[Jentage]

Well you see..I have a sister who just turned 16 and is supposedly having her Sweet 16 dinner party tomorrow...

My mom, while asking my sister what she wanted the menu to have, asked her to call up our cousins and invite them, then I just said in a playful way: "Oo I want lobster!"

Then out of nowhere my sister says, "Oh who said you're invited?" in a very rude tone.

I'm 17 and it's really frustrating to have a 16 year old sister who think she's the "shizz". She talks a lot of trash and has a big pottymouth and needs to learn when to shut up but I'm not gonna be a parent to her and teach her. She should learn herself but she never does and always keeps blabbing on and on...

My sister and I do argue and have some physical altercations from time to time, then we get over it the next day... lol

BUT this verbal trash talking is annoying the hell out of me. X_X I really sometimes wish I had a brother or just remain a single child...honestly but I guess I should appreciate having a sister, although she is really really annoying...

So who out there has sibling(s) ? Do they bother you? How do you handle the situation(s) ???

[hobobear]

i have two older brothers. when we were younger my second brother and I would use to fight a lot (constantly hitting each other). but now it's kinda mellowed out more. i guess as you get older, things will eventually die down. i'm now 19 and he's 22. i still make fun of him and he still makes fun of me, and we just both laugh at it.

don't be wishing to be an only child... i hate it when my brothers don't go to family dinners/outings and i'm the only one that has to suffer alone. i like having a brother with me when going on those awkward family reunions.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Young people are like that.
My brother is also annoying in a way.

[twinkle_l0ve]

with the verbal fights, just fight her - yell and scream all you want
then just ignore her for ages. By "ignore" I mean, don't even talk to her or look at her

[크리스틴]

ugh i have THREE SISTERS...pain in the ass sometimes...but majority of the time i guess we get along? lol of course there is favoritism and its so annoying..i mean were effing family..must we really play favorites?

but when it does come down to arguments/annoyances.. i tend to just stay away and let them fume out their anger..cause i just get annoyed with it so i dont wanna deal with it

[Jentage]

with the verbal fights, just fight her - yell and scream all you want
then just ignore her for ages. By "ignore" I mean, don't even talk to her or look at her

Haha I was thinking of that...and when they come crawling back at you for help, they say sorry sorry sorry..ahh..

plus she always tries to leech off my past schoolwork since we go to the same school and our school somewhat gives the same work every year so she tries to take the easy way out and copy all the old homeworks I've done... But good thing I threw majority of it away

[Apvivi]

I have a brother hes older then me, but hes very annoying... like honestly the one that bothers who the most is him. He would always go in my room or touches/takes my stuff without me knowing and when I do that to him he goes berserk. I can't really do anything about it since hes the bigger sibling and most of the time its unfair to me. Mostly how he needs me more then I need him. So i just isolate him out most of the time or else we would get in arguments/fights. Its rare that we would share a fun moment together or once in a while.

[Ida]

It is a phase. Some takes longer to get over it, some will come to the realization sooner, and some will stay in it. Let's hope for the middle-option.

I also have a little sister who turned 14 in January. I remember when I was her age - all the way through junior/senior of high school, I was exactly like her. Very arrogant, carefree, badmouth, talk back without sense and etc. In terms of siblings though, her kind is relatively new to our family because my older sister is very mild-tempered (so I had it my way when I was her age) So I guess it is a karma now that I have to deal with the mini-me (my little sister).

-ida

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Sorry, forgot to type how I deal with her? I have BEEN THERE, DONE THAT. Everything she pulls, I can see right through it with one eye close. So yes, I do used this against her. I'll tell her the result (accurately) and when it did happened...she'll eventually shut up.

[silent8]

lol threaten to beat them! im the second eldest and when one of my siblings annoy me i warn them to back off or else i will hit them. it works and they back unless they're feeling a bit cocky that day and want to push me. but i've noticed that with my youngest sister i cant go through with my threat, she's too cute! plus she hardly ever annoys me. lol it's gonna be hell when she figures it out!

my older bro is very annoying sometimes. we've only play fought never serious, cos i'd lose hands down. [he is bigger and stronger] when he annoys me really bad i just dont talk to him or mess up his stuff and then run to my mum or dad.

i do wish i was and only child! things would be soo much easier. my family sitcho is a bit weird so i do experience what it is like to live like an only child and yes i do miss my siblings but i'd rather be an only child.

[chopstick^^]

My sister and I do argue and have some physical altercations from time to time, then we get over it the next day... lol

That is soooo family!! I think all(most) all family's are like that. we argue, and then next day we forget about it, we never seem to hold a grudge and it's all forgotten about.

me and my sister we might argue 1 night, n then the next morning, she come's n kiss my cheek, n give's me a present, or sometime she just back to her normal self, n act like nothing ever happened. im the youngest.

There was 1 time when she did somthing and i was really annoyed n upset about, i ignored her for 3 days..
and then she decided to help me out on something, and then i forgot and forgive her about what happened, n continue being back to how we used to be.

Most of the time, we make up by making silly joke's ..... n then came laughter, n then we fine.. we dnt say "sorry" .. i think it's common amognst Asian's... they normally do things to show how they feel, rather than saying it.

But ur sis is rude, but since u said the next day is back to normal, i think just repeat wot u say. or woteva haha...
n see how she reacts.

It feel's very awkward to ignore ur siblings, esp because ur family... u don't want to have a family as an enemy.
So i normally feel bad about it, n hope things get better. Somehow, it's good that they are being themselve's around u, if they turn into stranger, start acting polite (when it's not their natural self) .. that's when u shuld feel worried.

[Swtess]

She talks a lot of trash and has a big pottymouth and needs to learn when to shut up but I'm not gonna be a parent to her and teach her. She should learn herself but she never does and always keeps blabbing on and on...

As the older sister, you should've taught her how to speak properly. Just leaving the duty to your parents doesn't really make you the better one.

[sk_dragon]

my sisters and i (1 older sister & 1 younger sister i'm stuck in the middle)ALWAYS argue when we get in a room together we cuss each other out and we've had SEVERE physical fights that has almost always ended with our little sister getting hurt or stitches but we get along fine after that - so basically what i'm saying is if we can't agree with each other then we beat the CRAP out of each other until we can.

-but this doesn't always work for everybody mind u but it does for us! (and yes....I know we're savages)

[NijiKyoryuu]

Man, I know EXACTLY what you're going through. xD;;

I'm 17, going on 18, and my sister is 15, going on 16.
She acts like she's the shizz no matter where she is, and doesn't care who it hurts, how it hurts them or what they say.
She can get out of any situation by saying "whatever", "Fff, ok.", or anything bitxhy sounding like that either because people are intimidated by her, or because they just don't want it to be a big drama factory.
So she keeps acting like that because she knows no one will oppose her or think badly of her.
She's popular in school BECAUSE of this attitude [and her apparent ~*~gorgeousness~*~] and she's friends with like, everybody.
Basically she's your typical high school girl.

I can't do much about it, because sadly my mom and step-dad are always on her side, no matter what.
I choose to just ignore it and not get into anything with anyone because I KNOW I'm right most of the time, and I don't need to get into an argument to prove it.

Maybe that would be the best thing for you to do, too?

Either way, you're probably the smarter one of you two, so atleast you can take pride in that. :'D

[hippiehop]

Oh wow your sister is a BRAT!

I guess I'm lucky I have two older sisters who don't act like that... and we're all overprotective of each other haha.

Hopefully, as she gets older she'll learn to appreciate you.

[plegend2007]

I have a younger sister who is also 16. She bugs the crap out of me and always wanting to argue and fight with me over little things...lol. She asks me for money, rides, and other things that i can do for her. When she was younger, she would listen, but not now...lol. I won't ever hit her, just yell at her sometimes. But at the end, she always gets what she wants because i give in...lol. I know that she loves me in her own way and she is my only sister after all. So i don't mind at all, just annoying sometimes. It's a good thing, i only see her on the weekends now....less arguing and i have more money in my pocket...lol.

[super cool snail]

I love my brother
I love it even more when his young guy friends sleep over

[teaispink]

i have a younger brother (5 years apart)makes him 14 me 19
He used to b very disrespectful and annoying, so i didnt take it anymore
so one day he was doin the same annoying thing to me so i just slapped and pushed him on to the ground
making him fall backwards he was shocked and after that day he started respecting me became very polite and scared of me.

[lee-chan]

i have three younger sisters. the one next to me is fine, we seldom argue but the third one, she tends to have this annoying mood swings and gets really rude not just to me but my family! If I get really impatient I tend to fight with her but only verbally. But if she's like in good mood we share alot of things in common. Pros and cons of having siblings.. thats family for you.

[Rainity]

my brother is the most arrogant, annoying, irritating sibling ever,
hes really always wants everything in the family to be his way and like.. we cant control him..
its sooo annoying TT"

[ShadowMax76]

o_O' dysfunctionality is how we work. lol.
i think i, as the big brother, sorta made a bad influence over his speaking abilities. >_>' and when i made a turn for the better, he was already ignoring me [and thinkin' i was gay with no friends. >_>" why do lil brothers always think that]. sooo.....

_ i don't deal with him. we don't talk. o_O' but eh. that's not an answer..