[1TymOneLove]

I FIRST WANT TO SAY, THNX 4 ALL UR COMMENT, KEEP THEM COMMING =]
AND SECOND, THIS THREAD IS ABOUT LOVE WITH COUSIN, marriage and buildin a family is not the main idea, just add it in 2 be more interesting
thnk you


I luv my cousin, and We love each other.anyone else does this ?, ok this maybe alitle weird O.o [ and IT NOT MY HORMONES TALKIN LOL ^^ ] CUS WERE BEEN together few year after confession, i think u get my point
^^ plz dun Kill me
cus i seen alot of people does that too,

and have a family, and baby turn out fine too.

But anyway is it normal, to..um...in a relation ship with cousin ^^

"AS FOR THE BABY PART, I BROUGHT IT UP BECUASE I WANT TO LET PEOPLE WHO THINKS THAT HAVIN BABY WITH COUSIN IS BAD ( i used to think like that too ^.^; ), BUT REALITY, RESEARCH FOUND OUT THAT IT NOT LIKE THAT [ link below explains it ] "

AND IM NOT TRYING TO HAVE A BABY OK lmao =D
but we'll if we actualy married together in the DISTANCE...future ^^

ALBERT ENSTIEN married his 1st Cousin =]

States that allow cousin to marry

Research - Few Risks Seen To the Children Of 1st Cousins

i did an ask search on yahoo for this thing ^^

AGAINS please be open minded/heart ...and please don't be too harsh on me in this please =] thnx guys ^.~



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btw if this is already post, just remove ^^

[ripredx]

wow...
what's up with this world?
Being gay does not justify having incest.
It's not only disgusting but you're being selfish since any baby conceived in such a relationship
will have a problem with them.
It won't be extremely glaring like a third leg but it'll be more subtle
including mental handicaps, sometimes disabilities, etc.

It's not love that's driving you but lust and too much hormones.
END

[yokoya LL]

Umm..I don't really know what to say.

If you're in love with your cousin, and you're cousin is in love with you too than I guess it's err alright?
A little wierd though. But if the two of you are happy, then I guess it okay.
But yea it's up to you to decide. Whether you can face the consequences or not. even if the consequences are bad...

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

No it's not alright.
but It's your life, it's up to you.

[ミ★♫윤아♫☆ミ]

Do whatever makes you happy. ._. I mean it's your life.

[5.mystline]

You can't compare Albert Einsteins marriage with today's world because that marriage was over 50years ago? Our beliefs and values have drastically changed "

[1TymOneLove]

Umm..I don't really know what to say.

If you're in love with your cousin, and you're cousin is in love with you too than I guess it's err alright?
A little wierd though. But if the two of you are happy, then I guess it okay.
But yea it's up to you to decide. Whether you can face the consequences or not. even if the consequences are bad...

thnx alot ^^ 4 being open minded/heart

[AresJK]

first of all don't say "WEIRD" baby
its not like they wanted to be "WEIRD", as you say
and it just means they have a slight increase in having genetic defect
so do whatever you want
I don't even know why you wrote this
its not like you are having problems with your cousin...

[1TymOneLove]

ARES : thnx 4 u too ^^
i wrote this just too see if anyone here's same as me ^^
AND WOW this topic sure is interest alot of people already hhihihihi ^^
=]
i like ur avatar btw =P

[Aziangurlmoto]

^^One possibly valid argument against incestuous relationships is purely sociological: inter family marriages result in creating a sectarian atmosphere to where outside influences (whether they be cultural, ethnic or genetic) will be absent. Basically, it prevents cultural diversity from enriching the mini social model a family represents.

From a genetic perspective: genetic predispositions to diabetes, cardio vascular diseases, obesity, some types of cancer, some types of auto immune deficiencies and now Alzheimer's are bound to affect at a higher rate children resulting from unions between members of the same genealogy. Without getting into any fictive drama scenario of "weird" children, such trans generational incidences must be considered very carefully O_o

[1TymOneLove]

^ wow that's alot lol, did u wrote all that ^^
thnx 4 commenting

[princesspoppy]

But anyway i think it normal, to..um...in a relation ship with cousin ^^ well more normal than gay and less rite ^^

Are you john teshing serious? If you want people to be open minded about your relationship, don't hate on other peoples' relationships.

I really don't care who you date. If you want to date a rock, a dog, or whatever. . . . .go ahead.

[MEMENTO]

I don't think it's right. It's not right.

Take a step back. You're already moving forward past marriage into children. How old are you?
Don't delve into it too fast. Even if you're 25, take a look at what's going to happen.
Do your parents agree? Do your aunt and uncle agree? What about siblings and other cousins?
The people closest to you should have a say in this too.

I've known cases where people have been in love with their cousins. It's attraction and it's extremely hard to resist especially if BOTH of you like each other. Someone I know really liked his cousin and she herself liked him too. But he knew it wasn't right - it's taboo in society's culture and a complete heartbreak for God too. This guy really pulled through though! He prayed to God and now he has a girlfriend (who happens to be a friend of mine) and they're not related or anything. They're a sweet couple so really, think about it.

Anyhoo, I know it may be love but...think about others too - those around you who love you.
Will they be hurt by this? Even if they say it's okay, deep inside, is it okay for them?

I hope you take heed of some advice even though you weren't essentially looking for any.

[Aivy]

I read the first sentence... and was like "oh yeah a lot of people love their cousins."

But THEN... you brought up babies, and I knew you meant something else. Well it's not really 'normal' or 'okay' where I live, honestly creepy because that person is blood related to you. I REALLY don't see cousins as being lovers. And with Albert Einstein, that was many decades ago, and now the standards of marrying have changed.

[ngarky]

wow..the gay comment was really uncalled for if you're telling other people to be open-minded about your incestuous relationship..

[mintcracker]

Firstly you sound extremely young.
Secondly you don't love your cousin, I really doubt it's anything more than infatuation. 'Luv'?? Lmfao


Homosexuality is perfectly fine, but incest is disgusting and wrong.

[Ida]

I mean, it is your life.

But I really questioned your maturity in this situation (from your writing style I assume you are still young). You have to question yourself whether or not you are truly in love with your cousin or this is just a simple "attraction" caused by hormones and lust (like someone mentioned). And not only that, are both of you even ready for the scrutiny you will received? Both from the public and your family members? Even if your relationship is strong enough to go through that much, you mentioned children? Yes - not all incest-borned children are handicapped. BUT they do have a bigger chance of being handicapped, both mentally and physically, than normal-borned babies. Can you get through that?

I suggest you reconsider whether you are truly in love and ready for this...or it is just a simple lust. Good luck.

-ida

By the way, your comments concerning "gay" couples...was truly uncalled for.

[Raiikin]

It's alright. I'm not for incest love but still, don't put up with the crap people are saying, but I can't blame them though because after all humans are naturally shallow, immature, ignorant, and close-minded. Love who you wanna love, it's your life.

also dont let anyone redifine what love is. Love is an intense affection for someone or something / the desire to be around that someone or something.


mintcracker: "Homosexuality is perfectly fine, but incest is disgusting and wrong." I think you should look up the word perfect. In no way is homosexuality perfectly fine. I can write essays on how disgusting, filthy, and wrong (biologically, physically, aesthetically, mentally, and religiously wrong) homosexuality is. But i'm not against it, so please keep extreme, biased comments to yourself.

[peachesncre4ms]

Firstly you sound extremely young.
Secondly you don't love your cousin, I really doubt it's anything more than infatuation. 'Luv'?? Lmfao


Homosexuality is perfectly fine, but incest is disgusting and wrong.

Homosexuality wasn't OK back then, but it is accepted now. That's why there was debate in CA about prop 8. If homosexuality is made OK, would incest be too? After all, the big argument was everyone should have equal rights.

I really have no opinion on this issue. I just think that you should do whatever you think is right and whatever makes you happy, and don't take anybody's words for it.

[sakuradollie]

What ever makes you happy, nothing wrong with that....especially for gay relationships.. I'm fine when it comes to other people that are dating their cousins. When it comes to my kids I'm not sure how I'm going to react...but I'll accept it.I understand that you are close with your cousin...but you could easily mistaken it between a "boyfriend/girlfriend relationship" and a "family relationship". It's how cousins are, they know each other and are close...Even brothers and sisters are close but you don't see most of them going into the next level of relationship...

Why would you risk your child into having a genetic disorder? It is better to adopt than to put your future child into a risk that will ruin their life! What ever you chose is, I hope the best for you.