[aznchibiiii.]

Things nowadays, about relationships, are bugging the crud out of me. I'm gonna list a few.

* this list is not meant to offend. if you don't agree, that's great.. just don't get pissed for no reason. talk about it like an adult. anyway...

JEALOUSY:

"Why did you just hug that girl? I thought that I'M your girlfriend." or "Why did you just hug that dude? I thought that I'M your boyfriend."

.... are you serious? Are you freaking serious? Nowadays, at least where I live, everyone hugs everybody. Literally. At the end of a break between classes, at the end of lunch, at the beginning and end of the day... people hug. Hugging is a way to show your love for someone, to show your affection. LOVE. As in love or IN love. Get it straight! You have got to have some trust issues if you're going to freak out about your significant other (now referred to as SO) hugging another person. Think about it... before you guys dated, or even liked each other, did your SO hug you? Probably! So what the HELL you getting mad about?! Jeeeeeeeeeez!

AWKWARDNESS:

Day 1: "I like you..." - B
" ... I need time to think." - A

Dayt 2: *standing in a group of friends, approaches.*
"..." - A
"..." - B

!! COME ON NOW. This bugs the SH1T out of me the most when you guys were friends before. Are you forgetting the friendship? You care for this person as a friend and possibly more, and now you're making them suffer by making things awkward?! You're making sh1t weird for your friends too... so get the hell over yourself, already. Talk about it with them when you two are alone (or not) but why make things super-weird between you two? Yeah sometimes you just FEEEL that way but seriously get over it. Live your life, stop worrying already...

MOM/DAD - more than likely, MOMMY#2:

"Why are you doing that! Don't do that! Stop! Go sleep already! Go do your homework!" ...

... there is a fine line between CARING/CONCERNED, and STUPIDITY. Who the HELL do you think you are, their MOM/DAD!? You're their GF or BF, someone they love and support... not someone they want to tell them to pick up their underwear off the floor and do their homework! Dating someone does not give you the right to do these things, and I'm telling you now, no guy wants to date a freak that's trying to be their mother. With girls, it's the same thing. Their dad already hates you, they DONT want you to try and be him.


EFFORT:

So I have this friend, and he has a girlfriend. We all go to the same school, and she never goes to HIM to hang out with. When she walks by, she gives him this LOOK, and he grumbles, gets up and leaves. Yeah I know what you're thinking. "WHIPPPPPEEEEDDD..." but no. He hates it. He gets pissed off. Why the hell is this girl making him do EVERYTHING? And then she goes and tells him "Why don't you ever let me hang out with your friends."

Honey, that is NOT the case. The case is that you don't do *insert curse here* in the relationship.

HAH and during a football game, she made him stay when he didnt want to. Then she headed off to the mall and left him alone until she came back.

ARE YOU FREAKIN INSANE? YEAH, THATS TOTALLY THE WAY TO HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.




so in conclusion... PEOPLE NOWADAYS! GEEZ. =__________________="

[LC21]

Step overs are just soo stupid sometimes, Dump those bad girlfriends if you have em. they aint worth the money.

[tokidokimiki]

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woorddd.

just distance yourself away from those kind of people :]

[Apple.Mint]

lol wow you're so angry o.o
then again, you gotta experienced those bad relationship first before you start cherishing the good one when he/she comes =]

[hippiehop]

I agree with everything!

[orange.xin.wo]

I agree. Especially with the Jealousy. If the bf/gf is jealous. That's not healthy and definitely not a good thing. Something is wrong then. yuuppp

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

"Why did you just hug that girl? I thought that I'M your girlfriend." or "Why did you just hug that dude? I thought that I'M your boyfriend.

It's human nature to get jealous.
I bet you will too.

! COME ON NOW. This bugs the SH1T out of me the most when you guys were friends before. Are you forgetting the friendship? You care for this person as a friend and possibly more, and now you're making them suffer by making things awkward?! You're making sh1t weird for your friends too... so get the hell over yourself, already. Talk about it with them when you two are alone (or not) but why make things super-weird between you two? Yeah sometimes you just FEEEL that way but seriously get over it. Live your life, stop worrying already...

You're funny you know.
If a guy confess and then the girl rejects, She will do the same.
And you know that confessing makes things awkward.
That's just how life is.

So I have this friend, and he has a girlfriend. We all go to the same school, and she never goes to HIM to hang out with. When she walks by, she gives him this LOOK, and he grumbles, gets up and leaves. Yeah I know what you're thinking. "WHIPPPPPEEEEDDD..." but no. He hates it. He gets pissed off. Why the hell is this girl making him do EVERYTHING? And then she goes and tells him "Why don't you ever let me hang out with your friends."

Honey, that is NOT the case. The case is that you don't do *insert curse here* in the relationship.

HAH and during a football game, she made him stay when he didnt want to. Then she headed off to the mall and left him alone until she came back.

ARE YOU FREAKIN INSANE? YEAH, THATS TOTALLY THE WAY TO HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.

That's not her fault, it's the guy's fault for still staying with her.

[lalalaaa]

JEALOUSY:

"Why did you just hug that girl? I thought that I'M your girlfriend." or "Why did you just hug that dude? I thought that I'M your boyfriend."

.... are you serious? Are you freaking serious? Nowadays, at least where I live, everyone hugs everybody. Literally. At the end of a break between classes, at the end of lunch, at the beginning and end of the day... people hug. Hugging is a way to show your love for someone, to show your affection. LOVE. As in love or IN love. Get it straight! You have got to have some trust issues if you're going to freak out about your significant other (now referred to as SO) hugging another person. Think about it... before you guys dated, or even liked each other, did your SO hug you? Probably! So what the HELL you getting mad about?! Jeeeeeeeeeez!

Everyone hugs everybody? That might be true for you, but for others that might not be the case.
In my opinion, hugging so much with the opposite sex (not including S/O) spells f-l-i-r-t.
If you're single, it's okay in a way. <--explains why the S/O would hug you even before you guys dated
But if you're taken, it's another story. You don't go around hugging other girls/guys a million times a day.

AWKWARDNESS:

Day 1: "I like you..." - B
" ... I need time to think." - A

Dayt 2: *standing in a group of friends, approaches.*
"..." - A
"..." - B

!! COME ON NOW. This bugs the SH1T out of me the most when you guys were friends before. Are you forgetting the friendship? You care for this person as a friend and possibly more, and now you're making them suffer by making things awkward?! You're making sh1t weird for your friends too... so get the hell over yourself, already. Talk about it with them when you two are alone (or not) but why make things super-weird between you two? Yeah sometimes you just FEEEL that way but seriously get over it. Live your life, stop worrying already...

Haha, I agree with this.
I think people should seriously consider NOT confessing. If you want to express your feelings, just ask the one you like out. Don't let them get stuck with the words "I like you." I mean really. Okay you like me. So now what? What else am I supposed to do other than become awkward around you?

MOM/DAD - more than likely, MOMMY#2:

"Why are you doing that! Don't do that! Stop! Go sleep already! Go do your homework!" ...

... there is a fine line between CARING/CONCERNED, and STUPIDITY. Who the HELL do you think you are, their MOM/DAD!? You're their GF or BF, someone they love and support... not someone they want to tell them to pick up their underwear off the floor and do their homework! Dating someone does not give you the right to do these things, and I'm telling you now, no guy wants to date a freak that's trying to be their mother. With girls, it's the same thing. Their dad already hates you, they DONT want you to try and be him.

Sometimes picking up underwear is very important...the S/O cares about you enough to not let you drown in dirty clothes.

EFFORT:

So I have this friend, and he has a girlfriend. We all go to the same school, and she never goes to HIM to hang out with. When she walks by, she gives him this LOOK, and he grumbles, gets up and leaves. Yeah I know what you're thinking. "WHIPPPPPEEEEDDD..." but no. He hates it. He gets pissed off. Why the hell is this girl making him do EVERYTHING? And then she goes and tells him "Why don't you ever let me hang out with your friends."

Honey, that is NOT the case. The case is that you don't do *insert curse here* in the relationship.

HAH and during a football game, she made him stay when he didnt want to. Then she headed off to the mall and left him alone until she came back.

ARE YOU FREAKIN INSANE? YEAH, THATS TOTALLY THE WAY TO HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.

Hey you know what. This girl might be jealous seeing you hang out with her boyfriend. Ever considered that?

[Kira_Hyuu]

So your telling me that relationships are pissing u off and u wonder why it's like this....why can't it just always be lovey-dovey and down to earth...

Well...simply there not...there not supposed to be straight forward - like hey this is the real world not some fairy tale u've been reading from like ages ago. Why do you think that we treasure a good relationship? Why do we relish to find that special person that we can spend time with?

Reason is if love was as easy as it is, then we wouldn't care whether we have it or not.....like if gold was as abundant as like soil, it wouldn't be valuable. So stop ranting won't get u anywhere....just accept it....nothing easy comes easy.

Best of luck....^^

[chilovesjj]

Jealousy- i've seen people get jealous over less :x It happens and it's not something people have all that much control over- they don't choose to be jealous. So hating on them for that seems a little harsh ^^;; Hugs can be innocent but most guys I know who hug everyone all the time are flirts, as someone else on the thread said. xD

Mm the awkwardness thing. I've seen people ruin good friendships that way xD Even happened to me, when a guy friend I used to be close to suddenly started telling me all this weird stuff about me being the girl of his dreams and everything he'd ever wanted and blahblahblah and ranting everyday about how in love with me he was. It's sad. XD
Unless you really think they feel the same way (and they're single and actually looking for a relationship) it's probably not worth confessing your undying love. Especially if you're like, totally obsessed because that's just freaky. >.<

Lol. I guess maybe some girls think they're doing their bf a favour by trying to make them tidy up and study and whatnot xD Must be frustrating. My fiancé gets really pissed off with his own mum so I try not to be anything like her, haha. She's OCD about things being tidy lol. I'm a lot more laid back. Besides, he doesn't mind tidying up and doing the washing up etc anyway. :3 He told me I'm nothing like his mum, and that if I was he wouldn't have ever dated me haha.

The last point- sure the girl's a pinkberry but the guy is an idiot for staying with someone like that. xD Girls like that take the guy completely forgranted and make no effort at all but expect the guy to make every effort for her. It should be give and take. A guy in that situation should grow a spine and tell her to sort herself out or get the hell out X3 ^.^

And. Wow you're. Very angry. xD You should make a happy topic about the things you like about relationships XDD

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