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#1 User is offline   BORGUSX 

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Posted 23 February 2009 - 05:18 AM

Do you guys think that sleeping with your parents to a certain age will affect how you think in your future life? I don't know,but I was spoiled,since I remember when I was about 11 or 12 years old is when I began to sleep alone...

By the way,I don't get parents though. Is it awkward for having your child sleeping on your own bed in which you probably have sex on it,before?
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#2 User is offline   chopstick^^ 

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Posted 23 February 2009 - 05:30 AM

lol, so u slept with ur parents... what a joker. I know you mean as in sleeping in the bed, but its kinda cute. ^^

my mum n dad have a seperate bed, because my dad alway's working, n my mum like to have a big bed to herself, so i also used to sleep in the same bed with my mum.. i think i was a big baby, i actually like to sleep together, because i feel warm n i like affection from my own mum. you know?

I think it just made me feel closer to my mum and i care about her more. But i didn't always sleep together, just sometimes. But that was a long time ago. I sleep in my own bed now.
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 05:42 AM

i fall asleep on my mom's bed, so sometimes I just stay there. It's nice because it's still like sleeping on my own bed because she doesn't snuggle with me. Only in the morning when I'm awake but not really , she'll squish me for a little bit.
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 06:18 AM

Doesn't really matter to me if I sleep with them even at my age right now. So long as they don't kick me out of the bed and I sleep comfortably. But I don't sleep with my parents anymore, but if given the chance I'd always take the opportunity. Oh what the, I'm so blur. LOLZ.

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Posted 23 February 2009 - 06:25 AM

i stopped sleeping with them i think when i was 9, cause our house got renovated and we got our own rooms after..
and my parents aren't the touchy-feely type..
they'd actually rather talk to each other o.o


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Posted 23 February 2009 - 06:26 AM

My parents sleep in separate rooms. My mum has trouble sleeping and my dad is a light sleeper.

However, I've practically slept in the same bed with my mum since forever. I did start to sleep alone around when I was 13y.o. But I have a problem (nothing serious)...I'm afraid of the dark. I know it sounds childish. But I just can't stand being alone in the dark that's why I can't sleep alone.

However when I did use to sleep alone, I had a method of keeping the tv on and then sleeping setting my alarm to 3AM so that when I get woken up I'll be drowsy so I would turn off the tv (my dad's a freak when it comes to wasting electricity) and just go back to sleep cause I'll be so tired. It was efficient.

Until...my bf one night said something to me like stupid ghost stuff like the movie Shutter where the girl is sitting on his shoulders. Yeah so I was freaked out, but I usually watch scary movies at night and still go to bed fine. Just that night I decided to go sleep in my mum's room. She was out late so I was alone, I was asleep until I suddenly woke up not able to move my body but only my eyes. I wanted to scream but I couldn't. It was sleep paralysis or some like to believe a ghost is sitting on you. Whatever.

So as stupid as it sounds, well I stopped sleeping alone ever since that day. I haven't experienced sleep paralysis since that night but I can't sleep alone. I just can't. It's become a problem because it's not normal for me (practically an adult) to have trouble sleeping alone. I just know at least when I get married I will definitely be sleeping with my husband in the same bed!!!
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 06:40 AM

i think it really depends. our family really has that close tie, and we rarely meet up ever since i was young because they had jobs overseas. now, at least 2 months in a year that we're together - we all sleep in the same room. because after which, we'll all be alone anyways.

im 20 btw, and if given a chance. i will still sleep beside them.
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 06:55 AM

I like it because its nice having someone in the bed with you
I usually sleep in the same bed as my sister sometimes but we have different covers

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I don't think it will affect your future though - you may have some intimacy issues or like attachment issues in future relationships (like you always need someone) but i dont think it affects it as much as you think smile.gif

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Posted 23 February 2009 - 11:28 AM

i always found it awkward.. but my younger brother did it til he was about.. 12-13 ish? but that's cuz he had no place else to sleep.. i was either on the couch or floor and thought it awkward to sleep next to my mom.. but i slept comfortably next to my grandma until i was 14-15
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 11:55 AM

I used to sleep with my mum, i like sleeping with my mum coz she cuddle's me to sleep, but sometime i feel squash.

my cousin also sleeps with my grandma ever since they were baby's... n still do, now that they 17. but my grandma died recently, so they sleeping alone now.
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 12:24 PM

I've slept alone since I was like 4 or 5 but I'm only 13
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 12:38 PM

I use to sleep in the same bed as my mom growing up even though I had a room to myself, partially because I was afraid of the dark and being alone in the room at night, and because I was so use to having my mom there in the same bed with me. But when I was in middle school that's when I decided that it was time to sleep by myself, since then I've been sleeping by myself, if I was scared I'd just leave the light on. But my mom doesn't like sleeping alone so sometimes when my step dad is out for the night, she would tell me that I have to sleep in her room with her. lol. what a baby. sweatingbullets.gif
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 12:44 PM

Stopped sleeping in the same bed as my parents when I was in 2nd-3rd grade. Once in a while, i'd be scared of ghosts or whatever and sneak in. but they'd get pissed cus i'd sleep in the middle of them ....hehehe
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 01:27 PM

i stopped sleeping with my grandma after i turned 13.
im an only child, so i was spoiled. but i like to cuddle when i sleep smile.gif

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Posted 23 February 2009 - 01:47 PM

I never slept with my parents. I slept with older and younger siblings.
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 01:53 PM

the last time i really slept on the same bed as my parents
was up to 4. then after they had a little mattress laid out
in the same room. and started to sleep by myself
when i was 7 i think.
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 01:53 PM

hmm i think i stopped sleeping in my paretns bed when i was like 3 or 4?? I can't really remember xD!
I only did that sometimes though, i've always preferred sleeping in my own bed, with the lights out, and its pitch black *_*
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 01:57 PM

I stopped sleeping with my mom when I was around 12
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There were two beds in my parent's room. One for my mother and me and the other for my father. He snores a lot, that's why.

I couldn't sleep if my mom wasn't next to me
but one day my parents said I was getting too old and that I needed to sleep alone in my own room so I did.
I love sleeping alone now!!!!!!!!
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 02:25 PM

Oh YOU HAD to mention "the bed you had sex in before" hahahaha. Actually I am like, 98% sure my parents haven't had sex in years. GROSS THOUGHT GROSS THOUGHT.

Well, to answer your question it isn't awkward for me. I had to sleep in the same room with my parents since 4th grade because we didn't have enough rooms. Then I got my own room and that was sorta awkward. Then 5th grade came and my "Bloody Mary" phase came and I started sleeping in my parents room again. Then I went back to my own room. Then in 6th grade the "Spiders Laying Eggs in my Room" phase came, and I started sleeping in their room again. Then in 7th grade I stopped. Sleeping in my parents room isn't awkward or weird because we're Asian and we already once had to share only one room. Now I stopped sleeping in their room altogether because I'm old... and don't like sleeping with my parents, I prefer to sleep alone.
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 02:27 PM

My parents slept in separate rooms but that didn't stop me from sleeping with my mom when I was young. My dad was smelly anyways, and my mom has a really comfortable bed and warm, toasty room so I loved it, but I stopped sleeping with my mom around 6 years old. I sleep like a child, if you know what I mean (i.e. taking up the whole sheet, kicking while asleep, etc.)...
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