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#1 User is offline   amandaa_x 

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Posted 14 February 2009 - 05:55 PM

Have you ever met anyone and that wow.. you feel really attracted to them like they may not be the best looking person but somehow you feel you are attracted to them? Does it work both ways our is it just one way
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 06:10 PM

Looks may help with attraction but it isnt everything smile.gif. i like the way they act more tongue.gif
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 06:30 PM

haha, yeah i've experienced it XD
i described it as "having a crush on their personality" ? X:
prolly wouldn't work out like that though,
since i wasn't really physically attracted to them =/
i think you pretty much need both lol.

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Posted 14 February 2009 - 06:31 PM

No way to say.
People feel attracted to people all the time, for many reasons.
If you were attracted to every single person who was attracted to you and vice versa. That'd be hella complicated haha.

And kinda agree with Angie, they don't need to be the bestlooking person ever but you still need some degree of physical attraction ^.^

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Posted 14 February 2009 - 06:38 PM

mm. That's me right now. I'm pretty sure he knows too. (:

Nah. It's normal. I think it's great that people like other people even if they aren't the best looking. But like, I think once you're attracted to them, it just makes them beautiful to you yourself. y'know?

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Posted 14 February 2009 - 06:46 PM

>.< its happening to me right now. i call it animal attraction =] you just can't help it.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 07:40 PM

x_X' i don't get how being attracted to someone makes you attractive to them...
besides the attractive quality of affection/attention or being liked.

_ there are those times i go around the city, and for some reason i look up and into a girl's eyes i'm caught . and for some reason she's caught on mine.
besides the expression of familiarity or connection... perhaps even looking back at each other, walking away.
it's probably just because a stranger is staring at you, that you stare back..in a surprised way... :B nothin' more.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 08:08 PM

^ no no. i meant like. If you're attractive to that person. That person just seems more beautiful to YOU. irregardless of how they really look. i hope that makes sense.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 09:07 PM

yup smile.gif that's how i got him now, i guess haha.
the attraction can be so annoying sometimes!
i guess it's just with how they act, rather.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 09:22 PM

QUOTE (orange.xin.wo @ Feb 15 2009, 03:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ no no. i meant like. If you're attractive to that person. That person just seems more beautiful to YOU. irregardless of how they really look. i hope that makes sense.

o_O' ah. lol. of course.
after all "Love is the delusion that one person is different."
and .. meh. i could recognize a girl's faults, and still love every photon of light that shines her brilliance that makes my heart flutter. xD -throws self off bridge-

it helps when you can see the beauty of people for more than the outside. perhaps the emotions in their eyes or how ..as strange as it sounds, how their face is held together. _ you can imagine MS or stroke victims faces compared to luvvos. lol.
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Posted 14 February 2009 - 09:53 PM

It's happened to me before. I was attracted to how he acted and not his looks.
That doesn't happen often but every now and then, there is a guy who just acts super cute/sweet.
It has me hooked because he treats me well even though he isn't too attractive.

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 12:36 AM

HAHA I KNOW!! its sooo annoying. Like what i meant was like when you meet them theres something inside and do you ever wonder does the other person you feel attracted to feel the same way about you? soo curious (:
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Posted 15 February 2009 - 01:02 AM

I don't really care much for looks.
But when i get to know a guy and he's decent looking and i really like his personality,
I find him even more attractive.
It's happened twice.
Once their personality goes down to like ZERO.
They're really ugly looking for me biggrin.gif
Or they just go back to being decent looking. sweatingbullets.gif


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Posted 15 February 2009 - 01:22 PM

It eventually does work out both way: attracted to the person's personality and appearance.

You fall for his personality and then suddenly you find that person attractive too later on. Falling for their personality fools your brain into thinking he/she is attractive. For instance, I fell for this guy friend of mines who I really didn't think was that attractive but he was really nice and friendly. When I found out how he was like, I started seeing him as "cute" (physically), especially his smiles.
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