[mrsjaejoong]

So basically, I like this guy a lot... almost too much
and he's the first caucasian guy i've liked in a loooooong time. I mean, after dating asian boys, I never thought I'd go back to other races hehehe... asian boys were more romantic (not trying to start arguments here, just telling you my experience).

But I always feel as though when we're together, I feel more insecure when a pretty white girl passes by. I always think 'wouldn't he rather be with HER than me? I'm different.'

I asked my close friends and sisters about this and most of them said 'you should feel exotic, not insecure'
I just laughed really hard when I heard that... but now I want your opinions =)


what do you guys think about it?

if your s/o was of a different race, would you feel threatened by girls in his race?



absolutely no bashing or racial slurs! i don't want to hear anything about which race is better or w/e. that is completely off-topic

[juiceybox]

isn't there a rule against threads like these? xD

but to answer your question, i wouldn't think much of it.. if he likes you, he likes you and a random girl from his own race probably wont change that..

[.oOLimOo.]

race does not matter to me
If he likes someone of his own race then it's because of her, not the fact that she's is white skinned etc

[SJAMES]

Mmm. not at all.
i like a white boy in my class
but he's going to our
sno daze with this other
asian girl =(

[xxiaoMEI]

Lol, I go through these phases in my life where I like asian guys, then I go back to white guys, then back to asians, and back and forth. LOL, its kinda funny.
this is for celebrities though, not like real real loves.

[maharu.]

There's a ban for ethnicity/race related threads.



Race is just color and individualistic aspect of a person. Just like love, it has no boundaries and it has many different types.

[the sweetest prince]

I wouldnt date outside my race.

[Riyoko]

Well, I feel like this, but it's opposite for me. (I'm white, he's Asian.) Not only that, but if we marry, I'll be the first non-Asian in their family. x.x

But I feel really insecure, as most Asian girls are really pretty. Buuut, a lot of them have liked him, and he chose me over them, so I'm not worried too much. ^^;

[sushi_azn]

In my opinion, it's definitely an OK situation. Many asian girls/women are married to white guys, so dating them should not be a problem. I guess it depends on whether he likes you back or not.

[kpop_lover]

No I wouldn't feel threatened because there's a reason why we are going out.
I mean, if I felt threatened then we probably wouldn't be together.
Just think of it like this. Sure, there's tons of pretty girls and everywhere and he knows that too but he picked you and not one of them.

[i-lv-jc]

I think it's only natural for you to feel insecure even wothout the race thing. It's a love thing.
I have the biggest crush on an Asian boy right now and I'm a white girl with blonde hair and blue eyes.
I still feel insecure, not b/c of race but other girls from all ethnicity has a crush on this fine piece of Asian a*s.
So I wouldn't worry about the race thing, just worry about other girls period.
You have him, then good for you.

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

Its a no-go. I'd like to have asian kids.

[Sasspot]

I think it depends on the persons involved.

My parents are an inter-racial couple and they're as happy as can be.

But I recently broke up with a white guy and I had to tell him off for ALOT of offensive jokes. He just thought they were stereotypical and therefore funny but really he sounded like an ass and I'm glad it's over.

Also it depends on cultural intelligence vs ignorance. He was very ignorant and was more concernced with getting a few cheap laughs than having a single shred of dignity which is the complete opposite of my white father who is quite intelligent.

[Kitty07]

My s/o is a European so it bothers me sometimes .. just worrying whether he'd fall for the super pretty European girls any day ):
But then I know that he hasn't had interest in any other girl since he met me so that kind of makes me feel better . S: