[resa_massu]

I have this Tiffany's bracelet that my ex gave to me for our one year anniversary which I was looking at yesterday.
He engraved our initials and the day we started to go out. It's been sitting in its box for about two years.
I feel like it's a waste to have the bracelet sit in the box... it's a perfectly good to wear.
I just wanted to know what your opinions and thoughts about getting the engraving polished off... I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
Half of my friends are telling me that it is messed up while the other half says it's okay.

Your thoughts?

[AnthonyKkoKko]

that bracelet... he probably spent like extra money just for your engravings together...

keep the bracelet and the engravings with it. you don't even have to wear it, if you don't want to.

that was the bracelet he gave you from his heart and with his money, because he loved you.
for you to throw it out... kind of harsh? >.< sorry
but i think you should keep it just so you remember all the good times with him.
i mean, you had lots of good times with him, right? keep the bracelet as a remembrance of those times.
polishing the engravings off would be like polishing your good times with him off your soul and memory.
you can do whatever with it.. it's your choice. but i think you can still wear it even if it has your engravings with him on it. unless you have a current boyfriend of course, then... no. but i think you should keep it, even if you don't wear it. just my opinion. you can do whatever ^^;;

well, hope you'll always remember him! because ex's aren't just someone in the past... they have part of your heart... because when you love someone, they have somewhere in their heart for you. you had a piece of your heart for him. when you broke up, he took that piece of you with him. your heart eventually healed and mended... but the scars are still there. he once had a part of you, and you had good times together. that bracelet is like a visual piece of your memory. well, good luck
God bless~
-Anthony

[aurora_stone]

I say get the engraving polished off and wear it! The past is the past. Unless this guy really really meant something to you...do it.

[AsianL0ve]

if i dont have a boyfriend and its a nice bracelet I wouldnt care LOL
i'd wear it either way! w/ or w/o name

[tokidokimiki]

^

same haha
unless you see him around on a daily basis, or the initials are really visible.

personally i don't think its right if you wear it ><
but us girls can't resist ... can we ? D:

[Lie]

Haha man, girls are so cold-hearted.

[sixth.]

i would just wear it anyway, even with the engravings

[Kitty07]

Jewellery is just an accessory . If you really like wearing it , who cares if there's an engraving on it .
I say polish it off (:
Nothing wrong with it , it was a gift for you anyway .

[ミ★♫윤아♫☆ミ]

I would keep it for memories. I don't know if I'd wear it. Maybe make a memory box. >0<

[BaboJen]

I don't know, I'll probably wear it with the engravings anyways.
I don't think theres anything wrong with removing the engraving, both of you probably moved on right?
But, I'll keep the bracelet with the engraving as memories.
It's up to you if you want to remove it or not, theres nothing wrong with it.

[blue_wishesx3]

i dont think there's anything wrong with wearing it with the initials.
i agree with anthonykkokko

[cuties]

Hm. if both of you don't have feelings for each other anymore, I'd say it's good to wear it either way. you can leave the engravings on, or have them polished. but if i were you, I'd have it polished off. 2 years? that's a long time. the past is the past!

[forgottenmemories]

I dunno. If I were you, I'd keep the engravings on it for the sake of memories. I wouldn't wear it though, I guess its up to you in the end. But I gotta admit, it IS pretty messed up. If you're not gonna give it back to him, then at least keep it for the memories, don't scrape it off.

[go_starriiee]

I think you should keep on the engravinging and just wear it. Having it polished off is pretty bad if you ask me.

[tinasarangg]

wear it with the engravings. its flipping expensive to engrave there.

and your ex is a part of your past. that's extremely cold to polish off his engravings.
don't look at it as something your ex got you.
look at it as a gift from someone that once was very close to your heart.
even though you don't care for him the way you used to, you still care for him as a person RIGHT?

[flantastic]

i think you should keep the engravings ><
it has sentimental value, and i think you'll regret it in the future if you get rid of the words
besides, people probably wont notice the words on the bracelet unless they look closely, right? ^^

[A-Jaey]

i reckon you shouldnt wear it. and dont polish off the engravings either..
just go buy your own bracelet. or wait for someone else to give you one?
and like if you ever see your ex again and youre wearing it, there might be a misunderstanding so yeah.
but if you really want to wear it then go ahead.


PS. my boyfriend says that depending on the engraving, and whether or not you can polish it off, it's either expensive or not. He says to put a sticker photo (mini one) onto it. He's an idiot, I know.

[miss lisa]

i would just wear it w/ the engraving. i dont really think theres a need to get it off. it just serves as a nice memory of the past but it doesnt necessarily need to mean anything now.

[Sympathetic]

Well it's totally up to you, but I'd just wear it with the engravings because it's a waste of MY money to polish off the engravings. Well it depends how you do it.
But who cares? Oh, if he hurted you in the pass then just get rid off the engravings. Who gives a mini cooper if it's cold or what not.

[resa_massu]

I understand everyone's feelings and thoughts on this. I appreciate it.
I am not sure what I am going to do yet but we'll see.

Either way, I'll probably end up wearing it just because I feel okay to wear it now.
Since we both have moved on with our lives and whatnot.