[quyennypoo]

Hi guys,
I've been dating this super nice guy for about 6 months now. At first i couldn't get enough and we both made so much effort to see each other and surprise each other. Lately, I feel like the only reason i say i love him is because of the sake of it but at times i really mean it.

BUT we see less of each other and we are super busy...i am in my last year of university and i need to focus on my studies and he has to work 6 days a week and the only day we see each other we end up getting upset over little things. Don't get me wrong i do really love him but not like i used to. I know if i tell him that I'm confused i'd hurt his feelings and i dont want to but then feeling like this its eating me up...

what should i do its only been 6 months and i feel like this... when we're together its great but we end up fighting over little things
it feels like i'v forgotten the reasons why im in this relationship but he's done nothing wrong? what would you do?

Thanks guys

[donporkuloin]

I say stick things out. You said this is your last year of University. So when it's done wouldn't you get more time with each other? Fighting over little things is what couples do. It seems to me like you don't wanna be with him, because he's a super nice guy. What was the point of mentioning he's a super nice guy? Lol.

[hippiehop]

Do you WANT to be with him?



Do you WANT things to work out?


I'm sure you know that relationships take work, but if you aren't willing to work to fix things... I think that's when you should call it quits.

[AresJK]

try thinking what would it be like if you aren't dating him
then just decide whether that situation is better then the one you are in

[joongielove]

I live by this phrase.

"If you have to ask if you should stay with him, you already know what your answer is."

Good luck.

[rawr! :3]

you know its time to let go when you dont feel the same anymore.
what i meant is like butterflies and smiling like a fool when thinking about him.
i think the best thing to do is just talk to him about it.
getting upset about little things are very common for couples.
it's what they do. LOL. just follow your heart i guess.
if you feel like its not working out, then it's time to end it...
but if you still want to be with him, then let it be.. goodluck (:

[princesspoppy]

I live by this phrase.

"If you have to ask if you should stay with him, you already know what your answer is."

Good luck.

Oh I agree.

[quyennypoo]

I say stick things out. You said this is your last year of University. So when it's done wouldn't you get more time with each other? Fighting over little things is what couples do. It seems to me like you don't wanna be with him, because he's a super nice guy. What was the point of mentioning he's a super nice guy? Lol.

i only say that he is a super nice guy because i can't fault him as a partner...he really is great
im so stressed with my work and i don't feel like i can be there for him when he gets days off, and he can't be here for me when im free...
and i don't get the butterflies anymore but thats normal right?

How can i work things out if we don't see each other and every time we do our arguments escalate on this whole other level..
but then at times things turn out perfect and we're all lovey dovey....

[whiterainbowx]

Are you willing to make it work somehow??
Will you regret it if you end the relationship?

Not getting butterflies probably means that you're at that level of comfort with him. Don't think it as abnormal~ [Although I guess occasionally we're allowed to feel nervous xD ]

[5.mystline]

Tell him the truth and the fact you need some space or a break to concentrate on final year at uni? & perhaps he'll understand your stress then.

[dazzlingorgeous]

if you want to be with him then work things out...i think fighting over littles is something all couples do..(like me and my bf)..lol...but its ok...if you want to be with im...tell him how your feeling and talk it out with him...you never know how hes feeling...maybe he feels the same way and wants to make effort...you never know hun!~_^...

Good Luck! =)

[Wendyyy]

Maybe you're one of those people that need a relationship "break" to decide what you guys want and then either get back together again or break up forreal. Idk. It sounds like you've lost your feelings for him but you still regard him as a close companion.
Just trust your instincts and do what you think is best! Good luck!

[The Pink Panda]

I think it's normal for final year uni students to feel a little confused; the prospect of a huge lifestyle change after graduation, lots of work and pressure...