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Staring ...is that a sign?

#1 User is offline   peacee 

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Post icon  Posted 20 February 2009 - 02:21 PM

I have a crush on this guy in my class. He sits on the opposite end of the room. Whenever our class has debates and then he says his opinion. I sometimes see him looking @ me. Today I saw him looking at me a few times. And outside of class I passed by him while he was sitting down and I felt like he was staring @ me. I think I've said like 2 setences to him. I dont know what to do :S


Any advice, or comments?...
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#2 User is offline   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 20 February 2009 - 02:28 PM

Hell No.
Never take that as a sign.
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 02:32 PM

It could be a sign.
But, most likely, he could probably just stare to see if you look at him,
or, just, playing with you.
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 02:41 PM

yeaa, us girls sometimes tend to overreact with signs, and mistaken them for other stuff.

And same here, that staring thing happens to me too. But I dont give a damn.

I can't be stuffed trying to figure these things out anymore. I'm just like over it now. If he like you, then he likes you.

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Posted 20 February 2009 - 03:13 PM

I wouldnt consider so much the staring as sign.....it just maybe that he was staring at you for various reasons other than "like". Just like how you happen to randomly stare at people....Plus, you say this guy is your crush...so you could be unknowingly bias about it XD

Unless he actually says he likes you, then that's one thing to consider.

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Posted 20 February 2009 - 03:26 PM

I would say not, especially the debate part.


If you are sitting in a big group (like a class) and you think he looks at you, he might be looking at the person behind you, or in front of you, or a painting above you. Either way, it's gonna look like he's looking at you.
Same goes for the walking pass him thing. It might look like he is looking at you (since you arent turning your head to see if hes really looking) but he actually is not.

Even if he was staring at you, it could mean something else. You have something on your face. You look weird. "So that's her?". You're kinda cute. You're pretty.

Lol, I'm not trying to put you down here, just stating the possibilities. You should go talk to him if you like him ^^
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 03:26 PM

maybe you had something on your face

j/k smile.gif

but it could be you never know. Only way to find out is to talk to him casually. If he responds back like he actually wants to talk to you then you have your answer biggrin.gif.

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Posted 20 February 2009 - 03:48 PM

It may be...

Although I myself like to stare at other people a lot.
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 04:37 PM

Maybe there was something on your face
all those times
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 05:12 PM

Staring doesnt mean much. I stare at people all the time randomly. Only when the stare is accompanied by a wink or a smile then thats a sign.
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 05:14 PM

Just because someone stares at you, doesn't mean they're interested in you.
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 06:12 PM

it could be a NO or a YES

you see sometimes people might suddenly turn their eyes on you for no reason then suddenly you look back at him/her then you think that

he/she was staring at you,,,, bottom line maybe he just suddenly look at you.

actually that happened to me once or more

i suddenly turn my head on this guy(a close one) then he teasingly asked me "ARE YOU STARING AT ME?" and i was like "NO"
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 06:15 PM

You probably just thought he was staring at you (when he wasn't) or you just hope that he was staring at you.

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Posted 20 February 2009 - 06:21 PM

QUOTE (FusionGT2 @ Feb 21 2009, 10:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Staring doesnt mean much. I stare at people all the time randomly. Only when the stare is accompanied by a wink or a smile then thats a sign.


agree

staring could mean anything.

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Posted 24 February 2009 - 05:26 PM

i wouldn't call it a sign either.
i've been in situations like this,
but then again.. staring is normal. if you're aware or have an interest in that person,
you sometimes seem to notice things in a different way tongue.gif

maybe you're looking at him,
and he looks back at you,
wondering 'why the heck is she looking at me' xD
ahaha idk. is staring the only thing you notice from him ?
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Posted 24 February 2009 - 05:45 PM

hes probably looking atu cuz ur weirdly looking at him.. which most likely turns him off..
and yes you are staring at him otherwise you woudlnt know hes staring at u
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Posted 24 February 2009 - 09:47 PM

iuno.
i space out alot, and i always look at a particular space (shaded, blue carpet wall. very comforting).
then people assume i like this guy who sits near the spot i stare at.

i don't think the fact he stares at you is necessarily sign that he is interested in you.
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Posted 24 February 2009 - 10:07 PM

NOT a sure sign, trust me.
happened to my friend... well... she was doing the staring, but it was like the type of staring when you unfocus and stuff... and later the guy goes up to her and askes if she liked him coz she was staring at him... and she was so confused coz she didnt notice who she was 'staring' at lol!

but anyways... back to the main point... its kinda 50/50 chance thing. like, he could like you, or it could just be coincidence.
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Posted 24 February 2009 - 10:20 PM



I do that too, I assume things, which... I have to stop. haha.
but yeah, like what everyone else has been saying, it could mean lots of things.
I look at the person I'm interested in all the time, but I sneak looks.
it could mean he's interested, OR he could just be spacing out.
but either way, good luck with it!

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Posted 24 February 2009 - 11:46 PM

start talking to him, then you will know lol


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