[donporkuloin]

Would you hold hands on the first date?

[` T O K Y O]

Why not?
it's not like you're meeting the person for the first time in your life.
I think walking around on the streets while holding hands would be alright on the first date

[CitrusFlower]

I wouldn't, to me it's moving to fast

[choot]

for me, that might be a LITTLE awkward because im more of "trying to get to know the person im dating" first, rather than ACTION HERE and THERE. i guess im more "closed".

[PhunGar]

yea agreed with the first post it would seem a bit too fast, although it would be nice you would come off as too eager

[hippiehop]

Probably not. I wouldn't even hug unless he initiated it.

[AresJK]

suuuure why not
its all good and fun haha

[votre-beau]

I wouldn't initiate anything until I'm pretty confident that he feels the same way with me, and wouldn't run away with simple physical interactions. : D

[s a r a n g]

i dont think its bad at all

[rexophilius]

Yeah, I would.

I don't really see it as such a big deal; I hold hands with both my male and female friends a lot.

[the sweetest prince]

Holding hands is a relationship thing. I wouldnt do it unless im in a relationship. I did that back in high school when I was naive but now I know better.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Assuming you're not in relationship yet, and is trying to get her.
1st date-Nothing, just chill
2nd date-Hug in the end maybe
3rd date-Hold hands.

If you've reached a 3rd date, I really don't think she would reject the holding hands

[ミ★♫윤아♫☆ミ]

I held hands on my first date! <3 :3 Hehe

[AnthonyKkoKko]

hahaha.... everybody's opinion is so different from mine. the elementary school where i grew up...

when people got together, they held hands right away, not even on an official date yet. haha. so even before their first date, they would hold hands.... weird, huh? so i always grew up thinking that holding hands should be initiated right away.

and my friends give me hugs lol. even friends who are guys... and friends who are girls, too, of course. they all give me hugs....

do you think i go to a weird school? i think everybody just loves each other

kisses are not as common, but still happen a lot. but i think before the first date, you should already have known that person somewhat well already... i dunno. or if you really don't know them, then yeah.

but holding hands can of course be initiated on the first date. why not? i don't think it's going too fast at all. what if your girlfriend thinks her hands are cold? are you just gonna ignore her? grab her hand already...

God bless~
-Anthony

[onhotwires]

It depends on whether it's the first date with a guy that I already like and know or whether it's the first date with a guy that I'm getting to know/that I'm merely interested in.

[sixth.]

^ what she said.

if i liked the guy from ages before, then i'm pretty open minded with what happens on the first date.

[bebexlove]

Depends on the comfort level with the person.

But with my current bf's first date we didn't. xD

We were both too shy. ^^

[Alice16uy]

haha, I hold hand with my BFF who is a guy all the time (platonic). It's not that big of a deal to me.
first date...yes no problem.

[ajlee613]

lots of ppl just do it all on the first date.

in general as u get older u'll see that kisses are really not a big deal and its totaly ok amung strangers who are attracted to eachother that just kinda click. etc.

holding hands on the first date, if u dont get that far ur probably still in early middle school or elementry school. which is totaly fine.

[dazzlingorgeous]

yes sure why not...i think holding hands on the first date is more "special" feeling the first time...because after you've dated forever..you'll get tired of it...ahaha trust me..but it depnds on the type of people...