[XoXiHaEoX]

Well it doesn't have to be wealth like the one in Boys Over Flowers..

but it just bothers me when I always get attracted on someone of different clique..like it lowers my self-esteem of even trying to hang out with the person..
I mean I'm pretty sociable that there are times I talk to people I don't kinda know..but when it comes to someone I like...I always get the hide-in-your-shell feeling..like he belongs to a different world..even if we've known each other for a very long time..we've never learn how to talk to each other...

So is it just me? or is there really such a thing where people choose the people they want to talk to...?

[Regrets]

i really like my gf but she and i have much different interests
We don't really have mutual friends either
and yeah.

[plegend2007]

who cares....just talk to whomever you want.

I like to talk to people that are different and unique. That is what makes it interesting and exciting.
Especially when it comes to dating. Explore and see a whole new world.
Interesting people come from all cliques. It's not about the clique, it is about the person.

[clean]

nope it's not just you sweetheart

people choose who they wanna talk to and don't feel bad
because they live with those choices

[kimi]

It happens and though it may hurt your relationship, it's a pretty normal feeling.
Though if it really bothers you, you should try to open up or find something you're both comfortable with.

[littlejade]

Yes, there is such thing as people from different world..

Not everyone has the same taste, personality, and interest.

You got to find ur match. There's a match for everyone.

Also it's even in friendship - not everyone has the same sort of friends, some people have their group of friends who have a certain character, such as geek's, smart, funny, etc.. some are mix.

it's good to have variety of friends, go wild. As long as u like them.

U shouldn't feel anyone is better than u.. if u like them, then try n befriend them.

I know people are best friend who's sweet and quiet, and is best friend to someone who's loud and hyper.

Two different personality can match, as long as they share similiar interest, which they do.

[13infamyss]

hmmmmmm.... i dont know about "different worlds" im watching BOF and i like how jandi emphasizes that there is no such thing as "my world" and "his world".



but i guess... we can talk about how we have different interest with our s/o.
and yes.... my boyfriend and i dont share any similarities at all except love
i always believe in invisible red thread and how thats the only thing that binds us together.
cuz seriously, with our hobbies and such, there's no way we click together. LOL

[Lie]

So is it just me? or is there really such a thing where people choose the people they want to talk to...?

I can imagine it would have been difficult for me in Middle or High School. Now though I kind of like it. I'm attracted to girls who are completely different than me, oddly enough. Makes me feel interested to learn about other people, and get to know someone with a different background/life-style, etc., in the process of dating.

[insanelyCRAZY]

yeah. there is such thing as that two different worlds couple thing..
um
first boyfriend was a thug and how should i put this...poor.
and im a spoiled rich girl. =x

from my exp
dating a person from a different "world" doesnt work out too well.

my current bf and i
we can really relate...for one; we're both materialistic.
and lovin it.

[Iko.]

I have a friend who's together with someone totally different from her atm. She's quiet and likes it peaceful and not so popular (no offense to her, our whole group isn't popular). He on the other hand, is wild and likes to party and hangs out at the rich people's shopping district and knnows lots of people. I really don't understand how they ended up together lol.

Sometimes opposites just attract each other like magnets. Different world really means nothing when you love eachother.

I personally believe that such a thing as "people choose the people they talk to" exist. I'm kinda skeptic with the clique things lol.

If you like him, shoot like a meteor and go for him.

[cherriholicxx]

I have to admit that I never really had this problem. -tilts head-
I never really thought of people in this world, and another in that world.
I've always treated people the same.
[I've always believed that no one should be treated highly than one or another. ^^;]
-but if you meant different world as in interests and not social status,
Then, well, yeah, I think there's such things. ^^;

[小甜密]

It all depends on who you choose to be with. If you love someone no matter what the circumstances are, then what matters even if you and his worlds are different? As long as both of your hearts are in the relationship altogether, then nothing is to fear or wonder about.

[maly&ahpulee]

star-crossed lovers.. =)

...but i don't know.. i've never been in this situation before. i would probably think some random guy from a different clique is attractive but i wouldn't get awestruck that i wouldn't know how to talk to him.

[natsurei]

Uhm. yeah o_o; like my boyfriend's group of friends are all alcoholics, smokers, druggies and some are gangsters and whatnot.
While...I have nerds, drama queens and girlie sheltered girls for friends =).

And before, I tend to had crushes on party-boy types, bad influenced people.
And my parents are really strict. No parties, just focus on study and family.
So definitely feeling that different worlds thing.

I guess you just have to stick it out and believe in yourself. And you will have tough times, where you feel, it's really not possible because of the differences. Lol. And it's also a great learning experience. Go for it.
At first, they might not take you seriously when you're trying to talk to them(unless your differences aren't all that bad and the person is quite the nice, open one). Don't let it discourage you. Haha.

[twinkle_l0ve]

I don't think its necessarily "physically" different worlds, but more "socially" different worlds e.g. values, social heirarchy, morals etc.
I think in today's society, social positioning and wealth is seen as a value so yes, some people will be selective with who they associate themselves with

[sparkerly]

Haha kind of?
I'm middle upper class and my significant other goes to a private high school with 30k+ tuition each year LOL.
But it doesn't really matter...you should like him/her for who he/she is really~

[lil_miss_kawaii]

I think this is normal

especially when you are in HighSchool

I felt the same because I wasnt in a clique ... well my and my friends were like "drifters" - we drift from one group to another as we please

But when I liked a guy he was getting popular, and the popular people werent a group we drifted to lol
But it did make me feel all awkward and shyer around him

But when you are older, the chances you will meet someone in the same clique is almost rare - because you meet them through friends or through work or in a bar - so you wouldnt really have the same social circle anyway

Don't worry about it love Just like him and if it works it works, if not move on

[RYUUSEi]

I won't say that it "doesn't matter at all" because in some way, it does. It puts a little strain to your relationship because of different values and lifestyles. But ... if you really love that person, you make it work. You just push all those negative thoughts aside and you make it work. That's all there is to it. You two might go through some hardships, but ALL relationships are like that.

Also, "opposites attracts". Maybe the fact that you two are from different worlds is what made you interested or attracted you to him in the first place? Who knows? It's not something you can change so you have to accept it.

[mary-xo.]

Also, "opposites attracts". Maybe the fact that you two are from different worlds is what made you interested or attracted you to him in the first place? Who knows? It's not something you can change so you have to accept it.

I dont think there is such a thing called "different worlds" in a relationship. We all live in the same planet, its just the environment that we live in, the lifestyles, and our own beliefs that makes us look like we are from different worlds, or one is superior than another. In a relationship, yes, it matters, but like RYUUSEi said, if you really love that person, you try to make it work. You wouldnt care about what kind of environment he/she grew up in, or whether his values fits yours. Simply because you love that person for who he/she is, and thats the only thing thats more valuable to you. You would try to put yourself in his/her perspective and could try to fit in with so-called "his/her world". If that doesnt work, just accept it. Theres nothing you can do to change it. Its just how it is.

[sus]

i really like my gf but she and i have much different interests
We don't really have mutual friends either
and yeah.

then find some common interests or develop new ones together...isnt that wat relationships are about
and make friends with her friends vice versa...a