[littleangel19]

(please delete topic if it has been already post, I have tried searching on google to see if it had already been post or not)

So , if you s/o is not here, or just gone and left you. What to do now? While waiting for him to come back, what do YOU do?
some tips and advices~

1. hanging out with friends ( but do what? i don't know, go see a play?)
2. play video games!
3. flirt with other guys to make yourself feel better?

I don't know lol
Whats better than sitting around and waiting?

I most of the time, think of something cute for him, for when he comes back. Think of a love poem for him? Make him something?

** but would you make him feel loved for when he comes back?
*** would you tell him how much you miss him, or how angry you are??

[Lie]

Why would you do something nice, or even take him back, if he left for an extended period of time without bothering to tell you (extended period of time being a week+ at a time)? That's just encouraging the recurrence of that sort of behavior.

Or am I misunderstanding you?

[blissful*sin]

honestly, i'd juss hangout with friends
enjoyin' life
cos i love me too much to bring myself down for anyone
when da fool decides to come back
thats when i get da pleasure of slamin' da door in his face
oh yea

[lilangelover]

well with my boyfriend the situation is kinda different i guess. he left but i knew he was going to leave. he left for school on the opposite side of the state =_=;;. well there isn't much for me to do but just living my life. going to school and such and hanging out with friends. and when we're not busy we talk to each other. but when he comes back its amazing! but uhh with your situation... not sure if that's a good thing if he left with out telling you.

[Sympathetic]

Wait, what do you mean..

1. He/she left without telling you he went out with his/her friends.
2. He/she left and ran away from home. (or something like that)
3. He/she left to some where far away without telling. (or went away for days without telling you?)

[lea11]

OP, it seems you're struggling with your bf leaving suddenly? (A lot of your posts seem that way)

Really, life is too short. Just do things to make you feel happy. Waiting and wasting time on him - you'll regret it after time.. at now, he's all you want, need, I understand.. but you need to think of yourself, too.

[Regrets]

just enjoy life
do stuff that you normally do and time will fly by
and sooner or later
he'll be back

[Swtess]

Right now I just want to lash out at him for not calling for about a week already.
Just hang and chill with friends. With them gone, its a good chance to catch up on homework.

[moot11]

I spent the time studying after my S.O. left, and it was really productive. I got on Dean's List. XD There's so much to do in the absence of a S.O., so much of the world to enjoy and explore, when one is not preoccupied by a relationship.

[chilovesjj]

When my s/o was away on holiday I spent a little bit of time every day writing him a letter, to read when he came back home I thought it was kinda cute, and in that way, by writing to him I felt kinda like I was still talking to him, even though he couldn't respond. Haha. It helps a lot when you miss him, I think. ^^ Other than that, yeah talking to other people more, baking (lol) etc. I like baking, I like eating some of the mix before I cook it xDD

For your situation- You're in a LD relationship, right? I saw your topic where he hadn't called you for 3 days and didn't respond to your messages. So that'd be 5 days now~ I know what you mean, when you're used to talking for ages every day, a few days without contact can seem like a lifetime. You should pre-occupy yourself for now doing things you enjoy (artistic things can be fun, drawing, singing, dancing, stuff like that ^^).

But I would definitely tell him how much it bothered you when he does finally respond to you, just so that he knows for the future. If you don't even bring it up, he might think he has done nothing wrong.

I would be careful though, and try not to get angry at him. If something serious has happened (maybe a relative or friend got really sick or was in a bad accident or something unpredictable like that) then obviously it wasn't deliberate, it was just his circumstances.

If, however, he has no good reason and is unapologetic, then that shows a severe lack of effort and caring from his side, so bring that up with him and ask him why he couldn't even pick up the phone to at least let you know that everything's ok.

flirt with other guys to make yourself feel better?

Jealousy is often an issue anyway in long distance relationships, this is not a clever idea at all, no matter how frustrated you are with him
Just a thought. All the best. x

[littleangel19]

You're in a LD relationship, right? I saw your topic where he hadn't called you for 3 days and didn't respond to your messages. So that'd be 5 days now~ I know what you mean, when you're used to talking for ages every day, a few days without contact can seem like a lifetime. You should pre-occupy yourself for now doing things you enjoy (artistic things can be fun, drawing, singing, dancing, stuff like that ^^).

But I would definitely tell him how much it bothered you when he does finally respond to you, just so that he knows for the future. If you don't even bring it up, he might think he has done nothing wrong.

I would be careful though, and try not to get angry at him. If something serious has happened (maybe a relative or friend got really sick or was in a bad accident or something unpredictable like that) then obviously it wasn't deliberate, it was just his circumstances.

If, however, he has no good reason and is unapologetic, then that shows a severe lack of effort and caring from his side, so bring that up with him and ask him why he couldn't even pick up the phone to at least let you know that everything's ok.


Jealousy is often an issue anyway in long distance relationships, this is not a clever idea at all, no matter how frustrated you are with him
Just a thought. All the best. x

thanks for worrying ^^ we're okay now, he called me : D!! yes jealousy is not a smart idea T_T;

[chilovesjj]

Aww I'm glad he called Did he say why he wasn't able to contact you in so long?
Did you explain to him that you felt upset by it?

[quyennypoo]

well if he upped and left than i would be partying like crazy...i love nightlife with my mates...its a buzz being with people you like and letting loose so i would do that...i would also flirt (aren't i a great gf) but i would never cheat! make yourself feel good for its your happiness only you know how to make you happy right?!

xoxox

[Lavender.Sky]

aww it's good that he called
=))))))~

[littleangel19]

Aww I'm glad he called Did he say why he wasn't able to contact you in so long?
Did you explain to him that you felt upset by it?

Yes he did, and Yes I did too ^^ It seems something had upset him and he needed time alone, and didn't want me to worry. : D THanks for worrying <3