.gif


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Posted 09 February 2009 - 08:12 AM

i'm still friends with my most recent one but hardly talk now since we're in different countries..
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 08:17 AM

I was just thinking about this the other day, it sucks how two people who meant so much to each other for a period of time go back to being mere strangers.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 08:44 AM

I'm still friends with pretty much every girl I've dated. Except for maybe a couple who aren't really in my life anymore, but that's because they moved and I'm too lazy to keep in touch.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 10:19 AM

I don't talk to either of them. They're both jackasses.
Now that I think about it, I don't talk to any of the past guys I've dated.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 10:34 AM

I don't talk to my ex anymore. We were friends for a little bit. I just couldn't do it no more. She cheated on me. Got pregnant by her ex bf, and he left her when he found out she was pregnant. I was trying to get back with her. I was gonna come back to her town and take her out to dinner for vday, but she was playing games. So I cut off the friendship.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 10:45 AM

I don't talk to any of my exes anymore. Don't want to. Why would I want to? I didn't even try to be friends with them although they do msg me from time to time i'd rather they didn't. Once we're through I don't want anything to do with them anymore unless they owe me something.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 11:08 AM

Friends with most of my ex's.
I don't think of dem as a girl anymore.
I wouldn't keep a friendly relationship with ex's who cheated or lied though.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 11:56 AM

My ex and I are still good friends :] I call him whenever I need help/advice!
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 12:09 PM

I'm still friends with my ex. We don't talk as much anymore, but he'll talk to me if I'm sitting around and I'm just bored. He always takes the sides of my friends over me, though. :x Which, I guess I could understand considering we aren't THAT close anymore.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 12:15 PM

To me the way a girl deals with her ex's (with the exception being those who cheated or abused her in some way), tells you a lot about the way she looks at bf's. i.e. whether she has a, "I'm going to get what I can out of you while I can and then toss you to the curb," mentality.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 12:25 PM

i talk to all my exs, like once in awhile
except for the last ex, we talk the most cuz we go to the same school and crap
well there is one ex where i dont talk to anymore
that's cuz he's away at college now and well..nothing to talk about =P
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 12:30 PM

im friends with all my exes except one, but not close friends.
but enough to talk once in awhile and say how are you etc
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 03:05 PM

i'm friends with all my exes.
except the one that hurt me the most, and i've been with the longest.
i mean, we don't talk anymore. we have our separate lives.
and we now like other people. as a matter of fact we were never friends.
we hated each other for 2 years and surprisingly started dating.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 03:56 PM

I don't think it's just me.. but I try to keep in contact with my ex-boyfriends.
Just because we broke up, I don't want it to seem that we still can't have that friendship, you know?
But I don't think they really care to put effort into keeping our friendship even though they always say "I still want to be friends," when I'm the only one really trying to keep that friendship together..
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 03:58 PM

Every break up I've had usually was a bad break up... I don't really talk to any of my exs.
It'd be nice to keep communication after a relationship ends, but it doesn't seem to work that way for me.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 05:40 PM

He talked to me a bit on MSN & visited me but that was a few months ago. Now we don't even talk on MSN or anything, so we're pretty much strangers.
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Posted 09 February 2009 - 06:33 PM

We TRIED to be 'just friends' for two whole years... but in the end we both finally cracked.

One of us obviously still has feelings for the other, but the other one only see friendship not a s/o relationship, so it's a lot of pressure on both party. We agreed on time away, not only in s/o relationship, but also in friendship. We no longer call, message, or see each other.

Yes it's trough, but I think in the end this real breakup will save both our sanity.

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