[rawrrrcookies]

Is it worth dating a girl that wants to go out but secretly? She says she "really misses me" but I only see her once a week and I know if she wanted to see me she can find a way. So it's been 5 and a half months of "secretly going out" and I already tried to break up with her because I didn't wanna fall for her but she kept trying to win me back during the convo and I caved in. What should I do?

[prisonerzero]

You already tried breaking up with her. It doesn't seem like you really want to be with her, so actually break it off this time if that's what you actually want.

[Regrets]

It depends
but if you guys are "secretly" going out then something must be wrong.
She might be ashamed of dating you
or she wants to keep it from people so maybe her family doesn't find out?

but yeah your choice mate

[BaboJen]

Is there any particular reason why she wanted the relationship to be private?
If its parent not letting her date problem then its understable.
But if its because of embarrassment to friends, no offense..you should just dump her.

[pinkcafelatte]

There must be a reason for her to want to keep it secret.
She might be dating another person "in private" too, you would never know.
Since you have already wanted to break up with her, then you should just do so.
I don't think it's worth it.

[hippiehop]

Only you can judge if she's worth it.

[EHNerJI]

depends on how you feel about her.
i'm just curious as to why exactly the relationship is secret? o.o;
cuz there can be some good reasons..
and some.. shady ones lol x.x;