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#1 User is offline   choot 

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Post icon  Posted 20 February 2009 - 11:38 PM

For the past four months, I've been really attracted to this one guy from my Polisci120 class. We talked almost about anything.....and we have so much things in common. I really didnt know how to come about to see if he's interested in me. for some strange reason.....i ended up asking him out after a month?. however, it seemed like HE thought it was just a friend's HANGOUT. i asked his friend (a guy from our class) what kind of girls does he like. he said that MY CRUSH likes girls with short brown hair because its cute. I then assumed most guys like girls with short hair.......so i chopped off my long black hair. I KNOW I KNOWW WHAT A BAD DECISION FOR JUST SOME GUY WHO I DONT KNOW WHETHER HE LIKES ME OR NOT. My crush just went "ohhh what happened to ur hair??"
-_________- his tone really made me sad for the rest of the day....because i liked my long hair and because most of my friends dont have long hair. from then on, i was just plain sad. thankfully, he was there to comfort me....SUPRISINGLY. he was all "are u sad that u cutted ur hair?"(i told him i cutted my hair becuz of my cousin's beauty salon test). then to end that question....he said "its okay *rub my back. i've always liked ur long hair but ur new hair is also growing to me, the same way u are to me =] " (now where did he get that quote from...LOL)

SORRY FOR THE LONNNGGG STORY. my question is.......have u ever done something JUST for a guy or a girl? and for guys, do u guys REALLY prefer short hair over long hair? LOL! (sorry, im still learning! lol)
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#2 User is offline   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 20 February 2009 - 11:43 PM

You just made a big Mistake.
I definitely wouldn't change my hair.
If wearing a particular clothes, Okay.
hair, no way.
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 11:43 PM

youre crazy but atleast it turned out okay~ smile.gif haha but nope havent done anything extreme for a guy i liked..

..where is the quote from? heh
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 11:48 PM

i remember trying to act 'japanese' and learnin korean for the japanese guy i liked. since i remember him saying he likes japanese and loves koreans.

=-= i guess atleast i can enjoy and understand korean songs now.

but the japanese part................................................. siiiigh.


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Posted 20 February 2009 - 11:53 PM

Well...I wouldn't chop off my hair for someone but if you look good with it, its fine.
Short hair's easier to maintain anyway (for me haha).


Hmm idk what I have done just for a guy.
Bought him something that was handmade I guess.
But that's about it.

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Posted 21 February 2009 - 12:06 AM

you are definitely blind by love unsure.gif
i would never do such things .
i wonder what he would think if he know u cut your hair cause of him .
maybe it might be a good thing (;
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 12:09 AM

a little off-topic but...
QUOTE (choot @ Feb 21 2009, 06:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
(now where did he get that quote from...LOL)

..D: WHY ARE WE ALWAYS ACCUSED OF QUOTING SOMETHING??

-^-' can't we just be accepted as fiction inspired romantics..
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 12:18 AM

I tried getting into World of Warcraft. oh god. what a soul-eating game.

Just be yourself. smile.gif
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 12:53 AM

QUOTE (ShadowMax76 @ Feb 21 2009, 03:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
a little off-topic but...
..D: WHY ARE WE ALWAYS ACCUSED OF QUOTING SOMETHING??

-^-' can't we just be accepted as fiction inspired romantics..



lolol.
my boyfriend always says thatish.
"i hate saying some things because it seems way too cliche because of the overuse in movies and sh*t."
and then he gets all sad. ~__~
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 01:10 AM

Ohhh, lol, that's kinda bad. Urr I've never done anything extreme for a dude. I doubt I ever will tbh.
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 01:23 AM

wtf. . . . .

you should NEVER have to change yourself because of someone you like. if they don't like you for who you are and what you look like initially, then what the hell is the point? you're just changing yourself to fit THEIR standards but then you lose the idea of your own self.

if the guy doesn't like you just cuz you don't have short hair, he is one shallow beezy. and you just downgraded yourself for falling into what he wants. you just made yourself sad and what if he doesnt end up going out with you? its a lose-lose situation my dear.

next time, leave your hair alone. tell him he can shove one up his arse... instead of you being all sad cuz you lost your long locks for a douche like him.
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 01:25 AM

^ (let's say) i don't take showers.
o_O' if i take showers because a girl likes that, is that a bad thing?
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 01:30 AM

^ LOL WTF.. okay.. THAT is different.... that's your personal hygiene... of course a girl would like a guy to take showers.. would YOU really want a girl who smells like ass cuz she doesnt take showers? no, i dont think so.

its more of a physical appearance.. like say... clothes? maybe a girl has a certain style but the guy says he likes something else... if the girl goes and buys a whole lotta clothes she doesn't even like just for the guy, that's just plain stupid and a waste of time and money...


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Posted 21 February 2009 - 01:55 AM

^ well at first i didnt tink my hair was that important. but once its gone, u start thinking about ALL THOSE YEARS that it took to grow and all.
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 09:18 AM

well, i kinda grew out my hair for my bf xD i usually have short hair but now that i have long hair, a lot of ppl are against me cutting it xD thats bout... it. tongue.gif

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Posted 21 February 2009 - 09:30 AM

Its ok babe, it will grow back. How short is your hair now? Like chin length?
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 09:35 AM

QUOTE (한스 ㅋㅋ @ Feb 21 2009, 02:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You just made a big Mistake.
I definitely wouldn't change my hair.
If wearing a particular clothes, Okay.
hair, no way.

seriously. I plan to grow my hair up to the butt area.
long, sleek, jet black.
trying to go for the mafia japanese girl look.
pwahar.
but then again, your story worked well and if I've always wanted to shave my head.
why? because it's refreshing biggrin.gif
maybe when I get married and I know for sure that my hubby loves me even if
I look like a bald eagle.
otherwise, whatever, growing my hair mad long and then possibly donating it.
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 09:58 AM

QUOTE (claire.rawr @ Feb 21 2009, 04:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wtf. . . . .

you should NEVER have to change yourself because of someone you like. if they don't like you for who you are and what you look like initially, then what the hell is the point? you're just changing yourself to fit THEIR standards but then you lose the idea of your own self.

if the guy doesn't like you just cuz you don't have short hair, he is one shallow beezy. and you just downgraded yourself for falling into what he wants. you just made yourself sad and what if he doesnt end up going out with you? its a lose-lose situation my dear.

next time, leave your hair alone. tell him he can shove one up his arse... instead of you being all sad cuz you lost your long locks for a douche like him.


lol yep, i agree with you X_X;

i don't think he would like you just because of your hair.
if he did only like you cuz you now have short hair...
that's.. weird LOL. cuz people have types and such..
but unless your new hair makes you look a lotttt better,
i doubt he'd see anything in you that he didn't see before?
it's definitely not worth it.. x.x;
would you really be happy if he liked you now with your short hair? lol.
i'd be kinda like "wth" cuz technically, it's not the 'real you'
since you liked your long hair and only cut it for him.
but meh, it's been done & now you have to live with it haha.
but, i hope you don't mind your short hair XD lol.

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Posted 21 February 2009 - 10:35 AM

Guilty x.x

my ex-bf liked girls with semi-short hair.
I cut a crapload of my hair off when we started "talking".
Looked terrible for prom and senior pictures D: but at least I got him XD

Now I have long hair again, but for cereal... never again. Unless I'm just totally bored with my hair...o.o;;

But hey, at least there's a bright side of this for you =D
He said such a cute/cheesy line LOL
Harry Potter gots nothing on this sexy potter LOL ;D

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Posted 21 February 2009 - 10:40 AM

I wouldn't do that for a guy. It's so silly to me.


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