[mz.carolyn]

Ok. Background info:

I hung out with a guy last Saturday.
I was pretty sure up until this morning that he only wanted to get some. I was upset all week, mainly because I liked him and it was like getting rejected because he didn't text back or call back when I called to ask about when I'd see him again (I needed to see him in person to ask what was going on and where all this was heading). No answer, nada. It was like he fell off the face of the earth. So I was pretty upset, because I was self-doubting, like maybe I had done something wrong.

And then he sent me this:

I just wanted to say that I really had a good time last time you came over to xxxx and hope you did too. I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel something.

I've just been really crazy with so many things in life recently, especially with the whole Greek thing. I actually just pulled an all nighter until 10AM and passed out pretty much till now...

So, I really don't think it would be fair for me to ask you to make a commitment and have a relationship, if that is what you would like too. It's really nothing because of what you did but because I can't live up to being best my best to you right now. It’s not that I don’t want to be in a relationship but because I feel like I wouldn’t be always be there for you, given my current circumstances.

This is probably exactly what many of your friends said and what you said what wouldn't happen. They are probably just looking out for you, which made it especially hard for me to write to you about this tough decision I finally made. I wish I could say this to you in person, but the main reason I decided not to call was because I wanted you to get the full picture of how I feel and give you some time to think.

I hope we can put this aside and still be good friends. Please let me know how you are feeling and doing whenever, if ever, you wish…by facebook, phone, whatever.


Thoughts?

[her_heart]

would you have the guts to "mess him up?" what do you mean by messing up him? like turning into the hulk and ripping off his balls or something? LOL. just let it go, no need to drag on something that didn't last and be stuck in it a little while longer. move on like he did.

[doozie]

I understand what you're going through (same experience here), but I honestly think it'd be a waste of time and energy on your part to think up a revenge plan. Moving on and finding a guy who'll actually treat you right would be the best revenge, you know? He'll see what he's missed out on, and you don't want him to think you're hung up on him.

[mz.carolyn]

Update!!!
And I see what you guys mean about the revenge thing..*sigh* it would've been nice.

[po_Cakes]

well, i guess he could have told you in person ... but like he said, he wanted to give you time to think.
it sounds like he explained himself pretty well, and you should just let it go [:
when he's ready, who knows? maybe someday . . . hahaha, but for now, move on.