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#1 User is offline   sankyouu 

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Post icon  Posted 14 February 2009 - 10:27 AM

if i am in no position to drive meaning i dont have my license and the guy im seeingg up till now lives in a different city (and cant drive also)?
and the whole cityy different thing isnt that bad, our cities are only 15-20 minutes away from each other hahaha. so we could still hangg out.
BUT ANYWAYS. how do i breaak it off.? i really dont want to do it over the phone, computer, etc;
id rather do it face to face but i dont know how because the only way to meet up would be through a ride from someone we know (moom, dad, etc;)
and theyre not going to drop us off and wait for 10 minutes while i break it offf and then we leave our separate ways -___-
i mean, i couldd just have us hang out and then before we leave i could break it off but that means
for the whole daay i have to pretend and then at the last moment be like, hey let's break up.....
help please?

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Posted 14 February 2009 - 10:52 AM

well, most people break up up over the internet or phone when they have a chance to see the other person but they just don't want to do that. Which is lame. But if you have no chance of seeing him, break up over the phone isn't a bad option, if you wait more you're just leading him on with emotions.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 11:17 AM

go to the park. Then appear as if you're looking for something on the ground, when your partner asks you what you're looking for....Reply with.."i lost my feelings for you!" and run away as fast as you can.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 12:51 PM

Erm..take the bus to see him and then break off? o_O;
Or is that option not available too? If so..I'd just call him up and explain things to him.

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Posted 14 February 2009 - 12:55 PM

If you can't see him, just call him. You're not left with much of a choice, are you?

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Posted 14 February 2009 - 12:58 PM

break it off by phone, i doubt your relationship is anything serious because you wouldnt be worrying about rides and stuff then. Explain to him why you're breaking it off with him by phone and what not and he'll understand.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 01:50 PM

yea, break up over the phone, cuz sometimes its harder when you meet him face-to-face. i mean, if you are breaking ,what is the reason to meet him anyways. its not like you guys are gonna hug and kiss like everything is ok u know.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 03:46 PM

ur underage eh, mayb u should make better decisions wen u date someone...
just go ctch public transport..its ONLI 15-20 mins away....
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 03:50 PM

You have to know if she even has public transportation near her first. Where I live, there is no public transportation whatsoever. I have to have a car to get anywhere.

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#10 User is offline   Kira_Hyuu 

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Posted 14 February 2009 - 04:17 PM

Well then the fone will have to suffice if u can't meet up...
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 04:38 PM

i was in the exact position as you 4 months ago.
i broke up with her on da phone.
goodluck!
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 07:42 PM

i had to go through that
in the end, he came to visit me at uni one day, we hung out for a bit and just as we were leaving, i ended it.
but yeah, if you really don't want to do that, just call him. don't do it over msn or anything =/
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 08:22 PM

take the bus and meet in the middle. do you rely on your parents to get you everywhere?

and yeah. it's best to just tell him you have something to say and get on with it.
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