[aya~nisa]

Have you ever being sexual harassed?
how?
what's ur reaction?
does the 'affect' last for a long time?

it doesn't have to be ur own story
could be other's
thx for sharing

[plegend2007]

Sorry, if you've been through such terrible ordeal.
I have never experience it nor do i know of anyone else who has been through it either.

The best advice that i can think of is for you to get professional help.
Remember one thing, it's not your fault.

Sorry once again and may you pull through this.

I wish you all the luck in the world to help you get past this ordeal.

[claire.rawr]

yup.

he'll get his karma.

iono.. i think i turned out fine? hahaha

i reported him. . . he got kicked out of my school.

[mrskimjinho]

I've been harassed about two years ago when I was in high school.
There was this really weird Indian kid who sat behind me in one of my classes, and he was kinda sweet at first with his corny flattery. Then one day he started playing with my hair, which I didn't really think too much of because a lot of people liked playing with it ("it's soooo soft" ). Then he started putting his hands on my waist from behind even though I made it clear to him that I didn't want him putting his hands on me. I had to move to the back of the classroom to get away from him but he followed me and throughout the entire class period, he'd look back at me and smile this REALLY creepy, toothy smile. Then he got into the habit of sneaking up behind me before or after class started, literally sticking his nose into my hair and smelling it. He's also call me "bunny" and "honey buns" repeatedly until I couldn't ignore his stare anymore and glared at him. One of my guy friends once came into my class and pretended to be my boyfriend and later yelled at the kid to leave me alone, and surprisingly, he was quiet for a couple of days until he somehow figured out that my friend wasn't really my boyfriend. My friend urged me to report sexual harassment, but I was really hesitant to report him because back then, I wasn't even sure of what constituted as sexual harassment. My teacher seemed indifferent to what was going on, either because he never saw what the kid was doing, or because he thought the kid was just playing around, so that confused me even more. Then almost like an answer from heaven, my school gave out these booklets that outlined different kinds of violations that could get you suspended or expelled. Only after that did I learn that inappropriate touching and name calling constituted as sexual harassment. But apparently, the kid had been also been harassing another poor girl and she got to the dean first. I didn't see him around for a while and I think he got suspended or something, not exactly sure. But after that, he was considerably tame. If he wasn't, I'd threaten him with a "do you seriously want another sexual harassment report?" and he'd have his tail between his legs.
But yeah, that's my (long) story.
I haven't been that traumatized by it, probably because it wasn't a really really serious case. But I still cringe whenever I think about it.

I do hope you're not asking because you've been sexually harassed...

[Sympathetic]

Back when I was in primary school, some kid use to touch me - and I mean everywhere.
At first I thought it wasn't intentional, but it happened more than once.
I told the teacher @ first and they didn't do anything about it.
Then it kept happening, so I told the teachers again.
Then they told him to away from me. Which he didn't.
I told the teachers again and they gave the final warning, then he did.

There was no affect in fact. I don't think much of it, and this was a longggg time ago.

[Regrets]

Aww
I haven't experienced it
But my friend has.
And she's sreally scared of being around guys now D:

[wallflower*]

That happened to someone close to me. Overall he's happy now and it doesn't really affect him anymore. I'm not sure whether because it happened to him when he was young, and he was able to just get over it. He never told anyone, which I'm sure was the hardest thing, if anything.

[chilovesjj]

Don't know if this counts? I used to work in a PC and electronics store and most of the guys there were total weirdo pervs so I eventually left T__T"

I used to be friends with a guy from work and one day he suddenly started talking really dirty and just freaked me right out. Then he started trying to send me pictures of himself, naked. I blocked him but even at work he would sometimes say suggestive things to me as well, and just made me feel really uncomfortable. :/

A lot of guys at my work were like that.. I was one of only 2 girls who worked there. Another guy would make really inappropriate propositions to me, quite loudly in the shop even when there were customers there x_x And would brag all the time about how he had slept with girls 'even younger than becca (my real name)' on holiday (I was 16 at the time <.<)

A few of the people there were genuinely nice people so I went with them to the pub after work (I was only drinking coke, before you criticize XD) and one of the managers was quite drunk, and just like, leaned over to me and put his arm around me and was like "if i wasn't married-" then one of the others pushed him off and told him to behave. X_X

The security guard there was black and kept telling me that 'once you go black, you never look back' and kept talking about the size of his penis x____X'' he eventually got thrown out.. for approaching customers and asking them if they wanted to buy drugs from him.

At a party once, some guy just pulled me onto him in the chair he was sitting on and tried to touch me T_T but my friends were there and pulled me away from him and told him to **** off or they'd knock him out. @_@

When I was 13, a 16 year old guy used to stalk me. He was really weird. He followed me round at school. When I had a cello lesson, he would sit outside the door of the room my lesson was in X_X And send me messages telling me the gross stuff he wanted to do to me :/

I seem to attract crazy perverts lol T____T;;

[aya~nisa]

I don't know how to answer
I want to thanks you all to answer my post
And thx for the stories and suggestions...
I'll be happier if more people share
thx anyway
it makes me feel that I'm not alone
=)

[~ BunnyliciouS ~]

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