[quyennypoo]

Hi guys!

I've been friends with this guy for about 5 years...he's laid back and friendly and when we use to study with each other i had the biggest crush on him. But turns out that my best friend started dating him despite the fact that she knew i was always fixated with him.

It didn't work out between them and it happened that he called me after it didnt work out, and i was just getting over him. We spent alot more time together and he was always just what i wanted and pucked up the courage to ask except he didnt feel the same and that got me down for a while, but regardless he still wanted to call me and be close friends.

He moved away and time seem to have healed my obsession with him as we talked less and saw less of eachother which was great for me! I never knew why he never liked me? i always got offers from other guys but they weren't him so i always refused them...

we went out to clubs and he flirted with me like crazy... im not stupid and i know when a guy is flirting in fact he was all over me but i never let anything happen because i am scared that i will get hurt but i flirt back because it seems that i still like him. But the day after i regret that i dont do anything about it.

until recently i met my current boyfriend and he treats me so well, makes me feel like i have never felt before but when i introduced him to my ex crush its like i still have feelings for him although i really like my boyfriend...BUT i have come to conclude that these feelings i had were old feeling i never let go of..because he is the guy i could never have, my obsession with him was just a habit i forgot to let go and now i am alot happier but still have some feelings for my friend but its just part time feelings...

Has anyone had similar experiences?

p.s my friend is to blame too right?

[Regrets]

Ummm
my story is similar but my old crush only lasted half a year D:

[Sleepy213]

Yea, To be honest..I don't think I will ever like someone as much as I liked my old crush.
Someone I can never have might be abit different. But she was someone I really wanted to see
for rest of my life..and be satisfied with it.

[angelcadex]

Hm yeah I guess I've had a similar situation.
Best thing to do is forget about it and be happy w/ your bf now.
Don't let that interfere if you have a good thing going for you.

[Pogichinoy]

You need closure with your ex crush, speak to him and ask him why he never considered you. This will put it to an end and keep you focused on your bf.

[RedSunsFC]

Delete.

[jenniferkang]

i have a crush on a eighth grader.. and i won't even have a chance...
so whats the point of trying to be close with him
i guess ill just try to lay off. and try to forget him so i wont be a crybaby when he graduates..
i hate my life.. i hate being a human being and i feel lonely everyday. well, not everyday but mostly..

[quyennypoo]

Thanks guys for your advice!
I realise how lucky i am to have my bf now he treats me like a princess and i guess i know i should ask my ex crush but it would be kind of awkward since we are close friends and this weekend im supposed to go out with him...im so worried that i might feel things again.. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

[votre-beau]

I've experienced this.


Except, I was the guy in your story. He thinks of you as a really good friend, but honey, I don't think he'll ever think of you as anything more than that. His flirty actions are probably just a sign of closeness, because he knows that he's already set the GROUND that you two are really good friends. So he thinks flirting isn't going to do any harm, you two are good friends, it's all good.


I know you're over it, and found yourself a wonderful guy. <3 Which is great, dear. But slowly let go of those feelings. It's useless, make room for your new love.