[IDKWATIAM]

im 25 and ive had quite a few relationships with girls in my life. however some recent events have bene making me second guess my sexuallity. before this, ive been sexually active with quite a few girls since i was in my teens, and i thought i was just a normal straight dude. however, during new years, i was at a party and got really drunk. next thing i knew i was having sex with a gay guy that i had met at the party earlier. after that experience i cant stop thinking about how muched i liked having sex with a guy too. is that weird? i think that i am turning bi, but i dont really want to explore more into it bc im scared. wat shuld i do? how shuld i tell me most recent gf of 2 years about this?

[babigurl87]

just think deep down inside and take some time off and really think about it .......good luck ......... i think im somewhat bi too ...

[Dangitzwayne]

aww =( surry to hear that

[BigBangLuv]

Im sorry.......... =[

[JaeMinluvr85]

i agree with babi gurl just really think about it.... before you even go further with your girlfriend

[mayholic]

geegeegeegee babybabybaby.
go for it.

[gthao]

wow..talk about a new year..but seriously..hmm..i think that u should really think it over b4 makin a decision..but i think it's fine to to bi or gay..if i were u i'd be scared too..but i think it's better to noe and be happy than to keep second guessin urself and possibly be unhappy..

[CaptainPants]

first off, nothing wrong with being Bi and im sure the next 5 people will say the same
but if youre still scared about possibly being bi, then consider the fact that maybe youre just hooked on the excitement or thrill of something new and this could turn out to be a small phase

as far as your girl friend
first, take the time to consider if you really are bi
now if you are, then i dont really think the fact youre bi should be a problem for her (and yes you might wanna tell her :x )
but im thinking the simple fact that you had sex with someone else is gonna be more of an issue than you possibly being bi
unless your gf has something against bi people, then youre kinda screwed

i donno if i helped haha but i guess to summerize, take the time to seriously think if youre bi or not, and then be honest with your gf and work things out
and good luck

[Pol2ns7al2]

if you still prefer vaginal sex, you're straight
you don't have to be bi or gay to like it up the ass
the nerves are set up there so that its possible to get an orgasm from just anal sex
i had to go through a rectal for my appendix surgery, and it was eh, not as bad as i thought

anyways, i think that guy is an bubble gum for taking advantage of you while you were drunk
how much you enjoyed it was probably due to the new sensations you experienced
get a girl to shove a vibrator up your ass or something =D

[ShadowMax76]

x-X' this topic is gonna be closed.. too explicit...
however interesting it is. lol

_ as a veteran bi [of no experience.. D;] , i suggest you accept your bisexuality, BUT stay loyal to your girlfriend.

we all face temptations in life and in relationships. stay strong and noble, and don't fall for them.
..that's what i believe, anyways..


btw_feel free to fantasize about male celebrities/actors/sportsmen. :] lol _ just remember you love your girlfriend.

[HelloMoto]

So what's the big deal if you're bi.
I think it's perfectly normal to find the same sex, good looking.

[LC21]

stay straight. dont go gay

[diam0nds.]

stay straight. dont go gay

well, that's a bit offensive. & it's not like he can help it.
babyboy, you should really sit and think about your sexuality, and spend some time away from your girlfriend.
you can't avoid an issue like this, and the best way to get it over with is to sit and think about it.

ask yourself questions like "am i bisexual? have i ever been attracted to any guy before this?" etc etc.

and there's nothing wrong with being gay/bisexual. don't take any homophobic comments to heart.

[Lie]

how shuld i tell me most recent gf of 2 years about this?

Well, you do need to tell her, no questions asked. I'd just be direct and tell her what you've told us, which might be hurtful for her at first, but it's in her best interest that she knows exactly what you've done and where you are emotionally. It'd be selfish of you not to tell her, frankly.

[hippiehop]

Why are people saying I'M SORRY for? THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY.

However, if you are only in it for sexual gratification, then I wouldn't really say you are gay.

If you actually want relationships with men then I'd say you are gay or bisexual.

[MaryMagdalin]

nearly everyone has an inclination towards the same sex
so you slept with this guy and you have a gf?
and you dont suddenly become Bi you are pretty much born with it;.
well theres no easy way around you`ll have to just tell her whats up.
and if you want to stay with her or not. or... vice versa

[jaeka]

I'd say your bi-curious.

Say to your girlfriend you're bi-curious. See how she reacts. lol.

[Regina Rae]

You're probably gay. That's just my opinon.
I would break up with her. That seems like the most logical thing.

~.

[Lie]

No offense meant, but I've rarely met a guy who wondered whether he was bi or gay, and didn't eventually come to the realization that he was bi or gay. Most straight guys I've met (myself included), don't ever really question whether we're straight for more than 5 seconds (the time it takes to conceptualize the idea of kissing another dude, and subsequently find the idea incredibly gross). I do wish you good luck on your self-discovery though.

[kissez*]

I think if you enjoy having sex with men AND women... you're most likely bi-sexual.
Just roll with it eh. There's nothing wrong with being bi-sexual. It's great actually hahah.